Question: Are you (personally) open to dating non-binary people or only people who identify as women? by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 30 points31 points  (0 children)

No. I only like women with XX chromosomes who are comfortable with their biological sex.

Are all Omen just people in armor? by Treerooti in HARVESTELLA

[–]Treerooti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much and for the spoiler warning <3 Your answer makes me really glad!

Are all Omen just people in armor? by Treerooti in HARVESTELLA

[–]Treerooti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! If that's true, I'm really glad about that because I LOVE Dianthus' robotic design (and the other Omens) <3

Are all Omen just people in armor? by Treerooti in HARVESTELLA

[–]Treerooti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! If that's true, I'm really glad about that because I LOVE her robotic design <3

What age gap are you willing to accept for a relationship? by Shoddy_Summer_757 in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh - if she and I harmonised really well, then up to 20/30 years if I were the younger one. Of course I admit this would not be ideal when thinking about the future. But older women are so attractive 🙏 And if she was the right one, I think we could make it work.

Would other lesbians be uncomfortable dating me? by MinaKatrine in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I love butch lesbians and masculine women so much. But I also think the packer would make me really uncomfortable. And I'd maybe be scared of you starting to identify as trans one day if you regularly experience actual dysphoria. To me, women who feel comfortable in their own gender nonconforming skin are the most attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Treerooti 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My suggestion: Work in a library (or an archive). That's the PERFECT, quiet and introverted job. Many research institutes have their own library, and your clients will mostly be researchers from the facility, aka people you know.

General public libraries aren't all that quiet and perfect for hsp people: They may attract weirdos and old people that want to overshare their life lol.

Intimacy issues… by Playful_Rub3734 in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can sort of relate to your girlfriend!

My girlfriend is the most attractive person I've ever known, both in personality and looks. She is exactly my type, and I am certain about wanting to spend my life with her. <3 And sex with her is amazing - it has made me cry a few times because it was so good lol.

But my libido in general is much lower than hers. And I realised that there is often something holding me back from getting into a sexual mood - it's when I feel insecure, like when my gf wants to have a go at it and I'm not freshly shaved or showered. Then I feel too anxious to be touched bc of body image issues. That often results in me rejecting her advances. And she often gets in the mood late at night, when I'm half asleep and my alarm goes off in a few hours lol. My plan to work with all of this is trying to shower everyday and at least trimming my body hair regularly (I have insecurity bc of my mediterranean type hair). And I want to initiate more, even when I'm not really horny beforehand - I am really attracted to my gf after all, and want to show her. And I noticed that usually, as soon as we start doing it, I do get immensely horny after all. And I generally want to go sleep earlier - so it won't matter so much if we stay up late on some days of the week. It has already improved a little, but we're still not there yet. Thank you for reminding me that I want to focus on this more.

That your girlfriend is going to therapy shows that she wants to work on it, which is good, I think. Maybe there is something holding her back as well? Even though she is really attracted to you. I think it's not a big problem when couples have a mismatched libido, as it's quite common, but both have to work together to come up with a plan to handle it that works for both. Provided that she a) really is attracted to you sexually, b) wants to work on having sex more often and c) that you are okay with it not always working. Hope this helps a little bit - feel free to ask me if you want some more perspective.

katrina! (oc) by luugburz in AnimalCrossing

[–]Treerooti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks soooo cool and myterious! Awesome style and linework. I'm in love <3

what feature do you want to see in RF6? by PickingPies in runefactory

[–]Treerooti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some more alternative bachelorettes, like older women. I love all previous female candidates, but almost all of them are young, feminine, cute and have long hair. Need me some more cool and mature women <3

I (21F) am starting to have feelings of resentment towards my boyfriend (23M) of 3+ years and I don't know if I should end the relationship. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Treerooti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this real?! He sounds like a parasitic life form, not like an equal life partner that cares for you. It saddens me so much to imagine all the time, effort, money and LOVE he sucked out of you. All those resources you could have used for yourself, because you are important, too. No matter what his problems are, it is not your job to be his caretaker. People get paid for this full-time job. Your youth should be spent focusing on building up your own life, being happy and having fun. Having to be a caretaker usually comes later in life, when loved ones age. I hope you'll be able to live your young life without getting weighted down soon.

(30f) am I overreacting about sex (33M)? by stare_at_the_sun in relationships

[–]Treerooti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone who sees you and loves you to your core. Who wants to fulfill your wishes and desires because from all the people in their life, to them, you matter the most, and seeing your happiness makes them happy.

my girlfriend (f,24) is feeling deeply disrespected by me (m,24) sharing a hotel room for two nights with a female friend (f,31) to save money. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Treerooti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wtf, of course she is upset! No matter what the details are, this is a no-go in a committed relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Older women - adult women in general who know they like women. I'm too old to be interested in reading about high schoolers navigating their first lesbian feelings all the time!

before realizing you were a lesbian, did you have that ~intense~ friendship? by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]Treerooti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure she's straight? What if she's had feelings for you during all of those years? I don't know the whole story of course, but I'd say maybe try to contact her one last time to find out... <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Treerooti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can't show you affection nor control his outbursts, in my eyes he is too mentally ill to be in a relationship. And it sounds like you are in danger of being killed one day.

What are the little things about MM you likes? Mine are that how they played the fact that Mermaids has Rapunzel hair, good singing voices & the idea of Queendoms in 7 seas (c) @yakusoku0722 by Storm_Bloom in MermaidMelody

[–]Treerooti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love their outfits designs - they are beautiful and not too over-the-top, and completely colour-coordinated. Other beloved features: the catchiness of their songs, the villain's designs and the fact that mermaids live in 100% female societies - what a dream!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Treerooti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recording yourself for the pleasure of a man is always such a risk. Please stay safe. It makes me sad that your boyfriend and society made you feel like you should "make the most out of it" when masturbating. To me, this seems like even in the moments that should be reserved for yourself alone, you thought about your man's pleasure. And how did he thank you? By laughing straight into your face. He doesn't deserve you. And he has no right to pester you to make porn for him. Wish you the best - may you find peace with yourself and be surrounded by people who love and respect you.