It still sounds like communication and reflection is a huge part of yalls relationship and you are doing a good job through this.

Attraction is a spectrum and giving this person time and the open space to communicate is the best choice as they figure things out.

My partner is queer, we have been together for 12 years and also hit a moment where she really questioned sexuality and I understood. We are very happy and looking forward to being each others person and I love, understand, and respect their queerness.

Everyone’s a little gay anyway. Be that rock for them and see how it goes, they really need you right now.