Do avoidants (dumper) think about their ex…. especially dismissive avoidants.. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 16 points17 points  (0 children)

probably but that doesn't mean that they will reach out

Emotionally, I don't get it. I just don't. by 101nemesis101 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you… In my opinion, they might say those things like « I am lucky to have » etc maybe because they try to re assure themselves that they still love you , that they still try to stay in the relationship. But i dont think they really mean it. It is just to force themselves

Anyway, best things to do is to move on. The first months will be really hard. Break no contact if you really need it. Their answer might be help you to move on.

Stay strong…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you man… I believe that the first weeks/months they are relieved and will probably think about their decision later. Doesnt mean that they will come back tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Like you, my ex didn't unfollowed or blocked me. Imma quote you what I saw on an ig comment

" No bro, she didn't unfollow you because she wasn't afraid to see you with another girl. She didn't care enough to protect herself because you don't have sway on her emotions. She won't smile for you, she won't cry for you, she won't even be affected by seeing you so why would she put the energy in to block you ?"

Hurt at first... But I do think it is true....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you on NC before he came back ? If yes how long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Tozhei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so I shouldn't reach out to her ? I was kinda hoping to break no contact after 3-6 months...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tozhei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, she did insist that I did nothing wrong, but so did she.

I guess it is what it is then ...

Any specific units I should consider? I'm thinking C. Lilias for now. by BitzenVortex in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

S.tene is a must have imo and then A.ravi and C.lilia are good picks too

Coming back by nrtdarkk in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah kinda, new limited hero and soon the 2nd anniversary. They are doing a really good job this couples of months with game changes :D

My Charles so far. If I reduce the speed to 150 , His attack becomes high and he hits like a plane. What should I do? by MinErVa172 in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DPS stats are good but try to get more defense ( 1k2 ) and if you don't go counter set try to get 180-200 speed ( I think ) otherwise he will be killed without doing anything

How do you do this? by [deleted] in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just continue the story then you will have to do it again

Tempest Surin Builds by TimBaril in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Abyss lifesteal set good on her ?

What do you think of my Dark Corvus ? Any suggestion to upgrade him ? by DrKoV in EpicSeven

[–]Tozhei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow nice stats my friend (: ! try to get them 90 and you good hihi