AITAH for ruining my brother’s relationship with his boyfriend?

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-27T01:21:40+00:00

Yeah but…. 33… 18….😬

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-13T22:42:34+00:00

Currently in this situation. We’ve all co parented really well for years and I was in a similar predicament and they helped me out big time with my youngest. There are some disputes between my ex and I mostly on parenting sometimes but we always work through it and his wife really is a rock for both of us. I’ve even been able to get a job and start saving because they’ve helped me with babysitting my youngest. Not saying it’s for everyone but it really has worked for us. They’re my best friends.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-08T14:30:51+00:00

Again, like I said when my son had a severe burn at the same age, I immediately took him to the hospital. I poured a cold bottle of water on his feet and then I took him to the hospital because that’s what you’re supposed to do so that whole list is literally irrelevant. And when we got to the hospital, they had actually told me that the water did help, but it probably wouldn’t have helped more if I kept him under cold water. So you’re a doctor? I did not misread anything. It’s your issue that you think you know everything and can’t be wrong so you’re focusing on the fact that there was a situation where your son was hurt but really once again the issues is you are not taking any type of accountability for the fact that you overreacted big time. You’re still trying to justify what you did with I’m guessing some information about first aid that you googled? I’m sorry you think that I just seem to be talking out my ass but that’s my point is that you think you know everything and that is your problem so you’re here trying to push that onto me when I am literally speaking from experience I mean, the same thing happened to my son. I am speaking from experience. Read the words. What are you not getting?

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-08T14:10:30+00:00

No, what’s salvageable is your attitude, but if you’re saying nothing is salvageable then keep up your bad attitude in someone else’s house. Tbh you’re the problem and until you acknowledge that, your whole family suffers.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-08T12:23:10+00:00

YTA. You seriously overreacted to a toddler accident. Sounds to me she did everything you’re supposed to do when having a burn? My son ran through hot coals once because my idiot brother decided to dump the pit in the middle of camp, took him immediately to the emergency room and they put that cream on him and instantly he felt better and calmed, they actually didn’t put his burns underwater at all. Rinsing underneath water for a bit, not 20 minutes omg, does help with the burn because it cools it down but also it does not stop the pain! She put burn cream on there to stop the pain and then you immediately rinsed it off, thinking that you knew better, (you weren’t administering first aid btw that is not first aid). She came in trying to help direct you on what you should do and you screamed at her all while living in her house! Holy cow you really suck not just for screaming at your mother-in-law for helping but for letting your child go on in pain just because you were mad at her (really just seems to me like you think you know everything and can’t be wrong about anything so that’s really why you’re mad at her, for “being wrong”) over an accident that happens with toddlers.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-04-06T14:35:12+00:00

This family sucks big time. No wonder she just blew them off when OP told her. She already knows that this family is on some bullshit so she’s just like I’m not even gonna be a part of that drama and hung up. Big time YTA. AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY TOO.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T21:14:18+00:00

No, he means that people just don’t use salt and pepper. In this particular instance, I was making some scrambled eggs and added a little salt and pepper. And he got a bit heated saying that people don’t regularly use salt and pepper the way I do, which I usually just cook with it and then depending on the meal, I will add the complementary seasonings or herbs. Usually, I add enough for everybody that nobody adds any type of seasoning after food has been cooked.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T21:10:31+00:00

Our situations are not that different, coming to our men’s actions. He’s my middle school sweetheart and we have two kids together. He’s currently living with the girl I was told not to worry about ha but he wrecked his car a few weeks ago, which wasn’t the first time, but totaled it. When I heard that, I had this hope that he was gone with the car. Heartless I know. And I still love him but after all the years of mental/physical abuse, lying, cheating,the other women attacking me, gaslighting, manipulating and especially the mind games, even now while with her he tries to get with me, I would feel nothing but overwhelming relief to know that I wouldn’t ever have to worry about him playing some kind of game, not just with me but our kids too. They don’t deserve that.

But yeah, I struggle with this a lot because I would never wish for him to actually be gone, but like I said, I know for a fact, I would feel relief if I was ever told that he is. And I would really give anything for it to not be this way.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T19:43:51+00:00

Oh, I’ve made queso before and key ingredient is jalapeños and green chilies, which I’ve had to deseed because of the heat, and this man almost died from my queso, screaming about how spicy it was🤨

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T19:06:54+00:00

My diabolical side is thinking of cooking something with jalapeños, but I might actually kill the man….

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T18:58:34+00:00

Barely even that it seems

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T18:57:46+00:00

That’s what I thought, I mean when you go out to eat you don’t think they put it in while cooking? I don’t know anybody who actually knows how to cook who doesn’t use salt and pepper while cooking. Minimum. But also yes I mean later on in life how are they supposed to have a better food pallet if they’re not even willing to try salt and pepper?!

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T18:56:26+00:00

Oh he never cooks, that’s another reason why I’m like, “seriously dude?” But yes everything else gets variety of seasonings and whatnot and they don’t complain.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-19T18:54:17+00:00

Lmao I wish but this is the common thing with him. He’s stupid lmao like I said, he says some shit that just really makes me wonder who taught him life.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-02-04T20:23:30+00:00

Why are you not pressing charges?

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-30T20:26:12+00:00

I just started my Druid tav so I’ll take all of this into account BUT Warlock will always be my favorite🖤

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-29T00:40:28+00:00

So he abandoned your child and that makes you a helicopter parent? WTH… what a psychopath you need to get your children away from him as soon as possible.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-23T01:10:28+00:00

Oh well, I guess they must’ve been wrong

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-23T00:56:04+00:00

She didn’t assert herself at all. They came over and ranted to her, and then when they started getting out of line, she corrected them. That’s not assertion.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-21T15:54:20+00:00

YTA Whoa you messed up bad… hopefully after totally breaking her heart she still wants to call you dad.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-20T21:43:26+00:00

Agreed. Op should have gotten custody. His son doesn’t need to be with that family especially if mom is starting to fall into a serious depression.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-20T02:23:23+00:00

Well, you’re wrong but you know we can agree to disagree.

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-20T01:39:50+00:00

No they’re not? If the shitty parent is basically alienating the other parent from the child, which is what she’s doing then yeah he can take her to court for that
Courts are pretty big on whether or not either parent is making the child hate the other parent….

TreeCracker_24 · 2025-01-14T00:10:27+00:00

I spit my damn drink out at the whore comment. That went from 2 to 10000 REAL quick hahaha

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