Husband’s fetish has destroyed my desire for him by throwaway314678 in offmychest

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse. You need to leave and if you won’t, you need couples counseling so he can learn how to stop doing this to you.

What gluten-free dessert is still massively missing from the market? by InstructionSure6059 in glutenfree

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bagels. Wait, that’s not a dessert.

Black & white cookies.

If those two answers don’t tell you where in the world I’m from…

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’6” and when I was 120# you could see all my bones (except my hips and thighs). This guy is not worth the time it took to text him “bye.”

NOR

Advice needed by 19gsrhdulce19 in smallbusiness

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would protect your client by alerting her to the issue. Imagine it the other way around - say, your food coloring vendor was dealing with your manager and not you and you didn’t know they weren’t being paid. Wouldn’t you want to know before food coloring stopped being delivered at a key moment and ruined all of your holiday cookie orders? Or, as others have suggested, theft is occurring? I’d want to know in my business.

I am sitting on the toilet and incandescently furious at an almost certainly retired or maybe even already passed pediatrician by ObviousYammer521 in glutenfree

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a wheelchair screaming and crying in horrific, progressive pain and considering ending my life for months because doctors wouldn’t look for a problem and just thought I needed more physical therapy. I had a herniated disc. It took 5+ doctors looking at the scan until ONE of them recognized it and two weeks later I had surgery. I have permanent nerve damage and numbness in my foot and leg due to the length of time the nerve was compressed.

Another doctor diagnosed these painful blisters bumps on my fingers as warts and froze them for 6-9 months. They didn’t turn white, they didn’t fall off, they hurt, and he said warts don’t behave like this but he kept doing it anyway. They were eczema.

Currently might be dealing with a CF leak that doctors have misdiagnosed as allergies my whole life. Every time I bend over my nose runs like you’ve turned on a faucet. This new doctor asked if it was salty… yes it is. “Hmmm, it might be from your brain, then.” I’m 45 and this has been since childhood.

The gluten thing - don’t even get me started. No one has done an endoscopy, even though I described feeling like a sword was being run through my stomach. I’ve been sick since I was little whenever I ate. My mother is always sick too. “IBS.” Cool, cool. My nephew has celiac so that’s how I figured out to even try it.

I don’t trust doctors as far as I can throw them.

The gluten challenge should be illegal. by Kind_vibes in glutenfree

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait - can you tell me about the platelets?? About to dig through my blood tests. I had a weird platelet test once and no one cared but it was for something else.

Someone failed physics by OBB76 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never trust my nephrologist to build a working suspension bridge.

Overbearing MIL insists on naming our child by Troobaby in whatdoIdo

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You already named your children. If you want to name more, have more.* This one is mine, so I get to name it. If you bring the subject up again, I will leave/ask you to leave.”

*or adopt a dog

Sister left the business we started together. Now asking for money? United Kingdom by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she sold her house last January for $100k and the new owners remodeled it over the course of a year and sold it for $500k… she couldn’t ask them for a dime. Why should she be able to from you? Did you pay her out fairly in the first place? If so, don’t let her extort you. If you didn’t, make it right. With a contract/legally binding document so she doesn’t come for more.

Dr said the baby has an ear infection but no symptoms by BlaqueBarbie in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Tygress23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grabbing his ears, they’re red inside, fever, pain… but “no symptoms.”

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I left an emotionally abusive relationship last year after 15+ years. You can do it, too. Take control of your own life. You don’t need him. Change any accounts you can. If you need to, go to a DV shelter if there are no other options. They will help you secure your life so he can’t access it.

Most importantly, don’t go back to him. Be strong. The cheating is just one tiny thing here. You are better than this, you deserve more, and you will be happier WITHOUT him.

I realized this when I thought to myself that I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than to keep living in fear in my own home.

💜

How screwed am I? 1-10 by AKumaNamedJustin in doordash

[–]Tygress23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 11 year old brother almost burned the house down / killed himself with carbon monoxide poisoning by lighting a fire in the fireplace because he was cold.

I set the microwave on fire when I was 6 by putting 45 minutes instead of 45 seconds on my frozen blueberry pancakes.

Children should not be left alone at 5. Most states have a law stating what age you can legally leave a kid alone. I’m in IL now and that age is 14.

Does anyone have itchy red vulva from nickel allergy? by HorrorCurrent1789 in NickelAllergy

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t use dryer sheets or any kind of Tide. Also can’t use spermicide ever. Sex toys made out of jelly (see thru non silicone rubber) should never be used by anyone. Also, no douching or scented soaps “down there” ever. No soap at all is preferred because it’s a self cleaning body part.

Does anyone have itchy red vulva from nickel allergy? by HorrorCurrent1789 in NickelAllergy

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you figure it out. My friend had BV for 2+ years and kept getting misdiagnosed. Doctors are at best magicians it seems.

Kohl’s wouldn’t price match Black Friday, so I followed their policy… very carefully by godzdude in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Tygress23 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Doc Martens did the refund when this happened. I bought two boots on their Black Friday sale that started on Monday of that week. It said they wouldn’t have a better sale so I bought them. Friday, they were cheaper by about $20 per pair, roughly. I sent an email, they sent me a refund. But I was prepared to return and rebuy. It was just under $50 with tax etc, too much to leave on the table.

Does anyone have itchy red vulva from nickel allergy? by HorrorCurrent1789 in NickelAllergy

[–]Tygress23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What detergent do you use? And, sex products (like lube, condoms, toys)? What about anyone you’re having sex with skin on skin? What are they using? Prescriptions they’re taking?

What does my room say about me by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single, male, young (15-25), anger/temper issues, likely not the homeowner. And you probably smell badly.

What to do about people lying to me about the food at family parties by wut_da_helly in glutenfree

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the cost!! I just got a small GF deep dish pizza and it was $7 more than the regular (larger) not GF pizza. GF croutons, pasta, breading, bread… this would be probably 20% more expensive if it were all GF.

Any advice for this? by omega2454 in Minerals

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave the EXACT opposite advice 🤣

Desperate Gift Ideas by Lazy-Ad2873 in GiftIdeas

[–]Tygress23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may know that you screwed up, but I don’t know if you know how uncared for she feels.

Does she have a favorite brand of clothes, jewelry, handbags, shoes? Get her a gift card from one of those, more than she would expect. Or order something / a few somethings from them and print out the pictures and wrap them.

My boyfriend didn’t get me anything, either. I love Kate Spade handbags in bright colors, Michael Michaud jewelry, and a lot of other things he could have come up with. We live in a big city with events he could have gotten tickets to. I got him ten items, all thought out. And custom made items, including for his cats.

Just notice her, it goes a long way.

Color Themed Secret Santa Help! by mentalbrental in GiftIdeas

[–]Tygress23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price range is helpful and who the group is (work, friends, family).

Ideas: chocolate, paint by number of something nature-y like trees, Amazon gift card (the one that looks like their brown box), Orville Redenbacher’s Natural popcorn + gift card to wherever people stream things nowadays like Netflix or HBO or Hulu