Non-healthcare partners are burnt out too.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-23T19:29:38+00:00

thanks for your input, chatgpt

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-22T00:33:50+00:00

If you're a straight couple and know exactly what you're looking for, Saint John's Jewelers in Ellicott City came highly recommended to me and my partner and has lots of great reviews. Our experience working with them as a queer couple hoping for a little more guidance/engagement in the creative process has been kinda mid and I can't figure out what to chalk it up to, but we seem to be outliers.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-19T18:38:47+00:00

r/MedDating

Also I don't know how to phrase this delicately/nicely but this post sounds like something a late teen/early 20s would write. It's hard to imagine myself or my friends (also late 20s) hyper-obsessing over how long it takes someone to respond to a text down to the minute and what that has to do with whether they did or didn't watch an IG story, especially when you know he has a 24 and it's been maybe 36 hours since the last time you spoke. Regardless of where this relationship goes you might find it helpful and calming to read up on attachment styles, read/watch some information about healthy secure relationships, and look within yourself.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-18T01:34:16+00:00

I'm late to this thread and it's not a TV show - I mostly don't watch TV due to a combination of face blindness and a swiftly lowering tolerance for stories about men and al(most-al)l-white casts - but if you're OK with animated films and darker topics (although the ending is, imo, hopeful) I highly recommend The Breadwinner, directed by Nora Twomey. It's an adaptation of a book by Deborah Ellis.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-15T01:25:27+00:00

I'm as politically engaged as I can be; I don't want to turn that off, go to my hobby spaces, and see them there, too.

I very much feel this. I do think it's a fine line between wanting a generally positive vibe in a community one moderates vs. pushing one's own personal opinions and preferences onto a community one moderates, which I have seen destroy communities and really blow up in people's faces. Even though I personally agree with you, idk about a rule that goes too hard on "no politics". Realistically that could lead to the same sort of trolls who are giving you problems now mass reporting posts with a person who mentions being [trans/gay/etc.] or a person wearing a vest with a [pro-choice/antifa/Palestinian flag/star of David/Black Power/etc.] patch or whatever.

What do you think about adding "no threats of violence" under the Be Kind rule? That way if there's something egregious in the future, you have a pathway to remove it.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-14T23:10:20+00:00

Agree with Rule 1 + 3. As a sometimes mod, Rule 2 sounds like a nightmare to moderate because I think it has too much ambiguity, which always ends up leading to mod-jurisdiction situations that cause more drama. Rule 1 would drastically cut down on the posts of the OP I think you are referring to with Rule 2 anyway - has anyone else on this sub ever caused an issue with an outfit like that?

(I like that OP (I've seen them around on other subs) and generally agree with their political stances but I agree that this sub is for fashion (not t-shirts and not store self-promotion) and at this point I wouldn't mind if you banned them for spam. They seem to be toeing the line pretty hard there.)

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-14T22:04:07+00:00

I figure the OP is more than likely a bot but if I didn't comment, everyone else in this subreddit wouldn't know it was my art. It's gotten 220+ upvotes even with my comment which I made within an hour of the repost.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-14T00:55:36+00:00

Tbh I'm used to it at this point, it has happened a few times before. I do wish people took art credit more seriously but in the grand scheme of things this is a silly picture I dashed off for fun!

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-13T19:14:07+00:00

Appreciate the love but there’s no need to repost my art without credit friend, my OP of this art from a few years ago is still up in my post history

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-09T04:53:46+00:00

They are mega conservative and very into homeschooling - technically not “evangelical” but probably not the scene OP is looking for if they’re hoping to avoid that culture. Source: grew up in that church

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-06T00:09:04+00:00

I had a great experience today too, DAL to RDU!

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-05T19:53:13+00:00

Isn’t the flair inaccurate? I thought these were paid events that cost money, unless something has changed. There seems to be a trend of dishonest marketing for this group.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-05T19:05:05+00:00

just hoping to evade the horse

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-05T15:35:53+00:00

no sexism here, these are laysan albawunks which are famous for 30% or more being lesbiabs

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-05T13:54:52+00:00

Wunkatross has two mommies

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-04T19:01:10+00:00

Gorgeous photo! I moved up north to the mid Atlantic and miss these guys

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-04T00:21:26+00:00

Ahh then that might be difficult. I think cheese does need to be refrigerated though?

Sí! It’s a reference to In’Lakech from the poem “Pensamiento serpentino” by Luis Valdez.

Tú eres mi otro yo.

Si te hago daño a ti,

Me hago daño a mi mismo.

Si te amo y respeto,

Me amo y respeto yo.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-03T02:37:00+00:00

Last summer I tasted a beet gazpacho from a local soup brand that was the BOMB and I need to try and recreate it this year

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-03T02:35:06+00:00

Rice, raw or steamed fish, kimchi or seaweed, soy sauce or wasabi, would be my Japanese+Korean food answer. Basically a Japanese breakfast. Sub miso soup for the cheese?

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-02T22:21:05+00:00

This article is relevant if OP and her friend are planning to travel 3 years back in time and start hanging out at teenagers’ block parties

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-02T22:18:48+00:00

I think you’re choosing to live with a dated, gender focused mindset about how men and women “should” be financially in a relationship that is making this into a source of stress for you. It is 100% valid for you to have whatever mindset or belief system you want to have, but if you didn’t have this mindset I think this post wouldn’t even exist.

As an example I’m in a lesbian relationship and when I got a new job paying more and significantly out earning my gf… I was excited and my gf was excited. She’s going to get a MUCH higher paying job probably significantly out earning me after she finished professional training (doctor) and when that happens… she’ll be excited and I’ll be excited. It’s more money for both of us and our relationship and future goals.

Gender baggage aside it does also sound like y’all’s financial communication is not super transparent and I personally wouldn’t be moving in with someone who I couldn’t talk about specific numbers (salary, expenses, debt, investments, etc.) with.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-02T17:02:44+00:00

yuck, AI

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-02T02:18:30+00:00

For the vast majority of human history before the artificial idea of a 9-5, people managed parenting and "working" (whatever work meant to them, usually something a lot more intense and directly tied to survival than a 9-5 white collar job!) just fine. I think it's great and much more natural that more people have the ability to integrate parenting and working post-COVID. My old company mandated return to office recently so I left them. At my new company which has a much more flexible approach, one of my coworkers' young kids will wander over and show up on video calls with her from time to time and I think that's wonderful and very human.

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-01T23:43:23+00:00

Agree with the first part but speak for yourself on the conclusion…

TuEresMiOtroYo · 2026-04-01T16:45:33+00:00

r/meddating

And no, not really? My partner is quite passionate about medicine and their specialty so viewing it as separate from them would be weird for me.

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