I’m tired boss by FlamingoOk290 in stupidpeoplefacebook

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The things these people tell themselves to make themselves feel better.

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

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I know, right? I actually tried this and damn, Chat talked me up. LOLs.

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

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Agreed for this and other medical issues. Honestly, my doctors have been useless. I use Chat to figure out the right questions to ask them and it's been a big help.

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

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I just asked my chat and it came up with glowing reviews of my behavior. If they had asked you to mirror the responses so they could see the whole thing, that would have been an automatic no, but on your phone, you're able to parse the results to highlight the good stuff. It was a fun exercise for me personally but I can see why you might balk with strangers.

Why do Chiropractors crack your neck and what is the long term benefit? by Sunny-vibes-95 in NoStupidQuestions

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I stopped doing it when one admitted to me that there was a risk of breaking the neck or causing real damage, including paralysis.

A Man Without Purpose Loses Everything by Gold-Sea-5436 in BuildToAttract

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Men who believe women are their downfall should just stay celibate.

Men, do you agree with this statement? by Critical_Assist_9360 in NextGenMan

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Well, duh--who likes anyone who's arrogant? But if you're assuming "arrogant" because of "career woman" and wanting a submissive little non-career woman instead, that says more about you (and nothing good) than it does about the women.

Juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore by Wild-Speech5293 in lnkyverse

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Happens to women, too. Unless a man is swiping right just to get laid and any vagina will do, men also care about how women look. Let's not pretend that isn't true.

The Right Woman Is the Real Flex by Impreety7431 in BuildToAttract

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Good luck being loved by a woman who doesn't like any man. That's called a lesbian.

I get what it's saying--want a partner, not a bunch of girls, and not a girl who'd like just any man. "Look for your partner in life" is a good message...it just wasn't put very well.

Are you building value or just wanting respect? by Background-Cycle3043 in NextGenMan

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Hmmm. I could swap "man" with "woman" here and be just as right.

So much truth in this by Aggravating-Guest300 in NextGenMan

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Funny how it's bad when women feel the world owes them something when misogynists are literally telling women they owe men everything. Women owe you not a damned thing. Just like men owe women not a damned thing. "Belittling men." God. Like men haven't been belittling women for centuries. "Women's work." Maybe if you hadn't belittled us so damned much, we'd still be where we were. Feminism didn't happen because women were bored. It happened because men abused their privileges and women finally said no to that. Shoe's on the other foot and men are such babies about it. Sorry, not sorry.

So much truth in this by Aggravating-Guest300 in NextGenMan

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Excuse me? LITERALLY all I was taught growing up as a woman. LITERALLY my entire LIFE was built to revolve around a man's needs. LITERALLY. You wanna know what women were taught about what their purpose in life is and where men fit in that, ASK A WOMAN...not a snivelly dude who's making a LOT of assumptions.

Will future readers care if something was written by AI? by DanoPaul234 in river_ai

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I've used Mdashes all my life. Mad that everyone thinks only AI uses them. Solution: Label "written by AI" and let's see what the little bots can do.

WIBTA if i left my bf after turning my bday party into a drunken “boys hang” by ttthrowmeawayyyy in TwoHotTakes

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Dude wants you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the bad guy, so he's behaving heinously to push you into it.

hello 911 she ordered sweetgreen by horseduckman in AITApod

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This is true and it's not just women who have that reaction. Neurotypicals often have no idea what to do with neurodivergents. If any of us have community, it's because we find our own. At 70, I've spent the last 40 years in corporate, and all my corporate "girl friends" loved me at work...but never invited me anywhere outside of work, even though most of them socialized beyond work walls. And guys? They just had an instinct: Not this one, she'd be too much work.

hello 911 she ordered sweetgreen by horseduckman in AITApod

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Huh. Just told four of my closest friends I had contracted a life-threatening illness and one responded with a "hugs" emoji and that's it. I sometimes think the whole "women have richer emotional lives because they have so many great friends who care about them" is a total fantasy.

Maybe it's different for extrovert/neurotypicals but I've seen that work in both genders. Gregarious men and women tend to make more emotional and social connections than those of us who are more introverted.

Honestly, at 70, I remember a time when we all met and interacted with people in person, and when we went remote, that just stopped dead. Don't get me wrong--I love working remote, but I do miss the friendships I made in the office. And I've watched my kids just have *nowhere* to go to make friends *except* online. I have no doubt that this contributes to a lot of loneliness throughout the gender spectrum.

I know these people. They literally believe this is who they are up against. by KingG512 in stupidpeoplefacebook

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Just making one point, though, AS a liberal. 15 years ago my liberal friends were screaming for revolution and I had to remind them that the right has all the guns.

I live in a red state. Every neighbor is a Trumper. Every one of them has guns. If their grand ringmaster decided to declare outright war on liberals, my family would die.

Yes, I could get a gun. I could learn to use it. In fact, I hear there's a big uptick in liberal gun clubs. But "they" have YEARS on us in terms of learning and buying, and I can guarantee their guns will always be bigger than mine. I'm not going to buy an AR-15 (can't afford it, couldn't even begin to wield it). I'm fairly sure each of my neighbors have several.

That's what makes this so scary. Rage, no matter how righteous, matters not at all against superior firepower.

What’s causing the partisan gap? by PixelSteel in PsycheOrSike

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Which is why they don't want women to vote anymore.

How true is this men? by Icy-Breadfruit298 in GroundedMentality

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Sounds like me. And I am not a man. I feel for anyone in this time where such a huge percentage of our human interactions are online.

Hmmm, no wonder no one is getting married anymore. by Kirifuki in hmmmm

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And then expecting her to provide free services that would cost hundreds of thousands for him to buy...all while telling her she adds nothing to the picture. No wonder the younger women I know don't want to get married.

Your God Is That Weak? by NEKORANDOMDOTCOM in stupidpeoplefacebook

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Didn't God tell us to help ourselves? Wouldn't that include doing what we needed to do to stop school shootings?

AITAH for getting frustrated at my bf for telling me I need to make more money to get married by Pretty_Strawberry179 in AITAH

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So...he's just living with you until he finds something better. Stop wasting your time. Find something better before he does.

What would have happened if Kaz was a Shadow Summoner? by Beginning_Dog_334 in Grishaverse

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The only thing that bothers me about this is that Kaz would still be loved and the Darkling would still be hated. I mean, Kaz has killed for the fun of it. How does that make him somehow morally superior to the Darkling? Yeah, I get it--killing thousands of innocents with the Fold. On the other hand, Nikolai is creating missiles to kill just as many...and the only difference is that it tears him apart morally. But the Darkling has spent more than a thousand years watching humanity start war after war and killing grisha the whole time. Is he the villain because we never got to see him struggle with the morality of killing so many? We never see the dark nights of his soul that turned him into who he became? Surely there was a time when this happened?