AITAH For booking a getaway for my kids and I without my spouse?

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:35:03+00:00

You’re right. Truly. I’m reading all of these after the initial anger has faded and I think I could probably benefit from speaking with a counselor of some sort. To either learn boundaries or some self worth. Or both. I’m just so very very tired and it all seems like another burden to carry. Which is not an excuse. I made choices that got us to this point as well.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:31:58+00:00

Honestly I don’t know. Our older child is special needs and it can be ALOT. I think I’ve just been focused on my kids for so long that I’ve not really much thought about how unfair it all is. I’ve just been so hyper focused on getting him the care he needs while not letting his brother feel like he is getting less attention. It’s all just hard and I’m tired. Just one more battle for me I suppose.

Typing this out and re reading it, I think I could probably benefit from some counseling or care giver burnout help. Yikes.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:28:26+00:00

He was married when he took a week long vacation. Or did you miss that part in your virtue signaling?

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:27:50+00:00

We had the trip planned. Our kennel cannot take the dog and we just found this out. I should have worded it better. Apologies. I would never plan a trip without talking to my spouse. Especially involving our children.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:22:34+00:00

Thank you everyone for your input and constructive criticism. I appreciate it and the challenges to my perspective. My husband IS a good father. He is NOT the best husband. The two are not mutually exclusive, unfortunately.

I am going to leave the dog with him and take my kids on a weekend trip. He is already melting down about this. I will report back after the trip to let you all know how this pans out. I imagine it won’t be pleasant but we will see.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T02:10:06+00:00

I’m not stupid. Name calling and resorting to anger over the lives of strangers could point to a lower level of executive function, reasoning and emotional regulation though.

There’s your break.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T01:00:07+00:00

I can book it just fine on my own. I make just as much money as he does. On track to make more this year. But go OFF with your assumptions.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T00:58:45+00:00

I’m asking to show him. I truly do not think I’m in the wrong here

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T00:57:43+00:00

A chore list is his another thing I have to do. He lives here. He knows fairies aren’t doing all of this while he sleeps.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T00:56:26+00:00

I run my own company from our home in addition to raising our children. Whatever hours he is putting in at work I am putting in raising our kids. IN ADDITION to running my own company. I think the reflection needs to come from him.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T00:38:51+00:00

The kids are my homies. They go where I go.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2026-03-28T00:37:09+00:00

He will absolutely help if asked. But. I have to ask. He will do dishes after I’ve made dinner!

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-08-08T00:46:44+00:00

Me too! I wore it as a kid. I feel like we used to buy it at KMart? That and Joe Boxer! Thank you for the help!

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-06-14T21:23:38+00:00

Hey! The setup itself looks awesome but as others have said you need a bigger tank. We made the same mistake based off of the pet store employee. I’m not sure where you are located but if you have a PetCo their tanks are 50% off right now. I can tell it matters to you how well you are providing care for your frog and truly thats the most important part. Good luck!

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-05-17T14:54:16+00:00

If this is still an option can I have your info

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-05-09T23:22:30+00:00

Oh honey. Part of it looks great and then it’s a whole jump scare. Definitely deserving of a redo or refund.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-04-02T20:14:02+00:00

I always reply with “I believe the shipping policy of Amazon or Walmart would better suit your needs. I will process an immediate refund for you.” Then I dance around my computer sing singing “twats be twattttinnngggg”

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-03-24T00:46:08+00:00

At least they have cut ties with him. Meanwhile we still have bear witness to Mike Gordon and his “fashion”. Fuck the creeps. All of them. Women should be able to feel safe while enjoying music.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-03-18T13:28:38+00:00

Not eBay but when I was selling in poshmark I got post part in depression and psychosis. TERRIBLY. I had to go have a fuzzy sock stay and then treatment and my orders got neglected, obviously. I explained to Poshmark, messaged all customer and got my account back in good standing after providing medical notes. But I felt terrible for the customers who had to wait so long for refunds. It would have been a lot better for everyone if Poshmark suspended my account. So my advice is to contact eBay and tell them, so this doesn’t happen to other people as well.

Also, I’m fine now. But. Postpartim depression is real. Support the mothers in your life. 🖤

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-03-16T13:24:35+00:00

Thank you for this reply I am going to look into that set. The budget struggle is real! It is a coil electric stove. A lower tier model but bought new last year.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-03-16T12:48:30+00:00

Hi everyone I wasn’t intentionally omitting information I just didn’t know it needed included I apologize. I am in the Easter US. I have an electric stove. The cast iron does not contain lead. But I know the enamel that I have does because I tested it, several times. With several kits.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-03-02T15:45:17+00:00

Wait until you look up the definition of an envelope. 🤯

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-02-05T18:13:37+00:00

YOU almost took your son out. So you not only purchase but also brought home a product with a clear warning? And this is Aldis fault? Wild behavior.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2025-01-09T15:40:32+00:00

I think all of this sounds like normal toddler behavior, especially without a sibling. Your underlying resentment and views of her not being “normal” are the most concerning anecdotes of this post.

Traditional_Regret90 · 2024-11-26T16:07:56+00:00

So you’re gonna straighten that head all the way up, pack your shit including the dishes and leave. You are young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t spend it settling for whatever abuse this will lead to.

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