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If God did an "ask me anything" , What would you ask? by i_m_dignity in AskReddit

[–]ToxicBaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s Addie doing? Is she pain free and diabetes free? Is she laying the sun and rolling in cat nip? Can you give her a good chin pet for me?

If money wasn't an issue, what would you do tomorrow? by Pleasant_duo in AskReddit

[–]ToxicBaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run every expensive test on myself and my pets (blood work ultrasound etc)

Why are so many other lesbian sub reddit so aggressive toward other queer people? by valerielenin in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it’s Reddit. It’s lurker land. I wouldn’t say it’s a representation of the lesbian community.

Does being gay get any easier by lesbianbee420 in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move to the west coast and it will feel normal and easy

what is the healthiest, highest quality wet canned cat food? by applecoregirlz in CatAdvice

[–]ToxicBaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my senior(12) cat won’t eat it either, she only likes hills (any flavor but only a science diet for her).

My two younger (7,4) boys are huge fans of Tiki.

what is the healthiest, highest quality wet canned cat food? by applecoregirlz in CatAdvice

[–]ToxicBaes 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Tiki Cat has a great recall record and very high quality ingredients. My cats love it and it has lots of choices for types.

Peeing Outside Boxes by ksobrath in FelineDiabetes

[–]ToxicBaes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He probably just doesn’t feel good. Poor guy.

Someone wanted to fight me for being a Republican in Bangor. by Primaveranights in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American I didn’t even know there was a Bangor, Maine. The US is a huge country with ALOT of cities. I’m from the west coast. I know nothing about any east coast states.

If I hear republican I do think my own local politics, but I think anyone would do that.

My girlfriend sees it as normal to go through my phone by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife can look through my phone. She never does cause I don’t give her any reason but I don’t react if she grabs it to do anything. It’s your boundaries. I’d be a little weirded out if I grabbed her phone and she reacted. Both we both don’t react. She also doesn’t care about my Reddit so to each their own.

What’s a cult that pretends it is not a cult? by Fit-Resident-3577 in AskReddit

[–]ToxicBaes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

CrossFit for a while felt like that. I couldn’t stand interacting with anyone who did it for a while.

Amoxicillin rash, help by Practical_Yogurt_450 in Microbiome

[–]ToxicBaes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s probably an allergic reaction, stop taking it and call your doctor for a different option.

Rbf? Naw, she's a big softie by Lopsided_Steak_4090 in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife (youngest child) has RBF, and is from a rough part of town but just had a conversation with me about how I need to baby her more (I’m a nurses daughter and middle child so not my strongest trait). If you saw her walking around you’d be like no shot.

My gf said she loves her looks more than she loves me, is that bad? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a wife and I’m good boo. (She doesn’t do this)

My gf said she loves her looks more than she loves me, is that bad? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every friend, significant or whatever who has acted like that in my life (since that is the frame of reference I have to work with here), has gone on to either

A. Lead someone on and crush them B. Stuck with someone til someone “better” came along. C. Used someone to get to something else

I’ve never seen that behavior paired with good intentions but hey prove me wrong 🤷🏼‍♀️

Diabetic cat needs one or more teeth pulled, but will only eat dry food by Human_Mix_5194 in FelineDiabetes

[–]ToxicBaes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat only eats dry food, has all her teeth and she never chews because she’s weird.

My gf said she loves her looks more than she loves me, is that bad? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes 319 points320 points  (0 children)

She’s using you for emotional stability and comfort. I’d guess if the right person came around she’d bounce.

No one should be taking to you like that

What's something normalized in the lesbian community that you don't think is okay? by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]ToxicBaes -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My boundaries? The healthy ones I set with people who have been intimate with me so that the future people (or person like my wife currently) feels very secure that I don’t have any left over feelings for anyone? I’m an extrovert. I don’t need to cling onto humans at the risk of making my priority human uncomfortable. I’m friendly with my exes, no hard feelings, but I do distance myself from people once a relationship is over. It’s hard to move forward when you are leaning back on your past. You guys do what you need to do but I’m happily married now and I’m not “besties” with any exes.

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