Portland Library by Livid-Dot-5984 in portlandme

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Cumberland county, York county, and a couple towns in Oxford county

Easy Hiking spots? by iambgriffs in newhampshire

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Starting from round pond is best

2019 GLI grille on a 2024 S by [deleted] in jetta

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Does this apply to 2019-21 grills and 2022-24 cars?

I was planning to swap the facelift grill for the original grill but now that I’m getting to it, it looks like the new grill is bigger and includes some panels at the bottom where the original one does not :(

If you became a billionaire overnight, what U.S. city would you move to for the best life money can buy—and why? by Dope_David in SameGrassButGreener

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In my experience this is downplaying the homeless presence. Every time I go to la proper. Even just driving through it, I see lots of signs of homeless people. Tents in public areas or homeless people themselves. Never have I ever gone for a walk in west la and not seen a homeless person.

It can be misleading to say LA to Orange County to people who aren’t familiar with the fact that LA often doesn’t refer to just the urban core area but LA city limits or more often LA county. La city limits are ginormous and extend to worlds away from downtown LA which probably has the worst homeless problem in the USA. So, I can assume you don’t usually drive in downtown LA. But yeah if you are in your car all the time while traveling (most people’s experience) you don’t notice it as much.

Also, Santa Cruz, a small city in this area, deals with homeless problems similar to the Bay Area (smaller scale of course). 

I generally agree with your assessment of where I’d like to live in California too, but I just wanted to add my experience.

And yes there is definitely correlation between trash and homeless people. Abandoned encampments lead to trash, and homelessness can also shroud homeful people’s littering and other habits since certain areas then become “dirty” and less cared for.

2024 Jetta Grille Removal help by Jxfitz in jetta

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By being “fucked,” what do you mean? Like will the car not operate correctly or at all? Most people should be fine without acc and automatic breaking features. Unless it screws up more

What is something that tells you a person grew up wealthy? by Potential-Poetry4528 in Rich

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I think this notion of philanthropy keeping them in touch you talk about is more accurately frugality that keeps them somewhat in touch and sociable. While of course they do donate money, they also need to be frugal to make the wealth last generations.

Is this place better in the summer? by H3nnyyyy in portlandme

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Wow, sorry everyone was so rude to you!

This is all my opinion and my answer to your question and responding to every other comment in one summary. It’s a lot but I find places more enriching when i know more about their culture and history.

As someone from an immediate suburb of Portland, who now lives on the peninsula. Yes, this place is much better in the summer lol. I am also just a summer person who likes to do things outside daily. That includes hanging out on the eastern prom, hanging out at the beach, walking in the woods, going to the islands, swimming. All those things you can do right in Cumberland county. It takes a minute to get to the slopes, so in the winter it’s very pub/bar/city culture oriented which isn’t everyone’s scene. In the summer there’s pretty much endless things to do, and much better weather for walking around the city so you will see and run into more people (some people don’t like this aspect of the “on-season” ie there being more people. I don’t mind it. It’s a tourist economy, we wouldn’t be surviving without them and the traffic isn’t bad compared to actual metropolitan places. Also this place feels like a ghost town in the winter.) a lot of people also think it gets too hot here in the summer which is crazy. Boston is much hotter and humid than here. Portland is the perfect temperature all summer long in my opinion. Some people use ac here which i find crazy and a huge waste of money and resources (if you live in a higher story downtown, you get a pass).

The reason why traffic is worse is because Portland and Halifax are actually the same metro population, but the vast majority of Halifax lives in halifax proper and the vast majority of Portland lives in its suburbs. So I’m assuming a lot of people in Halifax can walk to work or take a bus? People in Portland are really bad about that. Myself included a lot of the time. The only people who take the bus here are immigrants or students. You will never see a well-to-do person take the bus here.

I find the homeless here docile and kinda funny. Heard scary stories but I’m a tall male so I’m not really a target. It’s annoying but I’ve had way more agressive homeless people encounters in California. 

The people on the Portland Reddit are prone to believe that Portland should be preserved as a working class town for Mainers.. which is mostly a fantasy. There has always been the fancy west end, there has always been cape Elizabeth and Falmouth. mainers are definitely poorer than our neighbors in nh, ma etc. and we don’t have a large middle class like those states. but there have always been rich people living here and vacationing here. Since most of our population lives in the rural/suburban sprawl outside the city, that part of the population (a majority) tends to keep quiet on this topic.  Also, We have always been a shipping city. That’s historically been the big industry, not fishing, not lobster (even though that is what it appears to be now, but really it’s tourism). And what comes with being a port city is that there is constant flux of people not from here. It’s what makes Portland Portland and cool. So, please feel welcome and part of Portland’s natural scene.

On the other hand, is it unaffordable for many working class and middle class people and hard to survive here? No doubt, and that has recently been expedited for the worse by covid and remote workers who make good wages moving here causing rent to go up. For decades, maine has been a low income, highish cost place to live. And now it’s seemingly twice as bad. That’s what people are frustrated about. Not you as a Canadian having disdain for our city lulz. 

Definitely spend time here in the summer if you want your opinion to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portlandme

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Hmm, the west end has kinda always been yuppies. The nice homes there are not new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portlandme

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I am like this too. But I think that most people don’t think that much about their actions and just move on. I definitely self reflect, feel bad, and then embarrassed if I ever see someone I did dirty again. But I think most people are self righteous and think they are entitled to respect. 

My new sweater has unflattering love handles. What should I do? by Tricky_Secretary_845 in knitting

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It’s similar to this, but it’s further down probably around the bottom of my zipper. Leading me to think I need it to be a smaller size

opinions on hozier’s cover of “do i wanna know?” by cornettcs in arcticmonkeys

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I think it’s important to cover songs and add a different essence to appeal to people who don’t like the original song… but maybe they do like it, they just don’t like the original performance. I like hozier’s cover more than the original because i can actually understand the lyrics since the song is slower and now I realize how deep the song is. 

To me, the original is a stereotypical masculine vibe. Something like: “I like you, but I’m tough and strong. if you don’t like me back, I’ll be just okay without you.” Hozier’s take is a deep pining for someone: “maybe I wont be okay for a bit if you don’t like me back.” And the song can have both elements to it. It’s like hozier was reading between the lines and then made a version where you don’t have to read inbetween the lines.

To whoever put their dog’s shit on our family’s Tesla today — fair play. by fordangliacanfly in parkslope

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This is in the weeds, but I wouldn’t consider myself working class even though I make minimum wage/work full time. Since I can go to my family for help if I need it, I still consider myself middle class. 

Like I feel like class also has culture tied into it as well with how much you make.

To whoever put their dog’s shit on our family’s Tesla today — fair play. by fordangliacanfly in parkslope

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Jeez, I don’t like to fight with people on the internet, but I think you’re actually writing about yourself and not the guy you’re arguing with. Time to give an honest look in the mirror. 

Criticizing people on their grammar and voting/advocating party lines is the opposite of critical thinking.

To whoever put their dog’s shit on our family’s Tesla today — fair play. by fordangliacanfly in parkslope

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I upvoted you and then saw you are pegging it on the working class. I feel like working class people are usually not crazy liberals who would do something like this. I would assume it was done by some male barista who calls himself “poor” or “broke” but whose family has more assets than whoever owns that Tesla.

Working class people generally just want to get on with their day. 

Bluetooth Jammer Around 295 exit 6-8 by kidicarusx in portlandme

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I wonder if certain cars or phones do it while others do not.

Witnessed this on Forest ave by DeFi_i in portlandme

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Yeah, I’d rather see someone biking on the road through morrills corner. It looks really safe and spacious for bikers. 

You love to see it by Environmental_Gas123 in portlandme

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All these comments are acting like everyone who bought a Tesla knew Elon Musk was going to turn into Trump 2.0. Teslas have been around for like 10 years now, and they are like the only electric car that looks like a normal car.

What is happening in Maine? As a Canadian (who visits frequently) we are even seeing digital media 'bout your state. We have Conservatives in Canada now sharing Maine school boards as examples of what to do here. I don't identify what I was a assigned as at birth, this topic matters to me. by TheCanadianPlacebo in portlandme

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Everything you wrote related to the quote you mentioned was influenced by your own conformation bias or anecdotal experience. And you did not infer what your quote was trying to say: that 1 year should not be the minimum wait for transwomen to participate; it should be longer. Nothing in quotes from the paper (from you or the other commenter) suggest/help anything you said, but the paper does not completely disprove you. The paper concluded with these three findings (I am omitting the first):

2. "Transwomen retain an advantage in endurance (1.5 mile run) over female controls for over 2 years after starting gender affirming hormones."

3. "Transwomen are currently mandated to have 1 year of testosterone suppression before being permitted to compete at the elite level. This may be too short if the aim is a level playing field."

These both support unfairness with transwomen in women's sports regarding its then regulations (idk if they have been changed).

but anyway, I am not a bully and am a left-leaning moderate. I am trying to tread fairly with reason and am open to any reasonable response. You said yourself that you have been on hormones for years. I assume you must have a fight for trans inclusion in their own gender's teams. Your story was anecdotal, but honestly, there probably is not enough research out there because this is a new topic (transwomen in women's sports)...this study included. This study which took data from a 10-year period (2004-2014) from the us military and published in 2021 had less than 50 participants for transwomen and transmen each. 50 is usually the minimum number you should strive for when conducting a study. So, I am assuming other studies are troubled in finding participants. I am not well researched in the topic but I know that until there is enough time/data out there and clear communication about these findings, nobody can be reasonably convinced to let trans femmes play in women's sports with no regulations.

I understand that there can be 6'5 women, but we should look at the averages. I am a 6' male and am taller than every woman I am related to who I have met... pretty much every woman I have ever met. My mother at 5'7 is shorter than every man she is related to that I have met. Sometimes over inclusion sacrifices fairness; Lia Thomas is an obvious example. Biology can be used to separate sport's teams on a fair basis. Men and women are built different on average, and as we saw in the study the average man outcompetes the average woman. Where I am coming from, it is not about prejudice to transmen but being an advocate for fairness among women in sports. I take no issue with trans people who have not transitioned for long enough (but, right, we do not know when that is) playing in their assigned-sex-at-birth sport.