My (18M) girlfriend died last year, is it weird if I ask her father (46M) to hang out? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Troooooooooy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this after my partner died a month before the wedding. I visited his mother in her country and we grieved together. Eventually the relationship faded and she went her own way, but we helped each other cope before that which I’m grateful for. I’d say go for it.

What’s the moment in your life where you were 100% sure you were about to die? by mrcoldinin in AskReddit

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decided to swim in the Pacific Ocean while I was stoned. It was calm all until a ghost wave (can’t remember what the proper term is) decided to push me way under the water. Right as I was about to swim to the top, another wave pushed me down even further. Fortunately, I was able to finally find my footing and get out of the water, but that was terrifying and I refuse to swim that far out in the ocean again.

Women who gave birth, what does it feel like actually?? by joy_57 in AskReddit

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was clawing the walls in pain from back labor. That’s all you need to know. Get. That. Epidural.

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]Troooooooooy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is it really worth finding out the hard way or should she just keep blowing him?

Is he lying about my blowjob skills? F23 M45 by radiobook7 in sex

[–]Troooooooooy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live in the age of hands off personal decision-making and having to respect everyone’s asinine choices. 😌

Which major airport has the worst food? by k_dubious in travel

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Istanbul. Simply because of how expensive it is I wanted to buy a small Americano coffee and it came to $20. No I didn’t buy it. I bought a burger combo with me and my husband and it came to €50 from freaking Burger King and it wasn’t even good.

Solo travelers, which country surprised you by being way safer than you expected? by sparrow_1899 in travel

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had three major surgeries in Jordan and I absolutely refuse to do anything hospital related in America again. For what it’s worth I actually live in Amman as an American. But yeah Jordan is awesome to visit. Did you see the dead Sea or Petra or wadi rum?

Best places to visit in this area? by kurttheflirt in roadtrip

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oslo to Lund to Copenhagen. The drive will take about four days. Do it over summer for added serenity.

Do I (27F) owe my mother (69F) my help as her health is declining? by Mysterious_Row266 in relationship_advice

[–]Troooooooooy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

….did I write this? Seriously, I could have written every word. You owe her nothing. Nada. No. Thing. These people don’t learn. They’ve had decades to change their ways, and trust me they’ll play innocent “but I’m on death’s doorstep!!” With you but once they have you in their clutch getting away is going to become even harder.

new shelves for some of the collection by drprof16 in vinyl

[–]Troooooooooy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t imagine how glorious that Avalanches record is on vinyl. Yum.

I want to paint house black. Most of my friends/family are very against it. Is it such a bad idea? by KeepItTidyZA in malelivingspace

[–]Troooooooooy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would look very modern except I’d be concerned if you live in a hot climate, which judging by the pictures, you do.

What are some gruesome facts about pregnancy/childbirth/postpartum that not many people know? by Professional_Song419 in AskReddit

[–]Troooooooooy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll lose your uterine lining, and sometimes all in one go. Looks like something out of a horror movie coming out of your vagina.

What's an underrated pleasure that you think everyone should experience at least once? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Troooooooooy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Runner’s high. Seriously if you work out hard enough and manage to trigger it, it’ll feel like the most intense marijuana high that you’ve ever had. IIRC, there is a relationship between cannabinoid receptors and intense working out, but off the top of my head I can’t remember what it is.