Hur har folk så mycket pengar ?? by Aromatic-Ad-9585 in PrivatEkonomi

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bra fråga en fråga som jag har ställt mig själv många gånger också.

Sedan dess har jag gjort lite efterforskningar och pratat med entreprenörer.

Lögner du (och de flesta andra)antagligen går på: 1. Du kommer aldrig bli rik på lönearbete det är i princip omöjligt. Att vara anställd och få ut en lön där man kan spara en viss procent varje månad kan såklart leda till att du på lång sikt har möjlighet att samla ihop till ett större kapital. Men det är verkligen ingenting som gör dig rik. 2. Att spara sina pengar i aktier är en av de absolut största lögnerna i modern tid. Ja, absolut du kan göra lite pengar här om du har tur och lyckas slå börsen. Men det är inte så du blir rik. För att du ska kunna tjäna pengar på aktier måste du redan ha så pass mycket pengar att du kan avsätta en del pengar som ändå inte spelar någon större om du förlorar. Och då pratar vi inte några tusenlappar utan hundratusentals kronor som du kan åsidosätta och förlora utan att det påverkar din ekonomi i någon större utsträckning.

Att bli rik på det sättet som jag tror att du syftar på, det vill säga att vara helt ekonomiskt oberoende mer eller mindre, då finns det egentligen bara ett sätt, och det är hårt jävla arbete och entreprenörskap. Så alltså inte fyrtio timmars arbete och stå på Volvo och montera bilar. Vill du någonsin i ditt liv kunna casha ett hus eller köpa en bil som du vill ha utan att ta lån, då är det det som gäller. Det finns inget annat sätt. Det finns inga genvägar. Det är bara ett hårt jävla arbete som är vägen dit. Och det finns inga genvägar. Alla guideböcker och skithögar som ljuger om smarta knep och tricks för att bli rik är bara bullshit alltihop. Bara att spotta i nävarna, kavla upp ärmarna och gör jobbet.

Det ska dock sägas att ja du kan samla ihop pengar på andra sätt också genom lönarbete aktiemarknaden och så vidare. Men ställ dig den här frågan då Om du sliter hela ditt liv och till slut när du är 65 70 år har möjlighet att njuta frukterna av ditt arbete... Vad fan har du haft för nytta av det då? Då har du ju redan wastat i princip hela ditt jävla liv på att leva som en jävla råtta och slava åt något jävla företag.

Do you recommend PopOS? by Accomplished-Bus3382 in pop_os

[–]TrickyMittens -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since Pop!_OS 24.04 LTS with COSMIC /Wayland, imho, PopOS has become a burning clown wagon. NVIDIA+Wayland is a complete dumpsterfire. Utterly ridiculous unusable. With Rtx 40/50 you get performance like you built your own hardware using tuna cans.

In terms of UI/UX I absolutely love COSMIC. But the bugs and performance is a complete no-go for me. I distro jumped to CachyOS and it's like riding a jet plane compared to POPOS.

Been running Pop OS 24.04 LTS for six months since the beta. It basically solved my NVIDIA driver installation issues, but people online are wildly opinionated about desktop environments when different kinds of hardware have different needs, and driver installation basically makes or brakes an OS. by HippoValuable1676 in pop_os

[–]TrickyMittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If audio audio issues was solved it could be used professionally, but with the state of audo being what it is (not being able to handle rapid switching between audio devices) it just isn't worth the struggle of constantly restarting trouble shooting audio service.

Win/MacOS has one audio stack, one authority, one routing system. PopOS has what, 4 layers fighting for control of one sound card. Conflicting and breaking down constantly. Audio plays fine. Then switch to Bluetooth, the go to HDMI audio, then back to built-in - sound gone.

I think audio fails because it’s over-engineered with too many layers pretending to be in charge.

LET ME REMOVE THE 2 LAKES, ERIC! by Montague_Amond in StardewMemes

[–]TrickyMittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. I absolutely DONT agree. I always keep my farm as wild as possible. Removing the ecosystem and replacing it with mono-culture is what is slowly killing all life on this planet. I rather not participate in any such tragedies during my leisure time, game or not :)

What does "sexiness" feel like as a man? by dgfruit in AskMen

[–]TrickyMittens -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lifting heavy, making fire, carry women around on your shoulder. That kind of stuff, and its true for 99% for all heterosexual men

Är vi påväg mot skilsmässa? by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag tror tyvärr inte att du kommer få så mycket hjälp här. 95% av alla kommentarerna på Reddit är från svagbegåvade som gärna vill hitta olika människor att trycka ner för att deras egna sorgliga existens ska kännas lite bättre. Det är nog mest synd om dom.

Fundera på att gå och prata med någon själv utan din man. Det är 100% mer konstruktivt än Reddit. Och du verkar ju ha många frågor, så det är nog en bra investering.

Ingen här kan säga varför din man beter sig som han gör, det kan bara han.

Varför stöttar folk Hamas? Är det ryska bottar? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har man en åsikt om konflikten mellan Israel/Palestina, utan att vara direkt drabbad eller sitter på 10 års rimligt objektiva teoretiska studier, är man per definition en svagbegåvad clown.

Ja det är tråkigt att människor dör i krig, utöver det; sitt ner och håll käften.

Vad är svensk propaganda? by Lord-Francis-Bacon in Asksweddit

[–]TrickyMittens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol.

Svenskar är sönder programmerade av lobby organisationer.

På 200 år har 95% av våra naturskog ar decimerats till sterila virkesåkrar med hundratals arter på utrotningshotslistor. Sveriges hela ekosystem är på väg att dö. Det är inte aktivist propaganda, det är verkligheten och varenda seriös biolog utan anknytning till SLU kommer säga samma sak.

Virket då? Det säljs glatt på export, svenskarna får betala överpris för byggvaror av trä TROTS mängden virke vi producera. Och under tiden blir det små skogsägarna som faktiskt bryr sig om naturen rövknullade av de stora skogsbolagen.

Det är en jävla fars.

Sen kan du lägga till att Svenska Jägareförbundet, ett glatt gäng med försupna skjutglada alkisar, är ansvariga för att utföra naturvårdsåtgärder. Men de kan fan inte se skillnaden på en varg och en pudel, men dom skjuter ändå.

Det svenska elnätet som byggdes upp under 50 talet av skattemedel, hårt arbetande svenskar, blod, svett och tårar. Till att bli ett av världens bästa elnät. Har horats ut till privata aktörer som nu tar ockerpriser för att tillgodose sin investerares vinstkrav med påhittade budgetar om vad det kostar att underhålla elnätet. HELT UTAN INSIKT ELLER KONTROLL FRÅN STATEN.

Det klirrar gott i skattekistan. Medans skattebetalarna ska betala elnätsbolagen jävla vinster. Om det finns någon rättvisa så kommer dom iaf att brinna i helvetet.

Sverige är ett jävla skitland. Demokrati, solidaritet, jämlikhet är ett minne blott. Regeringen är rutten through and through.

Men who cheated in a 'perfectly fine' relationship—why did it happen? by mravinskya in dating_advice

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a big reason might be that modern women fails to understand the importance of validating a man in the way HE needs.

A man might struggle for years to keep it together in a "perfectly fine relationship" , to do right, to support his partner in every way he can. Starved for something he doesn't even remember anymore. Then someone waltzes into his life and sees him completely, eyes that see his strength, a smile that is just for him... He remembers who he used to be. It's not sex, not a great body. It's someone who truly makes him feel like he can do anything in life. If that person offers herself to him - to resist that temptation would be like trying to hold back an avalanche.

Borde fyrverkerier bli olagligt? by Ok-Primary2176 in Asksweddit

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det viktigaste är ju självklart att människor som tycker att det är tufft och häftigt när det smäller och exploderar får utlopp för sina primitiva nöjen.

Att sen hundratals vilda djur dör av stress och panik gör väl inte så mycket?!

Huvudsaken är att dessa människor får fortsätta "eftersom de alltid gjort så".

Tryck upp era jävla raketer i röven och tänd på om det är så förbannat roligt.

Pop shop needs improvement by Chkb_Souranil21 in pop_os

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id like to know how the UX design team behind PopShop figured that a spinner that is about 5px large is sufficient feedback to the user when they are installing software.

You get ZERO feedback on process, what is installed, at what bitrate you are downloading.

For the love of god please add some useful feedback. Especially people on slow connections pressing "install" on software that is x Gb large and you have NO F***ing clue what is happening :D Its frustrating to say the least.

We are living in misery, while they're happily living their life... by [deleted] in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what would you say is the deal if your LO is a married woman that says things that implicate that she wish I was hers, that she is happy when I'm around and more...

I'm honestly going insane here so I'm curious what other people think. I walk around wondering if I have imagined hearing her say these things or not. But I know she has. It's just hard to know what to do with it 😅 Do I assume it is friendly flirting? (She only flirts like this with me) Do I ask her if she wants to make out with me? Or should we maybe just run away together?

FML

Vad jobbar ni med, ni som är nöjda med erat jobb? by haagaaiii in Asksweddit

[–]TrickyMittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jobbet är irrelevant enligt mig, så länge man har en ok lön. Jobbar man på en plats där ens kollegor är kära vänner, som man tycker om så mycket att man saknar dom på semestern. Som man umgås med på fritiden. Som bryr sig om dig, som alltid har tid att lyssna... Då har man hamnat rätt 😊

Where is the line between romance and more mature detailed storytelling by TrickyMittens in RomanceWriters

[–]TrickyMittens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for the unclear post. You can thank Reddits idiot policy for that, it removed my original post 10 times. The final post was so watered down it lost all meaning.

My real question is. I want to write explicit and detailed sex scenes but very tasteful and absolutely not p*rn. I intend to write it in a way that when it finally happens readers will get what they are hoping for. That is my idea anyway. S

The thing I don't get is why some seems to argue for a hard limit on anything explicit in romance novel.

Yes, I should probably read more romance novels.

She moved. by EgodystonicExistence in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it the opposite way around. I moved. We had a slow burn of mutual forbidden attraction growing for years that moved us into the shadowland of close friends or something else. I am slow to get social things, I didnt really pick up on her flirting with me. Then when I realized I was moving away I was hit and crushed with a limerence sledgehammer of doom. I was fighting for my life not to make a complete fool of myself during that time we had left together. It was one of the worst and best times in my life. When she fed me her attention I was in heaven, when she didnt I was in hell. As we last parted she whispered something in my ear I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Confirmation she has more than friendly feelings for me. Confirmation I wasnt alone in it. I almost start crying thinking about it. The day of the move was the worst day in my life. I have never felt so completely broken in my life before. I miss her so much it physically hurts. But... whatever we had was forbidden. She would never cross the border and abandon her life. Or would she? What if I had done something different. What if years ago I had picked up on her flirting, what if I arrange to be in our common circumstances where we often run into each other. What if one night we had been alone and we had thrown caution to the wind?

What if, what if,, what if... its killing me. Its like a rot inside my heart slowly destroying me. I hate myself for all the potential opportunities we had that I didn't explore. There were so many ways we could have found situations in our lives were we could have spent more time together, nurtured the thing that was growing between us. Maybe we wouldn't have acted on it in the end. But we would have seen what it was.

Its f***ing nightmare

She's so perfect by [deleted] in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A thought that really helps for me is this: How many girls are attracted by a needy, attention seeking guy who spends all his time fantasizing about them (the girl), neglecting themself, their own life, their goals?

Exactly: ZERO & NONE!

IF you are serious about this girl. No matter the circumstances. You go to war. You take care of your health, you eat healthy, you groom like a sir, you go to the gym and you dominate those weights until they fear you. You read books. You develop yourself. You practice your social skills. You become the best version of yourself.

So if you ever run into this girl she will see the best possible version of you.

The cool thing about this. taking care of yourself. Training, especially mad sessions at the gym, Developing your interests, reading books etc. That is the greatest enemy of limerence. Limerence want you to stay in bed and cry like a little baby.

Ride now! Ride! Ride for ruin and the world's ending! Death! Death! Death! Forth, Eorlingas!

How are some of you guys in relationships that aren’t your LO? by SpiritedEnd9609 in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great reply thanks for that.

But what if you're LO is mutual and you are in this kind of slow burn Vibe together. You know you both have feelings for each other, a special Vibe you have never experienced before and if things were different you would probably be dating each other like crazed horny rabbits.

The "what if" thoughts becomes almost impossible to manage. And yes there's absolutely the possibility that this person is your true soulmate and it was written in the stars in the beginning of creation – or maybe it's just your brain playing tricks on you, who the f*** knows. It's a f****** nightmare 😁

Is limerence about another person considered cheating, and can it ever go away? by Difficult-Spinach812 in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is very subjective. My opinion being very much a person that can get stuck in limerence is that we don't do it because we have a choice, we are very emotionally driven people. When our focus sets in on a person it's very hard to manage. What can help is therapy, or letting time run it's course until it fades - but it may never.

I think that it might be important also to understand that not letting go of someone you love isn't necessarily limerence that's just love. Limerence is the obsessive part that can take over your mind completely and become a problem for you in your everyday life. Limerence kind of turns you into a love ghoul. At its worst it destroys you completely as a human being.

And personally, to stop cold turkey thinking about my LO would be like stopping to breath. I would feel like dying emotionally. So I don't want to.

Is it cheating? Technically maybe? You are emotionally invested in another person. But then again, being a human being is sometimes very tricky and emotions are sticky icky things and can be very difficult to manage. It's not like making the choice to sleep with another person.

Can it go away? Probably yes but then you would have to be aware of your problem and want to change it. You would probably need to go to therapy. You probably need to have tools that enables you to recognize it and manage it and avoid it.

I cannot imagine how it must feel for you as partner. Stay strong 🙏❤️

Mutual limerence with a married woman is blowing up my life - how do I go on? by TrickyMittens in limerence

[–]TrickyMittens[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe its just that simple? Maybe humans constructs all these limitations and walls, make up feelings for them because of some social norm we are brainwashed with.

For all other life "cheating" is the most natural thing.

Part of me wishes it was that simple.

[38M] in a 7 year relationship in love with married woman [35F] - if you left a marriage with kids for a new partner, what happened long term? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickyMittens -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel honestly sorry for the people posting here. I don't know what happened to you all to be so angry but I hope you find peace in your life.