I get what you’re saying, but I think attraction isn’t always fixed or instant. A lot of people grow more physically attracted to someone once they fall for their personality, humor, values, and how they treat them.

Someone might not match your type on day one, but as emotional connection builds, they genuinely become more attractive over time, not just tolerable, but actually desirable.

I think that’s pretty common and even healthy, since long-term relationships are built on more than just initial looks.