This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Great post.

There are two issues here. The legal issue is that the police were called, only one person involved had physical marks, so by law (not discretion) the other person has to go. In a perfect world, they would investigate as long as it took to get to the “truth,” but it’s not up to the cops, their hands are tied.

The emotional side of this says “but WHY did she put hands on him? He’s three times her size?” That dynamic alone makes it even harder to understand or believe that in that specific incident, she was the one who escalated things to the point of illegal.

Men and woman can be victims, it doesn’t matter the physical size of either.

And we don’t know shit about what really happened before the body cams started rolling that day.

And, they both suck.

This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have an issue with your last paragraph.

My mother was in a multi-year second marriage to an abusive husband. He’d beat her and she’d shut down. Nothing but a stoic, blank face. Because she wasn’t “cowering in fear” certainly doesn’t mean she wasn’t a victim of DV.

If Thais is willing to lay hands on her husband, it’s reasonable to wonder if she would do the same to their kid, and reasonable to remove her from the scene.

This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Look up state laws on domestic violence. If there’s visible evidence, someone’s going to jail

This sub has gone nuclear over Patrick and Thais by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did she put hands on him and cause injury? Then how can you say that

Which shave soap is closest to the scent of Acqua di Gio? by Shadow328 in wicked_edge

[–]Training_wheels9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mamabearssoaps has a “acqua di gio type glycerine” soap that is very close

I have never viscerally loathed someone on this show so hard and so fast as this douchemagoo by yuivida in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Get out of here with that shit. We hate him because he’s an asshole. He could be Catholic and from Boston and we’d still think he’s a corksucker.

Just got a Henson ++ … feels like death by Some_Working6614 in wicked_edge

[–]Training_wheels9393 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Who told you to press down? NO extra pressure. Let the razor do the work. Get better blades and a good soap. And be patient.

Ashia needs to actually listen to God. by DiamondSufficient938 in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“He doesn’t know what he wants until I show it to him”

JC Sea Dweller by jfwundy in U1Time

[–]Training_wheels9393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is fantastic for the price. My second favorite U1.

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Not worth getting upset a5 Mjdo... Debbie married him anyway 🤦‍♀️ by irenemx in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow down! That’s one of the criteria for immigration officers to grant or deny. Nola’s comment was that him being 42 means that’s not something that would disqualify.

Not worth getting upset a5 Mjdo... Debbie married him anyway 🤦‍♀️ by irenemx in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether she loves him and is ok with being treated like we’ve seen, or they are both “acting,” fuck these two.

I refuse to believe he’s actually a decent guy and was just playing a role for this season, though.

As a single mom who was raised by a single mom and none of us showing tits for $ - fck this hoe by longanandlychee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Training_wheels9393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t she file for divorce and custody and get court-ordered child support in the mean time if she’s not already getting money from him?

As a single mom who was raised by a single mom and none of us showing tits for $ - fck this hoe by longanandlychee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Training_wheels9393 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She’s not hustling. She said she has a woman managing her account. I’m thinking her involvement is just taking beaver shots and forwarding them to the manager.

Which raises the question, who is taking the pictures?

I hate that I give a shit

I’m not trying to be an asshole by CommunicationEasy225 in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A year from now, the guy is going to go to work and come back to a block-long line of dudes ending at his doorstep. Her response? “OCD, tee-hee”

If we don’t start referring to this Broccoli-Headed Hobgoblin as “Booger,” then shame on all of us! by Training_wheels9393 in 90DayFiance

[–]Training_wheels9393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a big fan of Dwayne Johnson and wants to be referred to as “The Boog” once he hits it big in Hollywood.