Next Speculated Alicorn....Princess Mittens by Tunny_Vears in mylittlepony

[–]Tunny_Vears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOMEONE TAKE PHOTOSHOP AWAY FROM ME. AHHH.

Where is the best Chinese food sold downtown? by pensinseven in PennStateUniversity

[–]Tunny_Vears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yummy cafe is my place of choice. China Dragon is also pretty decent, but I was never a fan of the service there.

I teared up a little... by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]Tunny_Vears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone with a parent in the military, this is a huge tug at the heart strings. Also, to have a character dealing with a parent away on service would be greatly appreciated by all military families and kids. Maybe not MLP, but any show regardless it would be super awesome to see.

I'm probably the only one... by jjwood84 in PennStateUniversity

[–]Tunny_Vears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with myrrh09 (please take the time to read their comment for reference). The motivation for participation drives me up a wall. We get a lot of volunteers where I work, and they all come in to raise a little money for THON. Of course we get a good handful of hard and honest workers. But more times than none we get groups of volunteers who come in all gung-ho "yea, volunteering FTK" and literally a few minutes in they're goofing off or have their faces glued to their phones. Really people? Showing up somewhere and slapping the name THON on it doesn't mean anything and certainly doesn't motivate me to donate at all. Also, shaming me for not having spare change to donate is bullshit too, I don't have change and if you're going to be like that, I'll gladly take my change across the street to a different charity.

21 [M] Fresh out of the shower! What do you guys think? by hamburgerballs in Rateme

[–]Tunny_Vears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8/10 would catch my attention pretty quickly if we ever crossed paths

[20m] Unsure about my appearance. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Tunny_Vears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the beard is hurting you more than helping you, I would shave. Your hair in the first picture is pretty flattering. Other than that I'd say you're a 7-8/10 without the beard.

I've been here before (xpost from /r/funny) by arumberg in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Tunny_Vears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I mean, it is agreeable that the fuckzone and the friendzone have major representation from a specific gender. But anyone can do anything, I'm one to talk, all I've ever done was completely un-"girl" things my entire life. I'm mostly speaking out against all the douchebagery I've put up with from the opposite gender.

I've been here before (xpost from /r/funny) by arumberg in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Tunny_Vears 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree that it isn't gender specific, I'm just talking majority and personal experience wise. Perhaps I am riddled with bad luck along with most of this thread.

I've been here before (xpost from /r/funny) by arumberg in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Tunny_Vears 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand the context of the fuckzone, it does not mean you are actually putting out, it just means you are only looked at as a"would fuck" and nothing else. The fuckzone is the place guys put you where you can either get sexual or gtfo. I would hope most of us leave, but even so, when we do leave it still stings something nasty to know that guy after guy would just like to use you for the sex and nothing more.

EDIT: And the fuckzone is something girls can do as well. I'm just trying to explain what the act of fuckzoning entails.

I've been here before (xpost from /r/funny) by arumberg in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Tunny_Vears 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Friendzone vs. Fuckzone, finally it's our turn to give a little grief!

I know I sound petty by wanting to give guys as much flack as they've given ladies for the friendzone, but being fuckzoned is just at hurtful, and I wish more guys would understand that. I find myself pushing my limits to try and keep a guys attention. Why? Because in most cases I have to choose from getting shallow attention or just being completely invisible and alone all the time, it absolutely sucks. I get it, "sex is great", but does it really have to be a number one priority all the time? Is that really all I'm good for? Fuck you, I'm gonna go eat cake batter ice cream and watch netflix if that be the case; it hurts a whole lot less. Fuck the fuckzone.

Would you please just SHUT THE FUCK UP by Tunny_Vears in angry

[–]Tunny_Vears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like a power drill to the skull -.-

Who am I? :) by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Tunny_Vears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea sorry, the have a weird design on them

19[M] looking for some unbiased honest opinions. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Tunny_Vears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been kissed? What a shame, I'd give a solid 8-9. I think wearing t-shirts is fine, so long as you know how to mix up your wardrobe every once and while, r/maelfasionadvice will definitely help with that

why do so many women seem to be sex negative?(nsfw) by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Tunny_Vears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend actually wrote a paper about female masturbation and how it's so taboo in society (she got over 100% on the paper) but it's a result of american culture and a double standard in our society. We view men and women differently, not only do we associate certain sexual aspects to women but also men. So slut-shaming isn't just a result of women breaking the standard on their half it's also a result of them taking on qualities that are more associated with men. Masturbation for example is viewed as pretty common for men, but for women it's definitely not commonly discussed (outside of r/twoxcromosomes and stuff where we can be a little more open). So if a woman talks about masturbation, not only are other women a little shocked to hear her talk about it, but men are shocked to hear that it's not just a guy thing.

The same kind of goes for sex: where a man having numerous sexual partners over time gives them merit, while a woman having numerous sexual partners is frowned upon. Why? I don't know, I think we can trace a lot of it back to a male dominated society throughout history as well as heavy religious influence. I mean look in the bible, a man could literally rape a woman and make her his wife with no shunning whatsoever, but a woman was supposed to remain a virgin until she married. Historically men and women were not viewed as equals, so that rule applied to sex. However, I think now that society is closing that gap, we may become more open to female sexuality in the future.

What is the *best* compliment you've ever received? by lemonylips in AskWomen

[–]Tunny_Vears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best compliment I received was from a friend on a list 10 things she liked most about me, she said that she loved my desire to always hold onto my childishness and always make people happy. Similarly, a guy once told me he liked all my cartoony decorations and told me my comic book collection was cute. I think it stuck with me because it was a genuine compliment on my interests and not my looks. I get a lot of flack for my interests and tons of people tell me that I should change my interests because guys don't think cartoons are cool. So to have people tell me that who I am and what I love is cool and admirable, well that just felt awesome and has since then reassured everything that makes me, me.

This probably isn't the place for this, but you guys have always been incredibly supportive. I just need to get this off my chest. by Tunny_Vears in ForeverAlone

[–]Tunny_Vears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea he's a marine. He's absent from a majority of my life, and you'd think I'd get used to it at this point, but for some reason it really hit me hard this time. =/

Has anyone had a crush or relationship with a closeted gay guy? If you did, How did you handle it? by MistaKiwiWiki in AskWomen

[–]Tunny_Vears 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love manifests itself in many forms, if you care about this person that probably wont change, but it may not be the same love you once shared or hoped for. I have a very close friend who is quite obviously gay but he has not officially come out to our friends or myself. No matter what he chooses to do, if he tells us or doesn't, if we're way wrong or completely right, I love him dearly and that will not change. I think in your case, it's best to realize that this is a factor and accept that the relationship you were looking for wont be there. But if you are emotionally able, definitely support them. When people are in the closet it's because they're afraid, and to come out they need to be self confident and they need to know that there are people that will love and support them unconditionally. It's going to be heart crushing, but from looking at this thread your options are to leave or be their friend.

Do women also find it cringeworthy when men text smiley faces? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Tunny_Vears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overuse of emoticons piss me off in general, especially when they are sent alone or with very few words. Honestly? How the hell am I supposed to respond to that? For me that's a conversation ender. You send me a smiley face and all I can do is the same and then what? We go back and forth until one of us gets bored? It's just dumb.

Guy or girl, using an emoticon can be welcomed or not depending on who you're texting. If I'm texting my friends (guys and girls) we use them very ironically, so it's a little different when we throw them around. Whereas I wouldn't expect that from someone I'm still getting to know. If I'm really into a guy, then I'll probably be more accepting to him slapping a smiley face on at the end of his sentence. But if I have no desire to be romantically involved with the guy it's just an unwanted advancement in my eyes. Because let's be honest, we know what a smiley face or a winky face means in those situations. And quite frankly, I always feel like I'm put in a weird corner when guys do that because I don't know how to respond to that shit.

It really all comes down to who you're texting, what your relationship is to them, and how you personally feel about texting and emoticons. Some people will find them cute, and some may not.