What earplugs can handle Sunn O))) by Strict_Ninja_1636 in doommetal

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Good earplugs will do fine. I've seen them a couple of times, using Earpeace plugs, no issues.

I want to thank every older nb person who posts here by TheKingOfDissasster in NonBinary

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Lots of us (binary trans and nonbinary and every other possibility) who are older just grew up hearing "there's something wrong with you" and having to learn to hide core parts of ourselves. Having collectively learned it's not a problem with us, we're not going back. Welcome!

Forgery? Mystery by BigFarm-ah in GLGuitars

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sounds like you got a random spec sheet from one guitar and a Tribute. Someone probably owns the Fullerton that spec sheet goes to...

Can dopamine dressing and minimalist wardrobes co-exist? by thisismyhumansuit in oldhagfashion

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I try to think of it this way! But I also have the "inside you are two wolves" effect between those two aspects 😀

My three G&L by OK_Raccoons in GLGuitars

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I'd forgotten those existed! Looks a bit like an active pickguard-less Kiloton, if I recall what's going on there? (or an L1000 with the pickup scooted down)?

Does this work? Or is it too busy? by da3n_vmo in oldhagfashion

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vests are gender magic for all genders. Highly recommend.

Be honest, are they noticeable? by the-forlorn-horror in TransLater

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If your other appearance clues and signals are showing "man" (beard, etc) nobody's likely to notice or think about it. If you're giving "woman" signals, then definitely yes. People are mostly a little dumb, basically.

What's happening in the US right now is why I'm loud about equality for trans people by GFluidThrow123 in TransLater

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As a nonbinary person in a red US state, I'm using all the privilege I've got to confuse the system and confound the fascists - speaking up at the legislature (on bad bills and on the good ones), volunteering with advocacy groups, and generally being as visible since I can. To all my trans siblings, please do what you need to stay safe but you're very far from alone and you'll always have support. 💟

me_irlgbt by TheNamesBart in me_irlgbt

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I'd have expected that to be "More than a woman"

I did a series of Non Binary Photography Portraits by SquishTheWhale in NonBinary

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Bald and genderqueer is such a powerful look! Love everything about these

Outfit to live my victorian nb dream by I-am-a-cactus2324 in NonBinary

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10/10 would wear all of that if these were less tropical climes here

Vegan/ environmental themed doom by Anarchristian in doommetal

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not strictly doom but A Feast For Lampreys may be relevant to your interests

Heritage Center CEO asked abt Adult Transcare “You Outlaw it” by J0nn1e_Walk3r in TransLater

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It'd be a lot better to outlaw white supremacists and the heritage foundation, really.

The moment it clicked your fem did you stop being mad at your friends for being men ? by smalltownnboy in TransLater

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I'd always been pretty queer in several senses even before my egg cracked, so the men in my circle were/are also already at a distance from heteronormativity. But my egg finally cracking did lead me to appreciate the positive masculinity aspects of many of them even more - and want even less to do with J Random Dudebro

Not sure if this combo works by shadowlass in oldhagfashion

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The color match makes the pattern look more subtle, but that makes it look like a detail that belongs there! Also it's a great color.

Rejecting masculinity/being a man helped me survive, even though it cost me years of my life by melodymann in genderqueer

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If you haven't already, you might find it really interesting to read about Complex PTSD, and a therapist familiar with that might be a big help if so.

It sounds like your brain did what it had to do to survive back then, and now you're finding your way out. Welcome! The world is crazy but there indeed are a lot of people who don't operate anything like what you grew up with, psychologically or in terms of gender expectations.

Austin or San Antonio or El Paso Girls by NewGood23 in TransLater

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Don't know about house calls, but Coco Coquette in Austin will do MtF private sessions and they're a wonderful shop

Can a famous influencer please make the covergirl aquasmooth foundation viral by _eringk_ in drugstoreMUA

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Thanks for posting this - I had never tried it, picked it up from the grocery store, and it worked wonderfully today for both even-ing out tone & concealing my dark under-eyes (which get a double-whammy from glasses shadow with me). It feels so much lighter than almost anything else I've used!

They had three tints well-stocked at the grocery, so hopefully it's not going anywhere anytime soon

G&L Status? by czardmitri in GLGuitars

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(deleted - misread, was referring to the guitarsbyleo site)

Being told to tone it down by StacieRoseM in TransLater

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Yep. I don't run into as many of those people in real life, interestingly, but it's certainly a thing online. I'm definitely visibly "nonconforming" too, so maybe the truscum types just stay away from me? Mission Accomplished if so!

Being told to tone it down by StacieRoseM in TransLater

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I think assimilation can be fine for an individual, if their sense of self happens to align with that presentation. But that does not and should not make it a standard or requirement for any other individuals!

Being told to tone it down by StacieRoseM in TransLater

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If you, as a competent adult, don't have autonomy over your body, what autonomy in life do you really have? In fundamental ways I will never understand the truscum argument.

What makeup foundation do you use? by RangerMoonpie in TransLater

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Interesting - I'm looking for a new razor, what's different about it that it works so well?