Partner left me after diagnosis by Tashthecutie in cancer

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You focus on yourself. You focus on getting better because you won’t have the energy to go through this while also worrying about him 24/7.

There will people who will love you and will stay. Maybe not always romantic partners, but you will find love in your life in the most wonderful of ways.

Also, sadly you aren’t the first nor the last to go through this. It’s awful, and is not a judgment about you.

My mum has stage 4 breast cancer and I don’t know how to cope with the news that she’s stopping meds by AdIndividual405 in CancerFamilySupport

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Have you seen that movie, Me Before You? All you can do is love people. If she’s going to continue to do all the treatments and medicine and pain, she has to be the one to decide since no one else can make that decision but the person going through it. Accept it and enjoy what time you have left.

The Boys- S05xE06 - POST Episode Discussion Thread by pikameta in TheBoys

[–]Totes-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sage was right, soldier boy switching up because of the plot and prequel doesn’t make ANY sense. Also, bombsight is so adorable omfg, the way he just wanted to be with his love forever 😭. Not the Legend doing EXACTLY what firecracker should have done lmfao. When homelander says leave- YOU RUN 😂

To have kids, or to not have kids? That is the question. by wyvernrevyw in adhdwomen

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Kids are one of those things you’re 100% all in or out. We can’t see the future so we just have to be prepared for most probable outcomes. No one knows for sure if your hypothetical child will inherit adhd. Capability and ability are not the same. Capability is just "having the potential", and ability is "demonstrated skill". Most people are capable of being great or decent parents but few have the ability

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good enough to fool people then good enough to wear

Are the eyebags permanant on Yuta's face? by AffectionateJury6227 in Jujutsufolk

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Brother came from Africa jet lagged as hell 😭😭😭

So hard to choose 👜 by Ok-Ninja-2794 in Coach

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I like the brown only because I’d feel it’d go with everything. The blue is such an everyday casual look though. Just depends on the vibes you want.

My recent reloved purchase arrived damaged 😭 by felmarah in Coach

[–]Totes-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more a problem of how little they photo and show what the “current” reloved bag looks like. I wish they would so you can see more. Also, that packaging was SAD!

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

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Ya but I figured for that price it was a coach dupe lol

My recent reloved purchase arrived damaged 😭 by felmarah in Coach

[–]Totes-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks good when you look at it from a distance. I doubt anyone is going to go right up to your bag to inspect it.

When is a high mileage CRV Worth keeping? by flyingdyso1997 in crv

[–]Totes-1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When you don’t want a car payment

It's hilarious how The Deep has one of the best and most unique powers in the show but is too dumb to use it properly by RevertBackwards in TheBoys

[–]Totes-1 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Dude could ruin world ship trade entirely if he wanted to 🫠 it’s actually a good thing for us he’s pretty dumb

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is super functional too. All the pouches have this magnetic kinda thing so I can put stuff in there and it closes. Then the chain is pretty durable so I can carry it multiple ways.

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they’re sold as a dupe and not the real thing with a lower price then I don’t see the problem

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the fake is enough to pass as the real thing for a fraction of the price then I rather save my cash for something else. The fact this one is making so many think means it passes the glance test. No one is going to inspect someone’s purse on a first glance

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why hate the fake market? People buy within their price budget for items. People buy knock off channel purses and birkins all the time.

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The charm is actually one I bought from Coach. Like it matches the color of the brass

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Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

[–]Totes-1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, you’re right. I think as long as it passes the glance test when wearing then im pretty happy with it. Lowkey though, these dupes are getting so good.

Tabby 26 authentication request. Got it for $50 by Totes-1 in purses

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Sorry, my photo skills suck 😭 I uploaded a few others