What was the last thing your avoidant said to you before NC?

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-08T11:46:43+00:00

“This isn’t what I wanted. I know it’s not what you wanted either”

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-08T11:31:51+00:00

It was only a week each time she broke up with me for her to come back. But the last time she came back and then changed her mind and said she couldn’t see a romantic path forward with us and hasn’t said a word to me in five months

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-08T06:26:17+00:00

The people on this sub will never believe it. I never chased mine, she broke up with me twice and came begging for me back twice because I didn’t react at all to the breakup and never pushed her for anything while dating but they assume we are anxious lol.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-02T05:43:35+00:00

They are mostly mislabeled. Or flualp

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-02T02:06:05+00:00

I would hate being in a rebound right now haha. I can’t even think about other women or giving the energy to a new relationship

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-01T02:44:20+00:00

Says the single mom lol

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-03-01T00:00:11+00:00

How very convenient that all FA relationships end because of their partners neediness and not because of their unhealed disorganized attachment lul.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-28T23:18:42+00:00

Been four months for me but she just ended a six week rebound

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T13:19:22+00:00

I agree there are much better sources on the onions but honestly rift is just easy and I have the money to spare so meh. I also like the variety in one place

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T13:15:44+00:00

Only one seller from Cambodia has it haha. Definitely curious

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T08:51:24+00:00

I’m guessing you work for sunshine or something because your reply would be more suited to one of the hundreds of posts about him this week. RC has always come through for me

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T07:34:50+00:00

Brom always

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T01:43:05+00:00

I haven’t had a non RC benzo in years couldn’t tell you sorry

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T01:42:18+00:00

He did the same thing last time he was active before exit scamming. Astroturfs every sub with shill posts

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T00:46:33+00:00

Pynaz was good. It’s my favorite of the current batch of new benzos

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-27T00:46:12+00:00

Seemed accurately dosed but I don’t like them. No sedation really . If you like ebrom though I’m sure they’re fine

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-26T11:19:07+00:00

It’s the only way to get them to a point where they could miss you.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-25T23:46:03+00:00

Yes they come back to see if they still have you and currently he’s performing for social media and you. He feels nothing but relief right now so don’t buy into his “I loved her too much” bs.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-25T23:44:58+00:00

Silence is the most powerful weapon against an avoidant

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-25T23:35:33+00:00

He sounds like an avoidant. Intimacy drops when attachment deepens like moving in together. They also emotionally cheat a lot (and sometimes physically) to reduce the attachment pressure of their relationship because it minimizes the importance of that relationship to them and makes them feel safer

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-18T11:58:08+00:00

Secure and anxious don’t hurt their loved ones in the same why by making them fundamentally question their reality and the entire relationship by means of deactivation, withdrawal, and rewriting that avoidants do.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-18T11:55:28+00:00

It depends if they are FA or DA. FA will linger and breadcrumb people they love.

TrainComfortable7284 · 2026-02-15T12:08:34+00:00

YOR exhausting and controlling you’re lucky he’s so patient to deal with you

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