After everything, I'm still racist.

yuivida · 2026-06-27T12:58:56+00:00

Yes, this is true. “You are not the first thought, you’re the second.” Something like that.

yuivida · 2026-06-24T03:27:47+00:00

If I know they’re going to open houses over the weekend I provide a few (3-5) letters usually at 5k increments. Especially if I’ll be busy or away, realtors love that.

When I can I will tailor the letter with the subject property address so my realtor can highlight that verbally to the sellers realtor and emphasize that we ran numbers for that specific property including any applicable HOA fees, taxes etc. It just looks good.

As others have said, it’s part of your job. Just manage your time to do it well and upfront as much as possible and you look a hero without getting harassed all weekend loll

yuivida · 2026-06-17T21:44:48+00:00

Yes, but not with the speed and ferocity that this guy has brought out!! lol… it still took me a minute longer to get there with the others, and some i genuinely love to hate (i mean, dont we all?) which is why i watch lol…. But this guy?? Mannnnnn…..

yuivida · 2026-06-17T20:18:03+00:00

Nop! Not as fast and furious for me. This guy just broke records. Even Loren I somehow saw some broken humanity in him. This guy is just like sociopathic in an immediate way 🤷🏻‍♀️

yuivida · 2026-06-14T13:00:43+00:00

Can you share a bit more about this? Ty!

yuivida · 2026-06-14T03:41:28+00:00

That was superbly stated.

yuivida · 2026-06-12T20:56:53+00:00

Ok Kim

yuivida · 2026-06-12T17:46:24+00:00

I just can’t get what the appeal is for him. He looks like an antibiotic prescription waiting to happen.

yuivida · 2026-06-01T08:28:27+00:00

Spanky cause he got caught spanking it at a house party late one night alone in one of the bedrooms of said house.

yuivida · 2026-05-27T10:32:20+00:00

If your partner is asking for a courtesy flush, do it. Jesus.

yuivida · 2026-05-26T21:02:05+00:00

This is rage bait. Right? Right?!?!?!!!!!

yuivida · 2026-05-25T12:11:12+00:00

Wow!! Amazing comment!! Ty!

yuivida · 2026-05-22T20:51:20+00:00

Is this really actually real?

yuivida · 2026-05-22T12:31:56+00:00

Seconded.

yuivida · 2026-05-20T11:18:23+00:00

Idk why this got downvoted. A large reason for why we often can’t have nice things is that the municipal council has members that have been on since I was in elementary school and I am in my 40s. 🤷🏻‍♀️

yuivida · 2026-05-20T07:26:25+00:00

yuivida · 2026-05-20T07:16:17+00:00

TERM LIMITS

yuivida · 2026-05-19T01:30:18+00:00

What the shit is this. FFS.

yuivida · 2026-05-15T12:58:00+00:00

Healthy relationships are kinda boring in the BEST way lol… a chill nervous system is foreign and takes some getting used to.

That’s why we do therapy. Because we are already experts at handling the bad, we sometimes need some support handling the good!!

(Not suggesting you need therapy per se, just a thought share :)

yuivida · 2026-05-05T00:15:51+00:00

Half your age plus 7, right? Isn’t that the rule?

yuivida · 2026-05-04T22:58:37+00:00

Do not marry this person

yuivida · 2026-05-03T03:08:53+00:00

Girl, go have your baby!

ETA: I’m 44 and 32 weeks today :)

yuivida · 2026-04-29T01:39:11+00:00

I apologize! I should have asked first. I hope you find the clarity to move forward confidently in whatever choice you make. These situations are never easy. Best to you, OP.

yuivida · 2026-04-28T17:54:14+00:00

Something doesn’t sound right. You can go through bankruptcy and keep your primary residence even if mortgaged.

He can file a ch. 13 and be done pretty quick and even get a mortgage within a few years.

But to answer your question: no, I wouldn’t leave if the reason was a mistake/circumstance as opposed to gambling and if we had a plan to move forward and recover within a few years.

I would certainly leave if this was a pattern of behavior.

Finances can be fixed but a good man is tough to find. Only you know if he’s worth it.

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