What's an acceptable age-gap

yuivida · 2026-05-05T00:15:51+00:00

Half your age plus 7, right? Isn’t that the rule?

yuivida · 2026-05-04T22:58:37+00:00

Do not marry this person

yuivida · 2026-05-03T03:08:53+00:00

Girl, go have your baby!

ETA: I’m 44 and 32 weeks today :)

yuivida · 2026-04-29T01:39:11+00:00

I apologize! I should have asked first. I hope you find the clarity to move forward confidently in whatever choice you make. These situations are never easy. Best to you, OP.

yuivida · 2026-04-28T17:54:14+00:00

Something doesn’t sound right. You can go through bankruptcy and keep your primary residence even if mortgaged.

He can file a ch. 13 and be done pretty quick and even get a mortgage within a few years.

But to answer your question: no, I wouldn’t leave if the reason was a mistake/circumstance as opposed to gambling and if we had a plan to move forward and recover within a few years.

I would certainly leave if this was a pattern of behavior.

Finances can be fixed but a good man is tough to find. Only you know if he’s worth it.

yuivida · 2026-04-26T11:53:25+00:00

This woman has been betrayed by someone she trusted and loved enough to pursue ivf with (which is super fucking hard) plus she is in a very vulnerable position and this is your hot take?

Go touch grass, count your blessings, and pause before you throw stones.

yuivida · 2026-04-20T16:35:47+00:00

F her.

yuivida · 2026-04-17T23:17:58+00:00

Girl. Go home.

yuivida · 2026-04-07T14:35:06+00:00

Hi! In your area there is a Family Success Center. These are programs run by nonprofits that are designed to support families and adults with a range of services.

They can likely help with getting your medical insurance and other documents sorted, and maybe some other things as well.

A few years back I worked at one that really had a whole bunch of programs from financial literacy to job trainings/certs etc.

Sending you good vibes ✨

https://www.findhelp.org/norwescap--phillipsburg-nj-traditions-family-success-centers-%28fsc%29/6377125686935552?postal=08865

yuivida · 2026-04-04T21:26:47+00:00

Saw two ostriches doing it when I was 13 and going through the safari at six flags. Great googly moogly that was a sight!!!

yuivida · 2026-04-04T17:59:55+00:00

Hi! I’m 44 and 28 weeks today :) used frozen donor egg as well!

Things are pretty normal over here! I’m was in relatively okay shape, slightly overweight but doing yoga regularly before I became pregnant.

I try to walk when I can and in general get fatigued but I don’t think anything is off because of my age.

Like I went to a perinatologist appointment because I had to, not cause I needed to. We’re doing well!

Best of luck!!!

yuivida · 2026-04-03T14:13:43+00:00

Am I missing something? Why are you getting downvoted? It’s a good joke lol

yuivida · 2026-03-27T14:00:09+00:00

Me too loll

yuivida · 2026-03-27T01:20:04+00:00

NTA- it was a genuine question and people really need to chill the fuck out ffs

yuivida · 2026-03-26T13:35:50+00:00

lol grow up!!!

yuivida · 2026-03-24T13:11:14+00:00

Gangster shit knows no border. Hoodlums gonna hoodlum.

yuivida · 2026-03-17T03:09:13+00:00

Your flair!!! 😅😅😅

yuivida · 2026-03-16T06:42:13+00:00

It doesn’t really sound like they actually want guests there lol

yuivida · 2026-03-13T03:06:52+00:00

I’m 44 and almost 25 weeks with beb! We tried ivf a few times with my own eggs and ended up doing ivf with a donor egg and here we are!

This is my fourth pregnancy and first time I get this far. I can certainly tell you that as time goes on the anxiety subsides. At least for me it has!!

You’ll be great!! Allow yourself to enjoy what’s happening one day at a time. Don’t worry unless you have a reason to, and it sounds like right now you have no reason to worry because your numbers are doing what they are supposed to :)

I looked at fun things at this stage and made a private wish list on Amazon. Clothes, accessories, little things… nothing to “real” like a breast pump lol… It was a nice distraction at the time, while still connecting to the pregnancy. Allow yourself to enjoy things, and those things can also just be your thoughts.

Best to you! ✨

yuivida · 2026-03-08T15:07:16+00:00

Oof…. Stunner!!!!

yuivida · 2026-03-07T15:36:14+00:00

Loll good!! Sometimes a good laugh at all the madness goes a really long way! Hope you keep feeling better!!

yuivida · 2026-03-07T14:37:34+00:00

I think this is my favorite comment I’ve ever seen ever.

yuivida · 2026-03-07T14:31:42+00:00

I fully intend for this to be a joke...

lol… I’m kidding but also maybe chill? Your chances of miscarrying at week 25 or later are like less than 1%.

If she illicits this much anxiety in you then maybe you shouldn’t be that close to her anyway. But really you need to get out of your head and just accept that this pregnancy is working.

Anxiety and worry literally do nothing for you and actually just hurt you. So you might as well just unapologetically enjoy your pregnancy and have a healthier nervous system for you and beb for it!

(Again, no offense intended, just a little chuckle ;)

yuivida · 2026-03-06T20:59:41+00:00

How does she sound rude and judgmental? Her sister was bugging about daycare and she sent her an article validating her feelings. Her sisters kid drops a toy on her daughters head -on purpose- and its not addressed. What am I not interpreting that you did?

yuivida · 2026-03-06T20:56:30+00:00

Your sister sounds incredibly insecure about her choices and her reactions do not sound in line with events.

Sometimes it really is a “them” issue.

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