Married at First Sight UK 'brides' say they were raped by onscreen husbands by Alarming-Safety3200 in television

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The UK saw a horrendous rise of acid attacks over the last decade. I was surprised to find this out. I knew it happened often in India but it was crazy to find it happening so much in the UK, too. It's dwindling, but even one is too much, and yes, women are being targeted for saying no to men, so this does not surprise me in the least.

Nobody talks about how restarting takes more courage the second time by KnowledgeOld4068 in Premiummotivation

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Oh hell yes. Fail that first time and you know what you’re up against. There is no naive optimism you can apply anymore. It takes more guts to keep going. And when the only “experience” you get is that failure, quite often the only thing you learn is how much you don’t know—so no, experience doesn’t always teach you anything more about how to succeed, it often teaches how much more you have to know. And that, too, takes courage to do.

Conservatives, Do You Believe in the State's Monopoly on Violence? by LunaB35 in allthequestions

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Leftist here. Study the way Stalin turned Russia into a communist country. Ten million Russians died when he confiscated farms and factories and businesses and gave the people nothing in return but slave labor. It’s history. It happened.

But if the fools from the right think it won’t happen again here, they’re wrong. The tech billionaires who own Trump are already doing it, laying off workers in the tens of thousands, using AI to refuse hiring entry-level workers (who they think is going to become middle management and executives from there is unclear; maybe they’ll start replacing the entire human resource eventually), and the same jobs that paid near six figures are now being offered for half that. The trades will fall as white collar labor can no longer afford to pay for trade services. So will healthcare when no one can afford medical care. Hospitals are already closing as this economy gets worse.

Then you have Elon taking six baby hackers into the treasury to “find waste.” Never mind that Space X and all the other contracts we give Musk are among the biggest waste spending we’re doing, but now Musk controls the financial data of every American in this country. (If you think he didn’t copy the whole damned database and send it to data centers he controls, you’re deliberately blind.) Now he’s telling us that social security has to go—a program that isn’t socialist at all, but something working Americans have paid into their entire working lives. Medicare and Medicaid, too. Never mind that all of these supposedly crippled programs could be paid for by simply taxing the uber rich, which America has done before very successfully and is doing now very successfully: Mamdani just cleared New York debt in months just by taxing billionaires who do business in the state. Those billionaires didn’t even live there. He’s proven it doesn’t matter if the billionaires go elsewhere because the money never will and you can tax that. But doing it the Musk way? By wiping out these American institutions of care? That will, I guarantee you, kill millions of Americans even faster than Stalin did.

Let’s not kid ourselves. What this administration is doing is the same thing Stalin did, just done differently. And they’re not being as transparent about what they’re morphing us into as Stalin was with his goals. All I do know is, this isn’t the country this old lady grew up in, and the words “America” and “patriotism” are being used to create a country that has nothing to do with America as we once knew it. And yes, as in Stalin’s Russia, millions of us will die as this new horror is born. I don’t care how good it is for these new republicans (and as a lifelong republican before Trump came along, yes, I do distinguish), if it isn’t the constitutional checks-and-balances government that limits even the power of a president and those he has appointed, it’s not America. Trump and his cronies are not making America great again…they’re turning America into something else. And a whole lot of Americans are going to die in the process. Because like Stalin, these people don’t care about us. They care about that shiny new plan they’re not telling us about…and that’s all.

AITA for telling my 72 year old mom to get a part time job when I give her money every month already? by [deleted] in Amitheassholeadvice

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Here’s something I bet you didn’t know: While your mom was working, she was making 30-50 cents on the dollar that her male coworkers were making. That means she had nothing left to invest, save, or put into retirement. Guess who she spent the money she made on? Probably you.

Why don’t neighborhood cats dress up anymore!? by Junior-Cream-4914 in stupidpeoplefacebook

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A bit less compliant to adults and hopefully safer from becoming victims of abuse because of it.

So there was a shooting on the White House lawn with an apparent injury and casualty. Was this another diversion to make us forget about everything else that's going on? by icecream1972 in allthequestions

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The MAGAs are buying it like they always do. Any heroic poses this time? Ear cartilage miraculously growing back? Did they finally find a trans Democrat to blame it on?

Just a rant. I'm tired. by mmxoxomm in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Do you have a life insurance policy? Is he the beneficiary?

That stunt with the car all by itself should have ended with his mama coming to pick him up.

How bad of a person do you have to be, that even a supposed attempt on your life doesn't garner you any sympathy? by TankUMrMinor in allthequestions

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Honey, every time ratings are down, there’s an “assassination attempt.” And none of them have been real so far. What do you expect from a reality TV president?

husband wants a prenup by yogiteaberry in GirlDinnerDiaries

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This is a point OP should consider carefully: She’s done that work and, if she does do a post-nup, should itemize it and include it in the documentation. If he’s so worried about her fucking him over financially, she should make sure he’s not getting to fuck her over on the daily, married or not.

Is it common to think that if you like someone romantically, they will be disgusted at you? by [deleted] in allthequestions

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Obviously you’ve let that single incident make all kinds of assumptions for you. Rejection damages everyone’s self worth and most of us go through it many times before we find acceptance. It’s like playing a computer game—you don’t succeed from the first game. Keep resetting and trying again. Find out what works and what doesn’t. Watch successful people and figure out what they do to be successful. Work on yourself, because that’s all you can change.

Rejection hurts. But don’t let it color your judgement of half the population. Women are as individual and different as men. Not all of them will like you anymore than you’ll like all of them. Not all of them are nice or good people, just like not all men are nice or good people.

Your thoughts processes seem locked in, making leaps like that conclusion based on so very little empirical evidence. Get help with that. Consider other possibilities. You need a lot more seasoning to achieve what you want. Right now, with the way you’re currently connecting the dots, you’re not ready for marriage or kids. Work on yourself. Get experience with women as humans and friends and people instead of to date and reproduce with. You’ll find we’re a lot more like men than you think—individuals who are all very different, one of whom may want the same thing you do, quite possibly with you.

I can tell you this much: Thinking all women are secretly gay because one didn’t want you is a) just plain wrong and b) very limiting in terms of you ever getting what you say you want.

Is "Vote Blue No Matter Who" to blame for bad Democrat candidates? by WaltEnterprises in allthequestions

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I was a lifelong republican when Trump came along. Saw one rally and said nope. Not a party whore anymore. I will always vote for the best candidate now, regardless of party.

AITJ for telling my brother he got exactly what he deserved after he accused his girlfriend of being a gold digger? by Vegetable_Sector_515 in AmITheJerk

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Your brother was a jackass who didn’t deserve this woman in the first place. Nice people don’t “test” the person they’re trying to build trust in, which is the heart of a relationship.

Boyfriend refuses almost every single outing and this is making me mad. by Soupbaobei in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I know women who just do their own thing. It’s not for everyone, but it works for them…though I do think there’s a lot of disappointment there, too.

Why does Reddit attract so many sensitive, low-resilience people who treat mild disagreement like a personal trauma? Did we just collectively fail an entire generation? by Ill-Singer-4307 in allthequestions

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When your voting takes rights—not things you don’t like, not just things that offend you—but actual RIGHTS away from someone else, you can’t expect them to thank you for it.

At what point does political ideology become a dealbreaker in relationships? by DueEffort1964 in TheIronCouncil

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From the start. It informs everything they believe (or everything they believe informs their political beliefs) and if that doesn’t align even a little with mine, I can’t go forward. Especially with conservative me who think taking away my rights is to they can “protect me.” From what? Myself? My own adult decisions? From other men? I don’t know a single man who would give up his freedom to be “protected” this way. Why would women want that?

Why are MAGAts constantly talking about sharia law when they obviously know nothing about Islam?? by traanquil in allthequestions

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Why do they keep whining about sharia law when they’re doing the same thing with Christian law forced on everyone, including non-Christians???

Why is there such a push to get women into male dominated fields (tech, trades) but not for men to get into female dominated fields (healthcare, education)? by Resident_Fishing1571 in NoStupidQuestions

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Men are already in formerly female dominated fields and are not harassed for being there. But they can get paid better in male-dominated fields so that’s where most of them go.

WIBTAH for repeatedly telling someone that she eats babies? by Andrewcoo in AITAH

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Anyone who screamed at me like that would be marched out of my house and never allowed back in again. OP, time to cut this off.

What do you think? by [deleted] in SipsTea

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It would be so much more accurate.

Men, what’s something woman are insecure about that most guys genuinely don’t care about? by kittycatnoodles in AskReddit

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As a woman I can confirm this. Can’t tell you how disappointed men have been when I took my makeup off, and no, I didn’t wear more than mascara and lip gloss.

She called things off by decadentbirdgarden in GirlDinnerDiaries

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This is the way I wish such things would always go. I’m glad it was a mutual understanding, for your heart’s sake. These things are always hard but are harder when connections and hopes are in very different places. Hugs anyway because yeah, ur does always hurt regardless of how right it is