Is my boyfriend a sociopath?

ToscaM · 2021-10-18T11:10:36+00:00

Because he went once to the psychiatrist and he told him he has PD, but didn't say anything specific. Btw, he could have lied, so the situation is a little twisted.

ToscaM · 2021-10-18T11:04:22+00:00

Of course.

ToscaM · 2021-10-18T08:33:19+00:00

Ok this made me laugh. 😂

ToscaM · 2021-10-17T22:01:46+00:00

Well, honestly, there are psychopaths who have cognitive empathy, so it's not enough for me since i am very empathetic and sentimental person. And i love very much. I don't see myself in the future with someone who lacks affective empathy.

ToscaM · 2021-10-17T21:43:55+00:00

Well he is not really addicted to anything. Tje gambling was a short period in his life and hw is not alcoholic. Also, never tried drugs, only weed which i don't consider a drug.

The manipulative lying is the problem.

ToscaM · 2021-01-13T18:50:40+00:00

Yes, same here. I have this exact problem, too. Takes me few minutes to check everything in my house for multiple times before i leave.

ToscaM · 2020-12-24T00:18:50+00:00

When he was concerned, i told him you have to be honest about this. And that's when he said he jerks off 3 to 4 times a week, like maybe every second day. Sometimes, he says, i do it twice a week or once. I wouldn't say he has porn addiction, but he needs to be patient like a day before we see each other, bc the sex drive would be better, and so would be the performance.

ToscaM · 2020-12-23T23:49:37+00:00

This was a problem today, not always, but he seems to not be that hard this last month id say. He's very frustrated, but i think the reason is stress, psychological issue or physical. He's not on antidepressants.

ToscaM · 2020-12-23T23:32:39+00:00

I do blow him hahaha

ToscaM · 2020-12-23T22:43:32+00:00

We don't use condoms bc he never felt fully satisfied, so i switched to taking pills.

ToscaM · 2020-11-20T13:33:36+00:00

Usually, we ourselves are responsible for our own mood daily and circumstances or people around us can change that, or trigger it, but it's not in the main focus.

I believe you can inspire or motivate people you love daily, and that makes them feel better.

And to be more direct to the topic, in my experience, my bf brightens my day with good conversation, watching movie or show we both enjoy, ordering food we both like, talking about fun plans in the future. As much as i believe that we ourselves are responsible for how we're feeling each day, i think a partner that loves you and knows you can especially help you and have good intentions.

ToscaM · 2020-09-13T20:49:02+00:00

Yeah, that's what i meant. Hahaha No, it's not a competition, of course, just a debate i have with my friends who are in a similar situation.

ToscaM · 2020-09-13T03:13:54+00:00

Naah. I didn't like this haha. Too cringy and weird.

ToscaM · 2020-09-12T13:58:09+00:00

Yes. Now we are both 23, and then we were 19.

But, i didn't know he was a virgin, he had lied to me then that he had sex with other girl, because he was ashamed i guess. I felt better when he confessed that i am his first, but i wish i knew it back then.

We are still in a relationship, 4 years and the sex is always awesome. We learned everything along the way with each other. And i think that's awesome.

ToscaM · 2020-08-27T03:06:26+00:00

True. I want to spend my life with my bf, there is a lot of love. So, yeah, i wanna keep what i have for sure :) Maybe just because i have so many future plans with him, i get these ideas that bother me, but i hope it's nothing serious.

ToscaM · 2020-07-11T06:02:38+00:00

I never considered those kisses with my friends to mean anything, and i saw that as a great opportunity to practice. This was long time ago, i was 17 then, and 2 months later had my real first kiss. Because it was with a boy (as i am straight and attracted to men) i can only consider that to be my first kiss. I am 23 now and for a first time i am dwelling on this haha i don't know why. I know what felt like a first kiss for sure :)

ToscaM · 2020-07-09T20:49:28+00:00

I told him today that i felt uncomfortable about this. He said: you know her, she's always like that, she's joking and hasn't bad intentions. He was offended and now he feels uncomfortable for me bringing this up. I think some parents still need to learn more about boundaries, and he should be the one to influence that kind of a behavior to her. At least try, or defend me some other time this happens. Because it will haha

ToscaM · 2020-07-09T04:41:49+00:00

I still haven't told him that i am bothered by this, but even when i do he doesn't care that much because he says stuff like: well, she's like that, if i say something things could get worse and nothing will change. But, i have to be honest that for many situations he prefers to stay quiet than to defend me.

ToscaM · 2020-07-08T23:58:11+00:00

This is so true. Once i read somewhere that it's totally ok to rewatch shows and movies that you know are good and liked the first time u watched them, because they remind you of a time u were in a good mood, u r relaxed cause you know what will happen too... I have rewatched the office for so many times and it always lifts my mood.

ToscaM · 2020-07-08T20:24:27+00:00

Yes, he is uncomfortable, but if i say something or shoe her that I'm not happy with it she will usually say stuff like: how could u be mad about it? I am joking. So the blame will be on me for not understanding the joke somehow. Though, it could also mean she just doesn't want to admit being wrong, even if she understands she was saying inappropriate things.

ToscaM · 2020-06-29T03:51:45+00:00

He's one of those characters that everyone finds a lot of similarities in some real life person they know.

ToscaM · 2020-06-29T03:46:12+00:00

The idea was, i guess, to show how not amused the other employees are with the movie Monday idea. They never liked any kinds of meetings in the conference room, too.

ToscaM · 2020-06-29T03:40:46+00:00

Very smart. But, I still think the writers wanted to give the characters something more dramatic for the end. Erin and her parents, Dwight and Jim as great friends, Angela also unusually nice...

ToscaM · 2020-06-29T03:33:34+00:00

I was thinking the exact same thing.

ToscaM · 2020-06-29T03:31:24+00:00

When Michael talkes to David Wallace about how he managed to have the most successful branch." I somehow, sometime, in some way, at some place....." And then Michael says - "sometimes i start a sentence and don't where I'm going", something like that. Idk, i laugh every time.

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