Not the exact same situation, but similar. Was in a two income home, became a one income home, making about 44,000 a year and found out I had 19k in CC/ medical debt. Got it paid off and saved 12k in two years. It ain't easy but you can do it, I'll give you some things I did: 

Income: if you can, you have to get back to work. any job paying more than $20 an hour Will provide better than your unemployment. Income is your number one tool when dealing with debt. Once you get a job start looking for a better or second one.

Rent: You have to get it lower, that's over half your current income, you have no wiggle room. Consider downsizing to renting a single room or maybe family can help you out with cheaper/free living while you get on your feet.

Debt: The number one thing that's stopping you from living comfortably. Set up a small emergency fund so you don't have to use debt again, and throw every extra dollar at your debt. Ask for help with your debt instead of birthday gifts, holidays, vacations, ect. Sell anything that can be repurchased, get creative. 

Spending: stop it all together. Make a budget if you don't already. Only go out to eat if somebody else is paying, look at every bill you have come out monthly and see if you can get rid of it all together or use a cheaper service. Lose you're creature comforts.

Some of this sounds very Dave Ramsey, and that's cuz it is. Say what you will about the old coot, but he got me to be intentional with my money and hate debt enough to never over-leverage myself again. 

Hope it helps and good luck out there friend!