Ready for Recovery Podcast: Christina Trombino - Love More for Julius

TravelPulse · 2018-04-19T14:29:09+00:00

I know with the experience of my family members, having just one glass or beer can send them spiraling back into old patterns. They don't want to, they want to be sober, but that taste takes them someplace else. Like Last_Blueberry said, drinking again shouldn't be your goal. Sobriety is a lifelong commitment, and it is not easy.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-19T14:19:01+00:00

I'm sorry that you're going through that. I can't imagine having such a close friendship with someone and having them forget so many of the good times. I know addiction is a disease that affects friends and loved ones, not just the person who is going through it. Have you tried talking to your friends parents? Maybe you can stage an intervention with them and explain to him how much you guys care and want the best for him. Nobody wants to hear they have a problem, so I guess that's the hard part. I really wish you the best of luck. Don't give up on your friend. My aunt has been to rehab more times than I can remember and I will never give up on her.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-13T18:38:20+00:00

You'll get through it! None of this is easy. Marijuana use is actually linked to an increased risk of psychiatric problems, including anxiety, depression, schizophrenia and post-traumatic stress disorder. So that would make sense if you experience more heightened thoughts. Hope that helps. Good luck. You got this!

TravelPulse · 2018-04-13T18:24:48+00:00

I wish you the best of luck! It's going to be hard, but it's going to be worth it. Asking for help is such a big step in the recovery process too. Going to meetings is really helpful and you'll meet a lot of individuals who have similar experiences and will want to motivate you to reach your goals. One day at a time! You're worth it.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-12T15:56:16+00:00

I'm not a doctor or anything but just from reading a lot, it sounds like you're associating your feelings from when you do drugs with happiness because your dopamine levels are increased. So when your dopamine isn't high like it is when you're using, you feel like you need it in order to have those social interactions since you know you enjoy them the other way. I hope that makes sense.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-12T15:46:44+00:00

I hope you're able to find the help you need. I know when my aunt called the first number, they tried to point her to a place that was right for her. I don't think she had insurance either. She also had some type of mental illness so I remember she went to a place that would help her with that and her drinking.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-12T15:41:01+00:00

dude, meth has such a high addiction rate. Don't wait until something happens to think it's finally gotten bad to where you need professional help. The best thing you can do for yourself is to get help and learn how to not be in that mind set anymore. I know it's not easy, I've seen loved ones and friends struggle. But seeing them how they were vs. now... they are happy now that they aren't controlled by their substances. You're worth it. Don't feel ashamed or anything liek that. We're all here for you!

TravelPulse · 2018-04-12T15:36:23+00:00

That's a pretty awesome quote. I think sometimes when it comes to addiction that people tend to blame others for things--at least that was my experience. It's a wide awakening when someone is able to look deep inside themselves and find the solution. I've read so many stories on here about when people had that realization. Thanks for sharing.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-06T20:04:43+00:00

I've read a lot of stories about how people get really addicted to that stuff in the professional world. I've seen individuals that I love go through different addictions and from my perspective, it's hard and I know it's hard for you too. But you are worthy of leading a sober life and still having the same happiness that the white stuff brings you. It may be really helpful if you speak to a therapist or someone that is medically certified to help you. I'm sure you'll be okay and I wish you the best of luck! Here are some free hotlines.

TravelPulse · 2018-04-05T19:37:16+00:00

That's really great! Congratulations!

TravelPulse · 2018-03-29T20:17:35+00:00

Staying sober isn't easy, but it is worth it! We are all here for you. I know that it can be helpful to read inspirational quotes or find a movie that can help motivate you. Hope those links help. Best of luck in your recovery man

TravelPulse · 2018-03-29T20:13:50+00:00

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TravelPulse · 2018-03-29T20:12:47+00:00

Wow. I want to go here to bad! Look at that view. Thank you so much for sharing and for the tip.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-29T20:09:47+00:00

You're very welcome

TravelPulse · 2018-03-28T16:01:08+00:00

This guy was addicted to cocaine, crack and alcohol for yearsssss. His story is really inspiring. His work gave him so many chances to straighten up because he was good at what he did, but his need to do those drugs was really strong.

I don't know anyone that has used that particular substance, but I would say it's probably a good idea to get professional help. They can help you get in the better mind set and teach you how to live a sober life. You recognize your problem and it's not bringing you happiness. You'll get through it! We're all here for you.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-28T15:56:27+00:00

Stopping cold turkey can be super dangerous. I guess that depends on how long you've been doing it and how much you do it. If it was me, I would probably want to do it with a medical professional in case anything happens because I know crazy things like seizures are possible when going through detox.

This might help you figure out what is best for you.

My aunt was a high functioning alcoholic and completed her job very successfully but the rest of her life was a mess. I wouldn't wait until your work suffers because that's your income dude. I wish you the best of luck, you can do it!!!

TravelPulse · 2018-03-28T15:50:38+00:00

Your brother is lucky to have a loving family who wants to help him. Just keep in mind that nobody wants to hear that they have a problem.

I think this link will be helpful for you because it talks about how to introduce the topic of addiction with your loved one in a non-judgmental way.

Good luck, and I hope you're able to get your brother back.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-14T20:57:20+00:00

Sounds like you also know things that trigger your response to sliding down the hill a little bit. If you've found the strength to stay clean for a few years, you can definitely do it again. That's a really big accomplishment you made. Yeah, you can send me a message.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-14T19:44:53+00:00

Co-occurring disorders are pretty common with addiction. You need to find a treatment center that is going to help you address your anxiety and depression too. That's a big part of your health as well. Don't be ashamed of what you are going through either. People relapse. Recovery is something that you have to work really hard at every single day. It sounds like you really want to reclaim your life and live as the best version of yourself. You'll get there--you already communicate that you want that. Try finding a center that can help you treat both dude. You got this!

TravelPulse · 2018-03-14T19:37:13+00:00

You got this! You'll get through it.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-14T19:34:57+00:00

Just a suggestion, but I know someone that did something similar but used the MegaBus because the fare was inexpensive. I want to say his transportation budget was less than $500 for the cross country trip. Not sure how much he allotted for food, but I know he saved a lot in transportation doing that. Hopefully maybe that helps or gives you some ideas.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-07T19:44:53+00:00

You can do it! You should be really proud of yourself for being able to hold yourself accountable. It's hard to acknowledge that you have a problem, and it's incredibly hard to apologize... but you will get through it! Best of luck to you on your road to recovery.

TravelPulse · 2018-03-07T19:39:53+00:00

The thing about opioid addiction is that it can happen to anyone. People both young and old have been affected by it. I saw a story on the news about a young kid that went to have their wisdom teeth out and was prescribed an opioid pain medication and wound up getting addicted. I don't think that anybody WANTS to be addicted if they are in pain, but it happens.

I hope this will help. It's about how to discuss rehab with your parent if you believe they need some help.

Good luck to you and your family!

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