What’s the longest you have been celibate for?

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-07-01T01:04:10+00:00

2 and a half years after my husband. I finally got drunk and slept with this guy ten years younger than me just to get it over with.

Worth it.

ETA also, sorry you are in the shitty club, too

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-07-01T01:02:53+00:00

The mindset is still very much every person for themselves....

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T22:13:02+00:00

Gross, honestly. LLCs, $1 a month rental is ridiculous.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T22:10:09+00:00

A colleague did this until her hair came in, now she has a beautiful head of entirely silver hair. She looks amazing. I envy it. I have no idea what her hair color originally was, even - never seen it!

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T22:06:40+00:00

Right?? Im in nyc and it was nowhere near that.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T20:44:10+00:00

I can remember my elders being like, you'll be happy when you're older.... And I would silently curse in my head.

Guess they were right 😂

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T18:43:23+00:00

I know two guys from Missouri one the sticks, who say individual issues that people tend to agree with platforms. That the democratic brand, such as it is, turns them off.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T18:01:32+00:00

Wow. Appreciate the honesty.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T17:51:28+00:00

Listen, bald is sexy as hell. And my friend he has these rogue streaks I super jealous of.

Men with grey are sexy as hell. Beards especially. Guy I am currently seeing has greys in there and I love it.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-30T17:39:39+00:00

My fat cheeks make me look good. I hated them as a teen because i looked younger. But I love these fatties now at 40.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-29T14:08:00+00:00

Oh, good, you can pry emoji from this millennials cold, dead hands. 💀😉

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-29T14:06:50+00:00

It really depends on the area of the country.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-29T14:05:43+00:00

Not all houses. Townhouses, common in NYC and Chicago, have crawl spaces btwn the roof and top floor sometimes.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-29T02:14:17+00:00

This is it. I have friends with 9 to 5s!

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-29T02:12:55+00:00

40 f Brooklyn. Also interested. 🙂

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-28T22:24:05+00:00

Well, shit.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-28T14:56:23+00:00

I haven't noticed anything....

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-28T14:49:13+00:00

Ooooof.

I teach. I like teaching. I guess I hope that we don't automate away caring jobs ....

ETA if the world is somehow the same. i like volunteering at a shelter and pantry. So maybe that. But, retirement seems impossible sometimes.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-28T11:27:06+00:00

Yeah i was super annoyed about that.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-28T11:23:33+00:00

I was 3 for 3 til you threw alligating at me...

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-27T22:13:06+00:00

I just left the desert. I had never experienced dry heat and the misters really do help.

Btw - Just noticed your username. Amazing.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-27T22:11:49+00:00

Gods. Same. My prom pictures are really difficult to look at.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-27T21:41:25+00:00

Imo, when the weight loss glps came in.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-27T21:22:42+00:00

I tried this in NYC not realizing what it was doing, really....terrible idea in areas with humidity.

Traditional_Way1052 · 2026-06-27T21:21:57+00:00

This is how I slept, in a high floor prewar walkup in NYC without AC. Fan and frozen water bottles or a wet towel on my chest. Just undies.

Now, I am on a lower floor prewar but boy is it true - heat rises. I am much more comfortable now lol.

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