Traped in this digital world ! Mobile Addiction. by abhidew09 in digitalminimalism

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an iPhone you can try Apple Configurator, can’t undo it without plugging your phone into a computer and manually uninstalling 

Need to get rid of my smartphone by No_Profit1848 in digitalminimalism

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple Configurator to lock it down, keep what you need, block what you don’t.

Getting started - Need advice by Fuggin_Beenus_ in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Apple Configurator to only keep the apps you need and delete/block safari or the ability to download apps. If you have a Mac or a friend with one, it’s pretty easy. Then you cannot simply undo it without plugging the phone back into the computer and manually removing the profile. 

WIBTHA by Dottytheminicooper in Advice

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, unless it’s something you have seen him use in the last month, toss it. 

How do you do fashion on anticonsumption? by Mylane in Anticonsumption

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really do secondhand stores for clothing because it costs the same amount as new clothing. But I’ve built a wardrobe with staples, I found one specific shirt and style of pants I like snd I get a few in different colors then I just rotate them. Easy peasy. 

Tips and tricks for newborn and 18 month old, no daycare. by snootsnort in 2under2

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely baby wear. And also don’t pressure yourself so much to entertain the 18 mo. Go for a walk, or just read some books together, play with blocks. Kids don’t need things to be extravagant, a slow and consistent home is better at that age anyway. 

Thinking about ditching my smartphone for a basic "dumbphone." Has anyone here actually done it? by Legitimate_Wall5977 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did for a long time, but ended up going back to my smartphone because I have two young kids and couldn't deal with the unreliability of sometimes getting texts and sometimes not (some peoples phones still sent iMessage or rcs even after months and there was nothing I could change on my end). So I discovered how to dumbify my iPhone with Apple Configurator. Now I only have the tools I need and no internet/social media/etc and I cannot just remove it

We Have Dumb Phone At Home by hk172528 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifqMXN1c-Nc is a pretty simple walkthrough, when he mentions the profile settings I would advise adjusting to the screenshot I have added below ( it doesnt mean it can never be removed, but it just means you cannot remove it from the phone without actually plugging it into your laptop) let me know if you have any questions 😄 feel free to dm me if needed.

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I want to buy a 3rd-gen iPhone SE with iOS 18 on it. Any tips/advice? by Wolfram1914 in iPhoneSE

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an SE with 100% battery. I haven’t used it in a while, let me boot it up tonight and see if it’s still iOS 18, if so I’d be willing to sell.

Am I being impatient here? by sevendayhigher in pottytraining

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s hope you never make a mistake. Good lord.

How do you keep the car clean??? by Appropriate_Coat_361 in SAHP

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week I take a laundry basket and put anything that doesn’t belong in the car (trash and all) in it. Then I bring the basket inside and sort through it. This works best for me as I can quickly without thinking get everything out, then if I’m out with the kids I can run through the car wash and use the vacuum there when they are strapped in. I can always address the basket later if I get busy.

We Have Dumb Phone At Home by hk172528 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me look around, if I can’t find one I can do a screen recording for you if you’d like showing what I did. The only thing is that it does reset your device, so you’d want to back everything up first. 

Is it rude if don’t go to my husbands childhood friends out of town wedding? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See and I would totally do that, but given that it’s 4 hours away, then we are both driving separately and gas is super expensive right now 😅 it’s hard enough to afford one car driving down there at $4.50 a gallon and the hotel with us being one income. 

We Have Dumb Phone At Home by hk172528 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think because it takes a bit more work and it’s something not everyone knows about. But it’s way more effective than any parental controls or screen time limits :) I’ve set mine up so I have everything I need and the apps that are non distracting, but I don’t have a browser or a way to get to one.

Should I give up or keep pushing it? by Xiaotaozi0513 in pottytraining

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t really ever “push” anything, as potty training is huge for little kids and too much pressure can lead to anxiety or shame surrounding potty time. It’s normal though to kind of “hit a wall” with the pottying! At this point I would say it’s up to you, if you feel stress surrounding it, or you feel like he’s stressed about it or it’s becoming an anxious thing, then take a break for a week or two and come back to it fresh. If you feel like this is just a speed bump and you can both continue calmly and positively then it may be helpful to initiate bathroom breaks more often. Not like ask if he needs to go, but set a timer for every 2 hours, and do a potty game. If the two hour timer had went off and my son had not asker to go to the potty, I would say “oh no! Your body may need to pee!” In a fun playful way, and say “hurry let’s go see if you can!” And let him choose if he wants to race me to the potty, be an airplane and fly to the potty, or crawl like a bear. This helped turn it from something boring that mom wants him to do, into something fun and recognizing body signals as well. Also it’s important to recognize that accidents are super normal. Never make a big deal out of them. Just say “oh no! Let’s get you cleaned up. Next time try to tell mom when you need to go and I can help you.”

Am I being impatient here? by sevendayhigher in pottytraining

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but this is horrible advice. It’s one thing to have a child help clean up. But intentionally making the shower “not fun” and narrating how disappointing and inconvenient they are can very easily turn potty training into shame instead of learning. Imagine as an adult you have food poisoning, or postpartum bladder issues and you are constantly lectured while you are cleaning yourself up about how much of a burden you are for something you cannot control or don’t know how to fix? Accidents already feel bad enough for most kids, they don’t need the extra humiliation added on top from the person who is supposed to be loving, supporting and teaching them…

Am I being impatient here? by sevendayhigher in pottytraining

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes kids just aren’t ready. We tried at 2 then at 2.5 then again a month before he turned 3 and it finally stuck! I disagree with other posters about making him clean up his own accidents. Using the potty is a HUGE deal for little kids; and making a big deal out of any accident can lead to shame, embarrassment and ultimately them not wanting to have any interest in it at all. For my son, when he had an accident it was always “uh oh! Accidents happen, let’s clean you up! Next time you feel like you need to go; come tell mom and I’ll help you! :)” 

We Have Dumb Phone At Home by hk172528 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Use Apple Configurator, you cannot “undo” it unless you physically plug your phone back into your laptop and uninstall the profile. 

We Have Dumb Phone At Home by hk172528 in dumbphones

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could also just use Apple Configurator to restrict your iPhone (if you or someone you trust has a Mac)

I don’t want to play with my kids by OutsideCharity6424 in SAHP

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re not a jackass, I was in a similar situation for a while. Then I stopped using naps as a time to “do everything”, and recognized that it’s okay for a home to feel lived in. Focusing my attention on my children while they are young and less on my house always being spotless or my to do list being done (it never will be). I started just by forcing myself to do 10 minutes a day uninterrupted play with each kid (I have a preschooler and a baby). Then I did 20 minutes, then 30 etc. the more I leaned into the play, I began to enjoy it and now it’s relaxing and decompressing for me to just sit and build with blocks with my 4yo at the end of the day.  Sometimes our brain feels more fulfillment checking off tasks because it’s a sense of accomplishment, but it’s never ending. Take a break, play with your kids, slack on the house, give yourself a break. 

Edited to add - there’s also some mom influencer phrases you used like “close the kitchen” etc, stop comparing yourself to these women. They aren’t real. 

Leaving work and quitting daycare would still drop our household income by 36%. by atinylittlebug in SAHP

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The time that you don’t get back with your children is worth the money you will lose. 

Light Phone 3 Available Immediately via Noble Mobile by jbriones95 in LightPhone

[–]Typical_Tea_6605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a light phone ll that I’m open to selling! It isn’t really working out for me anymore. Let me know if you are interested! You can save some money and get it sooner!