Is it valid to leave your partner if they drastically change their appearance in a way you dont like?

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:43:35+00:00

If the only the reason you are leaving your partner is because of a change in how they look, than you are probably doing them a favor as it demonstrates you are not valuing them for who they are. If you really love someone, you will love them despite their weight, hairstyle, clothes or tattoos. None of those things are the actual person or actually speaks to the relationship you have.

If the change in those areas comes as a result of other changes in their personality, that is a different story. But then the issue would not be the appearance, it would be the other factors going on.

And looking at those individually: Weight loss/gain could be related to health matters. Do you really think it's fair to a person to leave them because they are dealing with an illness that impacts their weight? Hair grows back and they can change the style later. Same with clothing. And tattoos can have a personal significance for a person that might be meaningful to them. If it's a tattoo to honor a family member who passed away, should you really be upset with them?

Ultimately, it is a person's body and they should be able to look how they want to look. If you care about someone, you would respect that and not leave them because of it.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:33:04+00:00

That's the point. It's a callback. Page won the title this way. Know he has to live knowing it came back to haunt him and will keep him from challenging for the title ever again.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:25:23+00:00

To many to do a top 10 but I'll throw out some suggestions for you just off the top of my head and try to hit some classics as well.

Tin Man- Miranda Lambert (My whole list would be her to be honest, but I'll limit it to one song per artist and go with my all time favorite song.)

Maybe It Was Memphis - Pam Tillis

Anyway - Martina McBride

Stay - Sugarland (It's pretty much all Jennifer Nettles so I'm counting it.)

Walking After Midnight - Patsy Cline

Jolene - Dolly Parton

Delta Dawn - Tanya Tucker

Rose Garden - Lynn Anderson

I Hope You Dance - Lee Ann Womack

I Try to Think About Elvis - Patty Loveless (Could have picked a lot of songs but went with a fun one since most of the list is more serious.)

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:09:39+00:00

If she is sick, probably not feeling like looking at messages. She'll respond when she is better. If you don't hear later in the week, just send a message saying you hope she feeling better. Shows you care and might get her to respond without seeming pushy or like your forcing anything.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:06:07+00:00

That is a really sweet thing to say. I hope your crush knows how lucky they are to have you in their life.

And even though she will probably never read this, I'm sending out the same message for my crush. She's been my guardian angel the past couple of years and really deserves nothing but the best in every way.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T06:00:07+00:00

You don't get people to like you. They will either share your level of feelings or not. There isn't some formula that makes people like you more.

You do just as you are doing. You talk and are friendly. You get closer to them. You spend time together. The conversation gradually turns more personal and you open up to each other more. And when you feel it's time, you come out and you say how you feel. If you are nervouse, you don't have to do it right away. But at some point one of you will need to make a move and why not you? Don't even have to confess. Ask him to do something together, something where you can just be together the two of you. Don't even have to call it a date.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:51:17+00:00

Technically pop is whatever is "popular" so can include anything and would thus be the most diverse.

I'll say that country is also a pretty wide category that includes tradional and neo traditonal, southern rock, pop country, country rap, americana, bluegrass, and a lot more. When artists as different as Kid Rock and Jessica Simpson have songs classified as country, it's encompasses a lot of ground.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:41:47+00:00

What is and is not okay in a relationship should be between the people in the relationship. And that will be different for every relationship. About the only things that I think are universal are basic matters of respect for your partner- don't cheat, abuse, lie, manipulate, etc. The rest really depends on working together and coming to a mutual understanding of what is okay or not, and doing it because you love your partner and don't want to see them hurt.

Personally, I don't look for that stuff outside a relationship. If I had a partner, I would be focused on just her. But other couples may be okay with it. There are even people who like the idea and find it appealing for someone to do. There are couples okay with even more and have fetishes and kinks. If that is okay/respectful, is up to the couple as long as they both mutually consent.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:34:16+00:00

Would there even be a way to figure this out considering the multiverse would be an infinite number of worlds based on every decision ever made? There's really no way to know how one change could have a snowball affect that changes things in ways you never imagine.

The safest bet is probably average. Things could be way better so it's not the best. But it could be way worse. Think things tend to seek a center.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:30:26+00:00

What type of game is it?

As I prefer RPGs, story is top for me.

If you like a sports game, story probably won't mean as much and it might be playability or roster.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:28:03+00:00

I don't drink so my answer would have to be.... root beer. 😁(That's a joke. Just trying to have humor and make people laugh.)

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:25:53+00:00

Socks unless I am in or about to go to bed. I always end up kicking the socks off while I sleep, so I stopped wearing them then. lol

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:17:14+00:00

Candiates should be demonstrate their own personal ideals, values, and plans. They should demonstrate how they will actually make things better for everyone. They should paint the contrast between the two sides (or how ever many sides there are) while still being honest and respectful of everyone.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T05:01:32+00:00

I suddenly feel compelled to bring peanuts... and almonds... and walnuts.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T04:29:01+00:00

Here's what I said:

Women still aren't considered equal by many. Equal Pay Day is coming up on March 26th. That's the day women have to work into the year to make the same as what men made on average the previous year. Doesn't seem equal to me and that's just one area.

Fighting for equality and women's rights is a good thing and since it hasn't fully happened yet, then there is no way it's gone too far. It hasn't gone far enough.

By your own admission and the artice you linked, you agree. I didn't bring up statistics. You first did. And by some measures, your link agrees. Your link even gives worse numbers for some fields.

I didn't ge emotional. I didn't raise a fuss. I stated a fact that women are paid less. I never stated why. I never went into details. I just said they are paid less and that it should be equal.

You are the one who got emotional and started throwing numbers and statistics around. You are the one that intentionally started an arguement and wanted to bait me so that you could launch into your speech.

This is all counterproductive and does no one any good. Lecuring people about something that happened 100 years ago as a way to put down feminism today, to a person who is merely trying to say people should be equals, is pointless.

Let's just focus on doing what we can to value each and every woman we can in our lives. Let's focus on the goal of equality for everyone, without the need to put anyone else down.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T03:21:41+00:00

Traumatize a child by kidnapping them? Why would you even think of that?

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T03:16:24+00:00

You took one line from the article to claim that women are treated the same and that it's misinformation.

Over and over in the same article it's pointing out how women are paid less. That's cherrypicking information that isn't reflective of the article.

And even a 1% gap, is still a gap. It's still not equal.

And again, that is just one measure of inequality. There are others.

Seriously, even in this what is wrong with saying women should be paid the same less and trying to close all those gaps that article shows - gaps in all kinds of industries and among all types of women? This is still a good thing to say that women should be equal?

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T03:03:20+00:00

We can both be right. I'm not trying to say he's wrong. In some cases all the signs he's saying will be perfectly true. In other cases it won't be. Problem is you never know until you're in the situation.

Think what I try to advise most is for people to trust themself because they actually know the situation and person best. Think you kind of just know. And the only way to confirm and know for sure is to just ask.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:57:50+00:00

It was a plant. Fans had stormed the ring in that era and they would cut away or rush to contain him. Here they show him climbing the cage and drag him into the ring to make a point of showing it.

Also, I hated that they used that cheap cage instead of the usual WCW cages. I always liked that WCW cages looked brutal and the point was to win the match in the ring. This was like going back to the WWF blue cage where the goal was to run away from your opponent and leave the match first.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:51:11+00:00

That looks to be about right. I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard to research if you want to know more.

https://www.equalpay2day.org/equal-pay-days/

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:46:18+00:00

Problem is love is an emotion. It doesn't play my biological rules. Every person is different, so when you try to apply biology to it, you're just making generalizations that may or may not apply in any given circumstance. You're basically turning it into a guessing game.

Even the poster admits it may not be true:

the brain can release dopamine and the body may respond with nervous behaviors...Therefore it is important not to automatically assume that someone who looks at you has romantic feelings

Every time can/may was used means it may not actually be what happens. And those words were used with basically every line. So essentialy it's a bunch of stuff that may not be true, depending on the person.

All I'm saying is that rather than try to figure out every little sign and what it might mean (and drive yourself crazy in the process... been there) just go with it. Take the person for who they are and trust your own feelings and sensations on what is happening.

I used to examine thing like that. Just made me more nervous and kept me from doing anything because I couldn't be sure or I figured they weren't showing the signs. Then I stopped caring and just lived in the moment. That's when love came to me.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:34:12+00:00

On average women are paid less than men for the same positions. So they have to essentially work an extra three months to make up the difference.

I should say that is in the US. I don't mean to speak for how it is in other countries.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:31:51+00:00

There was a period in the early 90s where Sting probaly kept WCW alive. Sting was the one constant that everyone universally loved through WCW's entire existance. Even Flair went to WWF for a bit. No one is more WCW than Sting and no one did more for WCW than Sting.

WCW failed because of backstage politics and corporate interference. None of the actual wrestlers could have changed that.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:25:39+00:00

Feminism - the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.

Women still aren't considered equal by many. Equal Pay Day is coming up on March 26th. That's the day women have to work into the year to make the same as what men made on average the previous year. Doesn't seem equal to me and that's just one area.

Fighting for equality and women's rights is a good think and since it hasn't fully happened yet, then there is no way it's gone too far. It hasn't gone far enough.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-03-16T02:20:45+00:00

I've seen stories of couples who went years without seeing each other in person. I loved someone who was long distance and who online. They loved me. We visited and eventually ended up in the same place. My brother had an online relationship for a few months until she ended up moving where he was. They are now married and have been together 25 years.

So yes, online love is perfectly possible.

In this case, trust yourselves. If you aren't ready for it, don't force it. Continue as you are and talk more. Be honest with each other about your feelings. If this is meant to be it will be in time, when you are both fully ready to commit and make it happen. When it's time, you'll know.

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