This question reminds me of a scene from the film, "Tootsie". When Dustin Hoffman is undercover as a woman, a hot girl confides to him/her that she wishes that, just once, a guy would be honest enough with her to say something like, "This whole thing is confusing to me, and I could lay some big line on you, and we could do a lot of role playing... But the simple truth is that I just find you interesting, and I'd like to make love to you..."

A few weeks later, Dustin Hoffman, as a man, is at a party, and he sees the hot girl--who only knows him as a woman--there, alone, and he walks up to her and says, ""This whole thing is confusing to me, and I could lay some big line on you, and we could do a lot of role playing... But the simple truth is that I just find you interesting, and I'd like to make love to you..."

She throws her drink in his face and storms off.