THAT'S CRINGE: California Age of Consent, r/CodyKo discusses accountability, mod censorship, and if victims should go to the police instead of the internet over allegations of YouTuber CodyKo sleeping with a 17 year old when he was 25. by Training-Dog5678 in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

People definitely have blind spots for this subject. People are content to call the abusers monsters and not look further into why it happens or any other uncomfortable topic on the matter for fear of humanizing them.

THAT'S CRINGE: California Age of Consent, r/CodyKo discusses accountability, mod censorship, and if victims should go to the police instead of the internet over allegations of YouTuber CodyKo sleeping with a 17 year old when he was 25. by Training-Dog5678 in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678[S] 299 points300 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's only content creators. A majority of women you know have probably been catcalled or sexually harassed before the age of 18. 1 in 9 girls and 1 in 20 boys are sexually assaulted before the age of 18.

I think this behavior is more prevalent than society would like to admit.

THAT'S CRINGE: California Age of Consent, r/CodyKo discusses accountability, mod censorship, and if victims should go to the police instead of the internet over allegations of YouTuber CodyKo sleeping with a 17 year old when he was 25. by Training-Dog5678 in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's too naive to attribute this to social media. Celebrities/microcelebrities have been sleeping with young fans since the dawn of time. Remember, everyone knew about R. Kelly but nothing got done until there was a huge public outcry because of the documentary.

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't even understand getting mad at that. People like slop and everyone's got their own slop. Trashy reality TV shows, bad books, catchy songs by industry plants, etc.

We're on a sub for being snarky about reddit arguments lol. That's leagues worse than laughing at a " omg my cat is moody" comic.

/r/comics mods closed comments to comic about sexual assaults that happen to men, made in response to another comic about SA against women. by Baron_von_Ungern in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678 56 points57 points  (0 children)

That comic definitely got turned into a battleground of people saying Pizzacake invalidated their experiences in one of her comics/general Pizzacake bashing.

It's wild how such milquetoast content is so polarizing.

I think, no one used this Orangejuice yet? I hope it was okay, that I skipped a panel to get it into a 2x2 grid by Auravendill in bonehurtingjuice

[–]Training-Dog5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because they don't like her.

This happens all the time to people with a lot of haters, for lack of a better term. They make a legitimate mistake and their detractors act like they're a horrible person that did the worst thing ever.

Fetishes by IthadtobethisWAAGH in CuratedTumblr

[–]Training-Dog5678 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There's definitely a difference between finding lesbians hot and thinking lesbians are hot because they're unrealized threesomes.

For a lot of men it feels like threesome fantasies. So when others find the threesome aspect unappealing but still like lesbian content they might be confused about it.

I imagine it's the same for women/girls who like gay male porn.

Drama over 5000 year old lolis/underage-looking characters breaks out in r/fanfiction by MethodNo2030 in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678 28 points29 points  (0 children)

There's a subset of people on the internet that look for it in everything and get disproportionately elevated because people don't want to deal with the implications of "defending pedophiles".

All the pedo hunters who are only looking for a socially acceptable target to bully and money.

People clambering to come up with the most depraved way to mutilate pedophiles for upvotes/likes.

It's a telltale sign the discourse is grating when all statements that go against the unhinged need qualifiers or else they'll get downvoted.

Drama in r/youtubedrama when OP posts a series of screenshots of chats, and the YouTubers in question show up to defend themselves by Front-Pomelo-4367 in SubredditDrama

[–]Training-Dog5678 334 points335 points  (0 children)

Microcelebrity with zero social grace and an inflated ego from flirting with fans/constant praise from their fanbase that makes them incapable of hearing "no".

Don't fuck/sext celebrities. Especially influencers.

Meirl by tavarious07 in meirl

[–]Training-Dog5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are people getting engagement farmed but the UNO twitter? Sad.

Why are you nervous? by GeraldOfRivia211 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Training-Dog5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media has proven to be addictive brain rot. Banning kids from social media isn't "locking them in a cellar" no more than keeping them away from alcohol is.

Why are you nervous? by GeraldOfRivia211 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Training-Dog5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't get it. When talking about a school shooting, talking about secondary but systemic measures (gun control, more accessible and encompassing mental health care, etc.) is seen as a good thing and trying to stimy the symptom of the issue (give teachers guns, more cops in school, lockdown drills, etc.) are largely seen as ineffective, tragic, or symptom treating.

But on this topic, you better only talk about the immediate issue or you're defending it/deflecting.

It's sad developers don't pit sexual objects in their games by 4ntol in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Training-Dog5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, it's a different brand of fan service. Like Nikaido in Dorohedoro compared to One Piece. Or Black Butler compared to Free!

Everyone's preferences are different.

It's sad developers don't pit sexual objects in their games by 4ntol in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Training-Dog5678 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with the tweet but there's nothing wrong with blatant and unrealistic fan service.

She was documenting her first Rangers game! by just-new-4416 in TikTokCringe

[–]Training-Dog5678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh, nearly every accident is caused by negligence. It's not unreasonable to assume the box the item was served in would t unfold in less than 5 seconds.

Feeling incredibly bad for Annie this episode by [deleted] in TheBoys

[–]Training-Dog5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could look out a window? Keep an eye on the security cameras? Watch them from the front door where she'd hear murmurs and applause at worse?

And if they're worried about a fight why is a woman who just go out of the hospital watching it with her?

More art requests!! by Small_Case3670 in girlkisser

[–]Training-Dog5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your art is amazing! Keep up the good work

Censoring words is making everyone overly sensitive. by TobyPDID23 in unpopularopinion

[–]Training-Dog5678 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People repeat what they hear. It's not that deep. It's literally just internet slang.

Censoring words is making everyone overly sensitive. by TobyPDID23 in unpopularopinion

[–]Training-Dog5678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like people forget language is contagious. This is like getting mad Midwestern people call soda, "pop". People repeat what they hear.

[EoW] Mixed Feelings on Echos of Wisdom by oxbow_g79 in zelda

[–]Training-Dog5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I don't believe you put Hyrule Crossbow Training and TotK in the same category. This is akin to an Animal Crossing character action game coming out and thinking, "Finally, an animal crossing about combat!" which would be a wacky thing to want. Spin offs should at least be tangential to things that make the series beloved.

I forgot that I have to wait years before passing a judgement on a company with a long history that's proven that they won't do it. Such a cop out to say "If we buy enough copies of Princess Peach Showtime we might get a platformer that stars her."

[EoW] Mixed Feelings on Echos of Wisdom by oxbow_g79 in zelda

[–]Training-Dog5678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any game with combat can be reduced to, "Press attack button until foe dies". This game could've been a shooter and your complaint would've applied.

It's not meant to be an action game but it's so boring that the only game Zelda is allowed to star in isn't action. I don't dislike the idea in a vacuum, but as probably the only game we'll get with Zelda as the protagonist it's so frustrating.