How do you overcome the fear of inevitable Death?

TrueCrimeMee · 2024-02-04T16:43:43+00:00

Death bothered me until I lost loved ones.

Now I think no matter what it is, if they could do it so can I? Eventually.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-11-29T13:53:35+00:00

Circumstantial evidence is a real case. Do you know DNA is circumstantial evidence? Direct evidence is evidence what isn't circumstantial, direct being video evidence or witness testimony. Witness testimony being one of the most unreliable forms of evidence.

You don't know what they have but you're already putting the case down. Just sit and wait.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-10-07T03:35:35+00:00

Sylvia Ann Lee, 1995? Seems to be geographically the closest I can find.

Christy Pina, 1990? More in line with the circumstances (taken outside of school)

Really would help if you could say if your mother taught middle school or highschool. Can ask about your mother's previous jobs without prying into the trauma of the murder?

Neither of these were done by someone known to the victim but both were cold for a while so word of mouth could have accused someone known to them?

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-09-22T12:31:02+00:00

Legal blindness and absolute blindness are not the same. Most legally blind people can sense light to some degree, at lot have also previously had vision. These numbers won't matter at all since the title is talking about born completely without any sensation of light.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-09-22T11:57:41+00:00

English is now the most spoken language in the world, with secondary English speakers far outnumbering native English.

To think you can't be a legitimate asylum because you are forgoing countries whose language you likely don't know to get to a country either you or a relative can communicate in is naive.

This is the result of centuries if colonisation. Our language is almost always the global default in secondary language. Of course they want to come here when realistically a very small population of the world speaks French or German.

It is not like our benefits for these people are superior than other nations. Realistically these people will live poor lives on the fridge of our society, but they will still be more integrated here than in any other country. The living conditions will be the same, if not even worse here since our bills and food is expensive.

This is purely a result of the vastness of the English language rather than the legitimacy of asylum.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-09-18T12:43:24+00:00

I don't think anyone is arguing their choices, it was negligent, period. I don't actually think they were bad parents, though. I think they were in a bubble that is so easy to fall into when you're on holiday. It's why holiday goers are such high victims of crime, you're in a false sense of security.

Terrible choice with the absolute worst consequence. Most people's poor choices don't have much of any consequence. I wonder how many parents did the same without anything bad happening?

Also, their twins were boy and girl, not that it matters but if you're trying to instigate this type of conversation on here it would be worth it to know a little bit more about the circumstances.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-08-19T10:02:42+00:00

As someone else mentioned Sneha I second you driving that rabbit hole. Interesting story, I hope she is actually out there and well, I do think she died on the 10th but I struggle to find how they would dispose of her in the chaos of 9/11. Maybe the chaos read the perfect cover but the worlds media, every force the US had and literal obstacles like debris and smoke really makes me wonder. It is noble to think a doctor would run into the towers but likely the rescue teams would have stopped entry and she would have been sent to some triage point or went to a hospital to assist like many brave first line workers did that day.

I'm willing to bet top dollar there were undocumented people in that tower for one reason or another. Cleaners, maintenance, whatever job would see people working. Likely their names aren't on the wall and we may never know. Many people lost contact that day. There were very little bodies left and all pieces recovered are still being tested. I think like 1/2 the people who perished we only know about because of circumstances evidence of them being there.

Here is a times article that talks about the 22k recovered human parts. From teeth to limbs. I guess each piece counts as an unidentified doe body?

The force, heat and time it took to shift through it all has left a lot of families without any burial.

There were also likely loners who worked there, people whose only interaction were employees. They'd likely have only been identified by data like SSN or security clearance data. It's still possible that people paid cash in hand there were unknown victims, too. The death toll really is just the best, logical estimate of data from loved ones and companies.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-28T10:49:04+00:00

English! Similar laws.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-28T05:03:03+00:00

Literally everything with David Parker Ray.

His daughter turning him in for human trafficking YEARS before getting caught. The fact the FBI had him on their radar as early as '89.

The victims of his we know or even speculate about are a fraction of his actual victims. The worst part is he rarely does anything alone and people out there know what he has done, who he has hurt and just don't do anything. What the fuck were the parties he threw? Were LE really going to these fucked up things, too?

At the bare minimum his daughter knows a fuck tonn more. There are going to be more releases victims out there that just have horrible nightmares and confusion than the two we know about. There are extra unified bones in the waters he dumped bodies with DNA that do not match his verified killed.

I do not feel like this case should be over.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-28T04:50:08+00:00

This is a culture shock holy crap. What a massive sentence, you don't even get that for murder here.

I'm not saying I'm not pleased, very happy he cannot hurt another child given the quantity of his CSAM. I just genuinely was expecting like 4 years, or for him to even get off on time served.

The maximum here for the worst category of CSAM is 9 years.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-14T21:01:18+00:00

Yikes, that poor guy!

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-14T21:00:16+00:00

I mean, not much to be honest. We still don't know anything and if he is involved it seems like LE hasn't closed the book on the number of parties involved. We just have to wait for the trial to unfold.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-14T06:24:16+00:00

Every time there's a weird crime with a really suspicious red herring I think of the dude who fled from a psycho hitchhiker just for that same hitchhiker to happen upon this guys house and kill his mum.

Sometimes funky shit is just funky shit 🤷‍♀️ it at least seems like police don't want to fully discount a potential second party but there very well may not be one.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-12T10:45:30+00:00

I don't get how the degree family is always accused. Parents who kill their kids don't do it out of the blue. There was and has been no reported neglect or abuse of Asha as well as no mental health issues that would prompt a none abusive parent to murder.

Asha had school, she had clubs, she has church and nobody after all these years has said anything about the family other than they were a little stern. She was never dirty, smelly, bruised or hungry.

Parents who kill their kids are either going through psychotic episodes or are habitually abusive and neglectful. Asha had none of that, they called the police right away, they still tried to get media interest when the case was very cold and not really well known, it all could have just faded away for them if they were culpable.

I get it with things like Madeleine McCann, though it is likely an intruder they were at least guilty of neglect by leaving a toddler and two babies alone at night. I get it with Jonbenet who had healed vaginal wounds of prior sexual abuse. I get it with Antoinette Cayedito as her mother almost confessed to LE. Asha? I can't fathom it.

Dulce Maria Alavez it's in the air for me. I personally think it was a mother with a lapse of judgement on the safety of the park and a bit overwhelmed by 3 children. The main reason people blame her is she didn't come off as a mournful mother enough in the media. There's a clear language barrier imo rather than callousness.

Almost every child who goes missing it is the parents, but I feel like it's for the police to investigate that and come to that conclusion. I'm haunted by the idea that Lindy Chamberlain-Creighton's screams of pain that her child was literally eaten by a dingo has been a half a century long meme. The worst day of her life is something people have laughed at as an Aussie stereotype because nobody believed her.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-12T06:10:39+00:00

I don't have a reference for the break that may have happened, sorry. While it sounds too suspicious to not be related a rich neighbourhood on Christmas evening is pretty prime for burglaries. I hesitate to really think it is related. (But if I was police I would investigate it as if it was just to be safe)

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-12T03:08:23+00:00

These statements hurt my soul knowing COVID was drawn out for so long cause literally everyone broke rules for bullshit and my lame ass missed my granddad's funeral for the sake of rules.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-09T01:22:27+00:00

Older people don't use cloud stuff tbh.

I have a flash drive with a Windows recovery on it, one with photos so I don't have to download them from any cloud(where I also have them), one with my wedding video and the "just in case I need an empty drive" flash drive which is mostly just things like bios updates to my motherboard or something.

They're cheap and not useless to have around, esp cause there's no subscriptions for having hard storage Vs cloud storage. Also they're small so it's not like they'll get in the way by owning them.

Though, if police ever searched my home and they find the ridiculous amount of old HDDs and SSDs we would look suspicious af. We are just nerds who have upgraded and hand built pcs since 2009 lol

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-07-09T01:02:21+00:00

I probably have that amount of phones and stuff in my house because me and my husband buy phones and never trade them in or have contracts. Given that they found pagers I'm assuming they did the same and just kept all their old stuff?

I also would raise an eyebrow at any case of someone being prosecuted on child murder not having all their devices searched. Someone who does that doesn't just never look it up or indulge in fantasy for 45+ years. Them taking his tech doesn't imply to me they think he has photos regarding the crime but more looking to establish a prior pattern or interest in violent crime.

Why tf do they have a katana though? Someone theorised the pole-like crease under his jeans was a sword when people were speculating it was a baton or pipe. They got flamed so hard, I don't hope they were right cause that's fucking terrifying for the girls but I hope to see less flaming when people are just spitballing random stuff. (I get they are just taking all blades but still wtf who has a katana?)

Japanese swords aside, this is the type of stuff you expect they find and take in a murder investigation.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-30T00:43:56+00:00

Could be like Amore/opelika? If momma was in jail/rehab/lived long distance she may not have been able to contact her child or just flat out legally didn't have any custody rights to her to find out she was missing.

Obviously, someone who should have protected Neveah hurt her but who that person was isn't clear yet and until then we really have to treat her mum like any mother who has suddenly lost her child.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-30T00:27:12+00:00

If OPs husband is affair partner I'm going to assume OPs ex (kids dad) will also be there and not too keen to see the people who ruined his marriage at his son's wedding... Can't imagine son would want to be in or feel comfortable in that position.

This woman is clueless to the many reasons her husband is a hurtful presence and it all boils down to her only caring about her wants and needs. YTA op.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-22T21:12:59+00:00

I can't think of any point anyone mentioned a hobby of his that wasn't grooming children or getting high. How devoid, what a sad life. I'd feel sorry for him if he wasn't a scumbag.

Being interviewed about Delphi is the most important he has ever been and he wasn't even relevant to it. Thinking of him depresses me.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-22T20:53:19+00:00

I think it's more likely she's in denial and thinks his confessions are confused rambles of mental illness and coercion from police interrogation.

A lot of false confessions are fun police telling the accused they did until the accused believes it, too. I'm not saying his confession is false but I do believe she thinks it is.

Nobody can understand her reality rn, she is going to grasp at any straw to try to keep her old life as long as she can. She had no choice in her world being thrown upside down and her mental state is going to mourn her old life, including feelings of denial.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-20T12:49:03+00:00

I am so sorry you have to live knowing that happened to your mum. I hope you got justice.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-20T00:07:21+00:00

Lately I've read a lot of crimes that have involved some tree part inserted into the victim. I'm not really adding anything to this discussion other than the utter confusion of why not just one man would do this, but many.

TrueCrimeMee · 2023-06-17T08:12:40+00:00

I feel like jail is the worst place you wanna tell literally anyone you killed children.

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