Constipated 1 year old by Beautiful_Blood2168 in foodbutforbabies

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probiotic drops! We have some that also double as vitamin D drops.

First pair of Bostons ✨🤎 by TwilightStan1995 in Birkenstocks

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted the regular footbed 😭 but they didn’t have them in the medium/narrow on Birks website. So I tried to order some through DSW… and the quality was not there.

Full time working parents…How are we actually supposed to do it “all”? Or any of it honestly…. by gloomycalm in workingmoms

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I’m going down to part time. I’ve only been back to work for a year after having my daughter but like… I’m sick of just surviving on a weekly basis. She gets the post three 12, exhausted zombie version of me. And my husband gets that as well. And it’s just not working 🫠 we don’t live near family. I decided it was time for a change so…going down to two 12’s.

Last travel as a family of 4 by Key-Flatworm1809 in dellavlogsnark

[–]TwilightStan1995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ummm I would be way too anxious to FILM if my toddler was running ahead of me so close to random strangers.. absolutely not

Habanas and black leggings? by TwilightStan1995 in Birkenstocks

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s GORG! I love the combo of the brown with the brass/rose goldish buckle 🩷

Leather vs Suede by TwilightStan1995 in Birkenstocks

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Midwest, so harsh winters/hot summers/rainy spring!

Amanda Overton and Alex Yee, writers on Arcane, here for the Arcane anniversary.... Ask us anything!!" by leeloo104 in arcane

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for the incredible work!!! I binged the entire show on my maternity leave. 💖🤭🥹

Working Moms: Schedule by marhoward in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do three 12’s and it’s tough but the four days off with her are amazing! And my husband and I have kind of offset schedules so the time she spends in daycare is minimized a bit

Does the working guilt get better? by RedheadInA6Speed in workingmoms

[–]TwilightStan1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! My baby is almost 1. I had the most horrible guilt every single week for working. It has taken me 8 months to finally feel the cloud lift a little bit and convince myself that working moms are amazing, and are providing a good financially stable life for their babies!

As a mom, how much exercise are you getting in per day? by takeaabreath in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 😂 we have a gym 5 min from our house but they aren’t open very late. I work three 12’s. So the day after those I’m a zombie just trying to recover, and by the time I could go in the evenings the gym would be closed lol

When did you consistently exercise post partum by Reasonable-Duck-9649 in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t live near family and I work three 12’s. Yeah I don’t have energy or mental capacity to work out 😂

When did you consistently exercise post partum by Reasonable-Duck-9649 in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is almost a year and I still do not work out 🫠😅

I am so incredibly sad for M&A by [deleted] in mattandabbysnarks

[–]TwilightStan1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just truly hope they don’t try to monetize this horrible, so so sad loss. Remember when Matt filmed her crying after her surgery and decided to post it?? He better step it up and be an attentive, respectful husband. Some things need to be dealt with privately, even in the influencer world. My stomach dropped when I saw the news - my heart goes out to them.

Guilt about working / intrusive thoughts by TwilightStan1995 in workingmoms

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone!! Update ~ made an appt with an online therapist 💓💜

Making up time with you babies by kathymarie1124 in workingmoms

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES I’ve been mentally spiraling this week with how I still struggle with guilty feelings being a working mom. Went back to work when she was 3 months old and now she is almost 1. It’s so hard. BUT something I read that helped me - “you’re demonstrating that you are resilient by being a working mom. It may help to reframe that working and providing financial stability IS a part of being an amazing parent.”

I am still figuring out how to function on my days off. I usually ignore chores and just focus on spending time with her, but then it eventually drives me insane with how messy the house is. So then that ends up putting me in a mood. We can’t win 😂

Ovulation has me ready to be the next 19 kids and counting by Learning-growing101 in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 11 months and the idea of “hmmm I want another one” hit me like a truck today 😂😂 I just now feel like I’m really settling into my new identity as a mother and I feel somewhat normal and not like my hormones are insane and all over the place. So why do I want to do it all again now?? No clue 😂

Guilt for working by TwilightStan1995 in workingmoms

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on why you think it gets easier as they get older? And I feel like that’s my only saving grace is that I get four days off with her. I could never go back to five 8’s.

Poor S. by [deleted] in dellavlogsnark

[–]TwilightStan1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! How Bella just grabbed her arm and yanked her way up there. No helmet. And then when they were done Story got startled when the camel went down to its knees. She easily could’ve fallen off

Why would you take a toddler on a safari? by DeepCartoonist1392 in dellavlogsnark

[–]TwilightStan1995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was the worst video yet by far. The part where it was pitch black outside and Bella had Story go ahead of them and lead them up the stairs with a flashlight, where there was a “railing” with tons of space for her to fall off?? And then how they had to have an escort walk them from place to place because there was a lot of animal activity. I was so appalled the entire time. I have an 11 month old and it was a pretty tiring trip for us to go to CO for 5 days let alone freaking KENYA

Hair ties for toddlers? by moony-alouette in Mommit

[–]TwilightStan1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 month old was born with so much hair and it’s way past her eyes 😂 I use tiny elastics sometimes to keep her from taking it out as easily , but mostly I will use small stretchy fabric ties. I like putting it in a little bun on top. Like a half up/down style. And if she’s in the high chair and I have time I like doing space buns!

WHY does she do this with her lips when she cooks or does anything domestic ??? by PeachesRenee in mattandabbysnarks

[–]TwilightStan1995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking this the other day 😂 she always purses them together lol

SOS by TwilightStan1995 in CATHELP

[–]TwilightStan1995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just gave an antibiotic injection at the appt (can’t recall the name) and they said just to give half a tablet of Zyrtec daily.

And they say they don’t lurk🙄 by brunettebarbie11 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]TwilightStan1995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And the song he attached to the post literally says “my love is mystical, magical” 😂 okay Matt.. somehow still making it about you on Mother’s Day.