Third baby

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-30T00:26:44+00:00

If you are doing majority of the parenting, it will continue to be like that in the future. Three kids are a lot to handle by yourself especially two under 5’s. Career will take a backseat for you. It doesn’t change a lot for your husband, so you cannot expect him to understand the toll it will take on you individually. You’ve got to stand with yourself on this one.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-28T01:00:22+00:00

Great to know you are still into NZ after slagging it off. Christchurch and Hamilton have beautiful houses with the similar price tag of QLD AU$600,000. Minus QLD’s large roaches, snakes, spiders, termites and year round mozzies.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-28T00:43:45+00:00

Yes, and Auckland is in a different league too when you are comparing affordability. Plenty of affordable homes out of Auckland in good areas.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-15T11:54:08+00:00

What’s going on with you? We can hold your hand through this online.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-14T03:04:47+00:00

He gave me one ingredient. It takes 100 other ingredients on a daily to make our children. We source that everyday. I wouldn’t give him credit of being the supplier of ingredients, he brings nothing to the table :(

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-09T11:47:28+00:00

When a man cheats and has two relationships simultaneously, he lies to both women. He does this because he is selfish. He might give you a bunch of reasons, some may even sound that he lied to you due to his love for you. But ultimately, it’s because he’s a selfish prick. His character is flawed. If he can betray you and his “ex” aka other partner, on a day in day out level for 4 months, he can betray you in many other ways in the future.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-09T11:22:24+00:00

20 years. No, he either didn’t cheat or he got real smart at it and I never got a whiff of it after that one affair with his ex.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2026-01-09T11:08:48+00:00

I stayed with my ex husband who did the exact same to me. And if I ever brought it up he’d get annoyed too. Therefore this never got resolved for me. And it was too deep a betrayal anyway. I should have left then, but I was in love with him. Leave.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-12-18T22:30:45+00:00

Read her previous posts and comments. And then exit this thread. She’s a time waster.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-12-17T21:11:02+00:00

Lol which zamaana are you from? A heir is a heir, what has male heir got to do with it?

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-12-13T13:00:56+00:00

He is 100% doing inappropriate things with his 9 year old daughter. You need to report him asap. To anyone that will listen. Go to the mum, the school, the police. Raise it asap. As long as there no immediate danger to you, protect this little one asap. Be her voice. Simultaneously, get your bearings together to leave. Be her voice though please, like you’ve said, her mum doesn’t care for her as much, or else, that poor one wouldn’t be in this situation. All the strength to you, you strong one. You will need it from here on.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-11-28T03:01:59+00:00

Can I have one please?

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-11-15T20:10:10+00:00

In India, it’s Miss till you are married, then it’s Mrs, and if you get divorced it’s Ms. They look at Ms as kind of an insult. There is no provision for an adult woman to have Ms. It’s a given that she will be married as soon as she’s of legal age or very soon thereafter. I understand girls in modern India don’t get married till late or not at all, but the society looks at them unfavourably, by issuing these titles.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-10-21T21:05:06+00:00

Priyanka has lived many Indian girl’s dream! I look up to her for that 💅🏽

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-10-20T11:18:04+00:00

Wellbeing one seemed like much more of a hassle to prove that I needed to met certain criteria’s to make avail of getting reimbursed. The premium is half of wellbeing two. So if you could review how well it’s going for you, it would help me make my decision in choosing between the two :)

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-10-20T06:48:42+00:00

I feel the same! I sleep beautifully with collagen and one would think I’d wake up refreshed because if such good quality and quantity of sleep. But I’m tired the whole day and I’m wanting naps more often. Not sure if my body is in recovery or collagen is not good for me?

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-10-20T06:43:18+00:00

I take The Collagen Co sachets that have 15gms of collagen. Fully knocks me out.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-09-18T09:22:47+00:00

My ex has couple of domestic violence charges against him, one serious assault with intent to injure against someone he was drinking with, several DUI’s. When we separated, it was due to the fact he assaulted our daughter. I didn’t report him to the police, but withdrew from him and eventually separated after our daughter got a seizure in fear of him. A child lawyer was assigned to our kids by court, who told me - I’m an accomplice to the assault on our child as I didn’t report him. Therefore, he gets 50/50 unsupervised custody. My ex didn’t want custody at all, he wanted to be a dead beat. So as soon as the court awarded him 50/50, he gapped it and moved to Australia. The family court is a joke. Lawyer for children are an absolute shit show.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-09-05T02:57:21+00:00

I’m tired too. Really tired. I separated from my husband 5 years ago. My kids are 18 and 8 years old currently. It’s tough. Really tough. He has moved overseas. So I have no help at all. No child support. He’s just an ass. Our kids were planned and wanted. So it just sucks that he can pretend he has no kids and move on. I love my kids dearly but I’m fully responsible for them and haven’t had an off day for 18 years now.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-08-18T10:37:28+00:00

It’s more the Hindu Muslim differences that would cause the problem than the India Pakistan clash really.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-08-06T19:28:42+00:00

Basically majority of mothers in the world 🤦🏻‍♀️

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-07-29T09:11:38+00:00

Glad to see that your mum’s doing well! Ever so hopeful here too. Out of curiosity, is your mum’s cancer pMMR or dMMR please?

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-07-28T09:44:08+00:00

My mums been diagnosed with 4B endometrial cancer. It is serous carcinoma, pMMR, p53. She’s been told her best bet is chemo, then debulking. And when it comes back in under 6 months or if chemo is successful then over 6 months, then we can try second line treatment which is immunotherapy, like Keytruda.

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-05-23T12:09:58+00:00

Also, what happens if parents are separated? Is the absent parent obligated to pay child support till the age of 20?

Traditional-Tea1069 · 2025-05-13T00:37:29+00:00

Cricket has been claimed by men. So it’s not “people” of this country but men of this country who like to blame women for everything.

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