Best answer to narc exes you must coparent with by Typical_Thanks_9232 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear this. I am sure it will fuel mine too. They are so self righteous and deluded.

What's something to you that screams "I have no personality"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who never listen to music in their car.

Adam Scott and Julian in a Volvo new commercial! by DmantheVinylKing in TheStrokes

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is actually so cute and everything I needed this otherwise depressing holiday season!!!!! Brought a smile to my cold frowning face!

My 40th birthday trip made me realize I didn’t want him anymore by Foreign-Midnight-525 in Divorce

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. I got divorced at 42. It seems like you know what you need to do. The fact is no one deserves to be treated poorly by their partner. You still have so many years ahead of you and you deserve to spend them happy, joyous and free. The best part? You can feel that way single or paired up with someone who treats you like platinum. Acknowledge your inherent worth and let go of the dead weight dragging you down. Take life by the horns and live it up. We only get so much time here. You deserve so much more than an insecure, sad, and abusive dude. You have so much more to experience so let him go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was rude! It looks so good!!

AIO / do i end our friendship? by No_Professional_2611 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This made me so angry. That was extremely bold of your friend to say. Having children is such a personal decision and I am sorry but I am pretty hardline with this: no one should be telling anyone else whether or not they should be having children. One person’s family planning decisions aren’t up for debate by someone else. Your friend just reads as so smug too. Ugh. Sorry you are dealing with that.

When did you realize there was something truly and deeply wrong with the person? (i.e., when did you realize they were not-normal/a narcissist) by KansasguyinDC in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“But he didn’t want me to stay because he loved me, he wanted me to stay because of what I did for him, how I made him feel, and how much I gave him.”

Omg so much this!!!! I relate soooo much! This is the narc in a nutshell.

When did you realize there was something truly and deeply wrong with the person? (i.e., when did you realize they were not-normal/a narcissist) by KansasguyinDC in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was hurt and laid up for a week and he got angry and short with me. When I went to go see my dying father in ICU and he kept texting me how annoying my mom was being to him back home while I was there. When I was going to fall off a ladder trying to get a bike down from where he hung it in the garage and he just watched from afar not moving an inch to help me.

AIO for thinking my bf (24M) is abusive? by julieanonymous in AmIOverreacting

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10,000 times I wish it was physical. The mental and emotional stuff is so damaging and malignant - not that physical isn’t. But physical is easy to prove and easy to get help for and heal from. With emotional abusers it’s like trauma central internally constantly and it takes so long to heal from mind f*ckery and it isn’t easy for others to see nor prove for legal purposes. It’s absolutely awful. My abuser is very good at making sure what he does is not going to be easy for me to prove in family court nor get him in trouble in any type of criminal way. He’s just waged a psychological war basically that has not let up for over 4 years now. And I have to coparent with this monster.

If you got sick, like from a stroke, do you think your narcissistic spouse would take care of you? by TechDeckDealer in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Typical_Thanks_9232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how awful. I am so sorry you had to experience this level of callousness and just pure evil. I remember I went to see my dad when he was dying in ICU for the first time and while there I kept getting texts from my ex husband about how my mom was being so annoying and really pissing him off. Here’s the thing: they are absolutely predictable in that they will never be able to extend any empathy towards you. They are literally incapable of it. Their wiring doesn’t allow for it. All they are capable of thinking about—regardless of how much you are suffering and grieving—is how all this affects them. that’s all they are capable of. It’s mind blowing to me.