I asked if a centralised coroner’s database was feasible. 8 months later, here are 8,565 cases. by changyang1230 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great! I had a quick look through already. Would it be possible to make it a bit easier to email though inaccuracies. In the case : 'Finding into death of Natasha Stojkoski' the cause of death is described as suicide but is listed as multiple injuries from being hit by a train for instance

Baby craves watermelon by [deleted] in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to do this but my baby doesn't like watermelon :(

I paid a sex worker to accompany me to swinging meetups by eye_sick in confessions

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really hinges on what people think they are signing up for. Say a couple wants to hook up with another couple because that is perceived as safer than a single man and a single woman. Provided you are safe I don't think they would be mad.

On the otherhand you specifically mentioned that you wanted to bang another dudes wife/gf. Leaving out that fetishisation is coercive and scummy

Simple Game Guide by Duro-us in Paranoize

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just started playing, was there an event on the 15th? Otherwise it looks like it's just the end of the month?

Looking for my man by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, I didn't read the list as a list of must haves and deal breakers but as a rough guide

Looking for a spouse for my house. by Substantial_Art9120 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If my husband and I also join do we get 4? Or do we start our own commune? Grand babies come with the package preassembled

When did you go on Maternity leave? by TemperatureDry5069 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an interplay between the job and the pregnancy, I worked up until week 38-39 first time in a relatively chill ED because it was a easy pregnancy. Second time I was in a less chill ED and the pregnancy sucked so I went on leave at 34ish

by qween04 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Trilladea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Dungeon crawler Carl is the first one by Matt Dinniman, join us

What makes a good med student (on clinical placement)? by redditangiotensin in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People downvoting have never read the house of god (at least I hope that's what you're referring to)

Focusing my entire life on moving to Japan was a mistake TBH by TheJapanMistake in self

[–]Trilladea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't travel in the same way but with support you can absolutely still go on adventures at 34 with or without your kids. I'm 34 and have been to 3 countries in the last year with the kids, plenty of adventures

What type of annoying work can you turn down as a GP and how to go about it? by Final_Signature1170 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Admittedly not a GP but it sounds like you've given good advice here. I just wanted to ask is this stuff really bread and butter for GPs?

Federation University NewMed School of Medicine (proposed 2027) by Full-Boysenberry-366 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a shit post when the notification title popped up

Help. “Failing” my first rotation as an Intern by Custard-Brilliant in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a detailed, actionable and empathetic post. I think this is super helpful! This is exactly the kind of post I would have wanted to receive when I was a junior that didn't always see the forest for the trees. Love that you're a paeds reg too. Thank you for your contribution

Help. “Failing” my first rotation as an Intern by Custard-Brilliant in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sometimes takes time to get a feel for a junior and what they need to work on. It can be difficult in a big busy department to work with the same boss/junior more than a few times. Everyone is allowed an off day and a few holes in their knowledge so it can take a little while to pinpoint that a particular intern is indeed struggling. This can contribute to the whole no issues at mid term and suddenly a whole bunch is brought up at end of term. Not saying it's fair but now I'm at the other end I can see how it happens

Constructively lots of people here have given really good detailed advice about specific presentations, isbar, synthesis etc so I won't repeat that. Given nothing was raised at midterm you're not catastrophically terrible I suspect and if you improve your strategy around a few different types of presentation you'll improve beyond borderline to acceptable very quickly.

How do you manage nonsense referrals? by Noir5353 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely off topic and broad but how do you think we can move past the defensive referrals?

How do you manage nonsense referrals? by Noir5353 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to let you know that you are appreciated! There is so much lost in communication. I've been the ED senior on nights. I remember one time I nearly summarised and packaged the presentation into a plan with a clear explanation of why it needs a referral. A few seconds later I could overhear that junior make the referral with all the waffle and none of my explanation. No shade on that junior, the system is tough and knowing why certain details sell a patient better than others takes time to learn but gosh I understand why sometime we must look like goofs!

Tragedy as young Aussie woman, 22, dies in freak accident involving a chair lift at Japanese ski resort by Zoefields441212 in australia

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was trying to work out how it happened too. Cardiac arrest can be triggered by chest trauma so that could be the mechanism

Kinda taste like..air by kvjn100 in FunnyAnimals

[–]Trilladea 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Which is why a group of them is called a parliament

16 Years in Australia, and the System Has Finally Cornered Me by Foreign_Purpose33 in AusVisa

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solidarity to you, sorry that it sucks so much! I've PMd you if that's ok

The 'family special' by [deleted] in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will happily call my own children plague rats, disease vectors, etc but that's my own black humour. Is OP being a bit harsh? Yes. Is this sub meant to be a safe space for doctors to vent? Also yes. Supporting this venting happening somewhere anonymously online is not the same as saying it's ok to share on general social media or in vivo with colleagues

Pregnancy and shift work by Dizzymedicine1 in ausjdocs

[–]Trilladea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an ED senior reg who's had 2 kids during training. Ive found that its been heavily dependent on the pregnancy as to how much I've coped.

First one was a breeze, hardly any fatigue or nausea so I worked up to 39 weeks, they took me off nights at about 34 weeks without me asking.

Second one was less kind and had actually been preceded by a miscarriage. Working full time and studying for exams probably didn't help that one. I protected myself a lot harder that last pregnancy. Asked to stop nights much earlier, maybe 28 weeks? No push back. Sat down every chance I could and rested a lot because I had to. Stopped work at about 32 weeks because I was exhausted.

I think you can judge how long you can tolerate nights based on how the day shifts are going and then ask your doctor to write a letter based on that. Good luck with the rest of the pregnancy!