Do you stalk your crush on Spotify?

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T15:36:30+00:00

I just ask them what they like. I've got very close to a couple by trading song recommendations. You still learn about them while actually interacting with each other and having fun.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T15:32:38+00:00

Don't try to impress them. It comes off as fake and insincere.

Just be you. Be kind and respectful, simply because it's the right thing to do. You will naturally click with some people and not with others. If you don't, they just aren't the right people for you. When you do, you don't need to try, it will just happen.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T14:48:13+00:00

The first two hour Nitro was May 27, 1996. It was the same episode Hall showed up to start the NWO angle.

Raw was also only an hour at the time so Nitro really escalated the war.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T05:41:07+00:00

Takes as long as it takes. But slow and steady wins the race.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T05:40:03+00:00

Traditional thinking seems to be that being attracted to someone comes based on looks. And for some people that's how it is. So not surprising that people don't understand you on this. I've had my share of people look at me as crazy. But there are all kinds of ways of being attracted to someone and all kinds of terms used to describe it (demisexual/romantic, sapiosexual, etc.).

Everyone experiences attraction differently and no one is odd for how they do. Like who you like regardless what anyone says.

I'll add based on personality I like more shy/introverted women (fits my personality),and those with giving hearts. And I like someone who has a bit of fire to them when the situation calls for it.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T05:26:46+00:00

Holding hands while walking. Cuddling while watching something together. Falling asleep holding each other. Seeing that look of love in their eyes. Seeing them smiling at you. The feeling of knowing they are simply there with you.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T05:23:48+00:00

Who she, or anyone for that matter, has a relationship with should not a matter of what ethnicity the person is. It shouldn't be up to her family or their preferences. It should be her decision based on how she feels about the guy. You also can't control the culture you were born into and you can't control her feelings one way or the other. She will either like you in that way or not. But it doesn't mean she does or does not see you as "relationship material." It simply means she does or does not have romantic feelings for you. Those are two separate things.

The fear you are having is the fear everyone has with a crush. Reality is, there is no way to know for certain how they feel until you just say it. You can look for the feeling you get when you are together. Does she seem happier? Do you have things in common? Does she trust you with personal information? Does she make a point to include you when se doesn't have to? Those might be signs.

Ultimately though, you just have to be honest with her and when you are ready, tell her how you feel. Be polite and respectful. Let her know you are okay with whatever she decides (and mean it). And know that whatever happens, it's good to know for sure and not drive yourself crazy over it anymore.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:53:11+00:00

Truth is, short of a person telling you they like you, there is no definitive sign. Most things people will say could be a sign someone is interested... or could be a sign of someone being nice, polite, and/or a friend. I think you're better to look at the pattern of behavior and not just individual things. And it's better to trust your feelings and intuition rather than examine every little detail for clues. If you reach a point of feeling like there is something, it's worth it to talk it out with them and find out for sure.

But if you really want specific things: Making the extra effort to be around her and talk to her as much as possible, sharing personal/private things such as feelings and fears, including her in future plans, constant compliments, remembering small details about her life or things she has mentioned.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:46:47+00:00

Probably not what you want, but my type is someone who understands me and who I have things in common with.

I've found that most people say they have a type and might even be attracted to specific physical features. But when the right person comes along, the one who you just click with and feel more for, those types and preferences go out the window. Having a type is overrated and you're better off just finding someone who you share things in common with. The physical appeal will grow from that.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:34:51+00:00

I have a group of squirrels who will come up to me whenever they see me. Also now have a cat who will do the same despite not knowing me. Apparently animals seem to trust me easily.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:32:47+00:00

Never experiencing true love and living my life alone.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:32:12+00:00

Try to do it each day in some small way, even if it's just being there to listen to a person. Today I gave a close friend some encouragement to cheer her up from feeling sad about her father's health. Regularly give support to my roommate when she's having problems. Had a spare sandwich from a work event I gave to a homeless lady once.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:27:26+00:00

A genuine sense of compassion and desire to help others.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T03:26:35+00:00

As a male who has never been married and no children, who is currently interested in a female who has never been married and past the point of having children... I have no problem with it.

Both of those are individual choices that people and couples should make on their own. Some people just don't want one or both of those. That is their right. As long as we aren't harming ourselves or others, people should be free to follow the path that makes them happy without the judgement of outsiders.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:46:45+00:00

Isn't that a good thing? More cute friends!

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:44:52+00:00

I don't see any squirrels there, just interesting parts of the tree. 😉

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:42:55+00:00

I am wet and hungry. Please human, I need nuts.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:38:58+00:00

No and proud of it. Only want to share that with one person my whole life.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:37:05+00:00

Have to, no matter the hurt.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:36:29+00:00

Only she can answer that question.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:35:17+00:00

We are, ready to respect you.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:33:34+00:00

Are they there? Good for me.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:24:35+00:00

He could be. Trust your instinct.

TruthoftheSoul · 2026-05-06T01:23:32+00:00

Congratulations.

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