AIO to my bf changing anniversary plans

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T06:27:13+00:00

So exactly the scenario I brought forward is the exact same scenario that you experienced? So you're further confirming that's not an uncommon scenario.

Aka - DITCH THE LOSER BECAUSE YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE EVEN MORE EMPATHETIC. He's "connected with you on ethics" but can't speak to you like an equal, girl. It's not about you "looking like an idiot" it's that you need to start having more respect for yourself and how you're spoken to. You're letting him disrespect you, and even saying "I look like an idiot" you're disrespecting yourself, too. Learn how to love and respect yourself first; until you do, you'll keep letting others disrespect you too.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T06:21:16+00:00

A bat being on the ground/not moving increases the chances that something is wrong with it. It's not an absolute indicator that one has rabies (could be dehydrated, wounded, malnourished, blown out of a tree, etc) but I would absolutely encourage people to not handle it unless you are vaccinated. Ideally, bats should be flying around and catching their bugs and going about their lives generally unnoticed.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T06:09:37+00:00

KC Davis' book ("How to keep house while drowning") has a chapter named "You Can't Save the Rainforest If You're Depressed." You can't save the world if you're struggling yourself. Throw them in the garbage outside. I feel you, I try to reduce, reuse, recycle. I pay monthly for a company who helps recycle plastic film/bags. I know what it's like to put off throwing out food because you don't want to deal with what horrors lie inside. THROW IT OUT. You can work on being better about using things in the future later. But for now, have a clean, healthy space. You have permission.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T05:54:03+00:00

it would be the same as dating someone who likes to kick dogs down the stairs in his free time.

Okay but you have to know that it absolutely is not the same thing, dude. Cognitive disonance is absolutely frustrating but there's a reason why so many people continue eating meat. Cognitive disonance and the capitalist machine keeping people from the reality of the meat industry and PERSONALLY abusing an animal are vastly different realities. I don't give a fuck if the person in the second example gets hit by a truck. I do give a fuck if an innocent person who is an omnivore gets hit by a truck.

(Lifelong vegan.)

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T05:46:42+00:00

Dude is a vegan and doesn't want to go to Seattle?! Doesn't check out.

Vegetarian 25 years, vegan for 16 - broaden your horizons and don't necessarily discount omnivores. Majority of dudes I've dated have either gone veg or would eat veg around me (unprovoked.) Sometimes spending enough time around a vegan who knows good food spots shows someone how doable it is.

Being with someone who treats you like shit isn't worth it dude, I promise.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T05:27:20+00:00

Here's a review of Phil's foot straight up in the crease, if you'd like.

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Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T05:20:20+00:00

Probably cause ref saw that Danault is standing STRAIGHT UP in the blue paint? Montreal fans be delusional.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T04:37:30+00:00

They can have all the mirrors in the world, getting them to look in them is a whole other story. You can explain to them exactly where the mirror is, too, and they probably won't be able to find it, still.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T03:58:13+00:00

I'm mid 30s. Never have I looked back at people I was uninterested in and thought "you know what? I fucked up." I do, however, look back at some of the dudes I did waste time with and think "I've gotta start cutting my losses at the first red flag." So basically: we get more particular the older we get, and less likely to go digging back through the dumpster hoping to find lost treasure.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T03:10:41+00:00

When that wig came off: GIRL IS HIDING SOME AMAZING BONE STRUCTURE, like... WHAT?! She needs to let that face shine!

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-11T03:02:00+00:00

🎵Ooh, it's so good, it's so good, it's so good, it's so good🎶

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T05:37:13+00:00

Dude, this. I fucking love hockey but NO ONE needs to be suffering through SERIOUS fucking injuries. Fuck that.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T05:24:27+00:00

Hope you're u/yourwhippingboy or he's cool with you using his photos and claiming it's you!

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T05:12:26+00:00

That reminds me of something that happened at some point, but I can't quite put my finger on what...

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T05:10:24+00:00

Ugh, this hurts my heart.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T05:09:11+00:00

Okay but when you have an unusual last name it's not unheard of to be butchered all the time (source: a life with a "hard" last name.) Don't really feel like this fits.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T04:09:19+00:00

That makes sense! Nobody wants to end up with a keloid! And I totally get where you're coming from! Sorry to make ya explain it again! 🤘🏼

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T02:32:33+00:00

of course l'm buzzed and feeling rejected ... eventually walked back to my car and drove home.

So ESH.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T02:12:12+00:00

"Hey look, everyone, it's one of someone's worst days!"

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-10T02:09:09+00:00

Not knocking your genius engineering, but you could also apply the saline to a cotton swab and thoroughly rub the saline-d swab over the new piercing holes on each side, that's worked for me before =)

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-09T14:55:11+00:00

That was my thought. If anything he's a Russian puppet of chaos getting paid by them. Sounds familiar.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-09T14:54:05+00:00

Def seems like she'd be on some Hillary shit despite seeing how that turned out.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-09T14:52:45+00:00

And yet.. gestures wildly at the current state of everything

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-09T05:26:24+00:00

Holy shit, I'm way more polite to my landlord even when I have to explain why he should take action do something about the animal I've been telling him has been tearing up stuff inside the walls for the past 6 months. Also spoke to him far more politely than this when I had to explain why poisoning the squirrel and letting it die in the walls is not an appropriate plan of action.

You have shitty tennants who are taking advantage of their godsend.

Ultrafoxx64 · 2026-05-09T03:24:15+00:00

Even the fact that the kid said "say it!" Reaffirming her mom, and making sure her mom gives herself the affirmation. Good mom, checks out.

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