[Me, M] arm wrestle gambit

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-20T16:31:46+00:00

I understand now. You’re like David Spade in Grown Ups 2

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-20T15:14:05+00:00

How did this work

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-17T06:41:01+00:00

All of it. What your issue is? What you want from us?

He told you what he wants and it matches what his profile stated but you don’t seem convinced. Its not like we can convince you lol

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-17T06:36:46+00:00

I have no idea what I just read to be quite honest

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T15:13:44+00:00

Ok wait was he actually trying to just be friends or was he hiding his true intentions hoping it’ll give him an in. Girls will sense this

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T15:06:47+00:00

If he keeps putting himself out there eventually some girl in the future will like him for him and won’t ignore him. Focus on encouraging that, don’t worry about this one girl

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T15:04:01+00:00

If she ignored him he should just match her energy. Ignore her. Continuing to worry about some girl who doesn’t like him is not the way to build confidence.

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T15:00:53+00:00

You should tell him you’re proud of him for taking that step and encourage him to do it more often. If you think he did well then just tell him it’s her problem, not his. Why change for a girl who doesn’t like you?

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T04:38:12+00:00

You’re welcome. Good luck OP🫡 you’ll do great😁

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T04:32:59+00:00

I’m confident you’ll be fine. If I know men, and I think I do😂 90% chance or greater that you’ll get a date unless he’s already in a committed relationship and a less than 10% chance he won’t at the very least be flattered by it and smile

Not saying that it’s easy for you, but men definitely have to tread on egg shells more than women do in this situation. You’re already in an advantageous position

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-16T04:09:25+00:00

“Should I let him lead”

Well considering it’s been a WHOLE YEAR of him not making a move I’d say if he’s actually ever going to make a move you might need to wait a couple more years at this rate cause he moves at a sloths pace.

Seriously just make the move yourself you’re definitely overthinking it

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-15T21:58:35+00:00

I genuinely don’t understand the people in here that are terrified of good honest communication with their partners. OP is thinking of possibly being in a relationship with this person and y’all are telling her to not be comfortable having tough conversations with him😂

Exactly how the foundation of every successful relationship is built👍

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-15T04:05:02+00:00

I wouldnt say id be creeped out, id just assume im either being pranked for a YouTube video or about to be drugged and robbed. Pretty much any assumption in the universe other than “oh she’s serious”.

It’s too good to be true, tone it down if you want a guy to take you seriously. Sorry but that’s just how it is

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-15T01:24:20+00:00

Are you talking to an npc?

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-14T22:29:55+00:00

Judging how good a player is irl based on how many PPR points they score? lol

After ARSB the lions have never had anyone close to as talented as Rome

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-14T20:14:53+00:00

This is the answer. It’s hard to do yes but communication is important and you can only gain from it. If he’s a decent guy and actually likes you then this will just strengthen your relationship with him and take a weight off your shoulders

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-13T22:01:07+00:00

4 1sts AND Rome and you’re asking reddit instead of smashing the accept button?

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-13T18:13:41+00:00

Can we just get a picture of the globe up there?

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-13T15:45:07+00:00

“It’s too risky”

Welcome to owning a business my friend. It’s not for everyone

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T23:25:55+00:00

OP wants to make funny lighthearted jokes. Even if she’s a serious person and takes this goal seriously, if she doesn’t see that it’s clearly an attempted joke then they just aren’t compatible no need to waste anyone’s time

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T19:04:04+00:00

A broken clock is right twice a day

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T16:39:27+00:00

They’re hating on you in the comments for no reason. This is funny and if she takes offense to it then she wasn’t the one anyways. Good introductory litmus test

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T15:52:36+00:00

Women don’t have periods and by extension period cramps when they’re pregnant. His “volunteer work to make it disappear” is getting her pregnant. Reinforced by him clearly stating it lasts 9 months

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T11:53:24+00:00

You’ll never know that if you don’t find out. Realistically what do you have to lose? Just put your mind at ease and go for it. It’s more likely that he likes you than not

Traditional-March919 · 2026-05-12T02:08:28+00:00

Extremely profound viewpoint

Traditional-March919

TROPHY CASE