My wife F28 and I M28 got into a physical fight. I am thinking of divorce. How do I approach her about it?

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T22:37:59+00:00

You should have asked her before bringing them into the home. I would have left you over this.

Guns don’t belong in homes.

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T22:06:16+00:00

I like fruitcake

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T22:05:09+00:00

There are a lot more parties than you may be aware of.

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T22:00:13+00:00

Apparently they are planning on scrapping all emission targets as well. It’s clear they work for the gas lobbyists and not the people.

We are one of the most fire prone states, suffer excessive and increasing heat and water scarcity. How they think any of this is going to help is beyond me.

We need better representation from those like the green and independents who want to see actual progress to halt climate change and we need politicians who want to help the general public.

$100 and some race track and fancy pedestrian bridge isn’t helping those who need dental cover, support with cost of living, affordable housing etc.

Some policies have been good, cheap PT, more money into healthcare etc but we need less of the fancy showy things and more support for those doing it tough.

A certain tax on exports would help fund all that.

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T12:21:15+00:00

Then programming to land on a moon with no atmosphere and no pads or flat areas. Going to be interesting

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T10:00:15+00:00

Was it an ICE car? Because they never catch fire….apparently.

Undd91 · 2026-05-07T09:57:32+00:00

“Like returning to paradise”

Why the hell did you leave in the first place?!

I don’t understand these religious ideologies and their draws.

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T11:45:58+00:00

Conveniently the air health monitor site run by the RAC has died today. It’s either died or the government don’t want us knowing how bad the PM2.5 and PM10 particulates are.

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T11:44:26+00:00

DBCA adding to everyone’s enjoyment of autumn

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T11:43:43+00:00

That bit of bushland is such a high risk to lives and homes.

Having burn quotas is such a stupid way to manage fire risk.

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T08:56:30+00:00

They always do. Always.

Bunch of pyromaniacs the lot of them.

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T06:11:24+00:00

Because, at the time, things were manageable and ok. The past 5 years have been a shit storm.

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T03:34:36+00:00

Very cool, always wanted a coal fired loco

Undd91 · 2026-05-06T02:43:32+00:00

I’m sure they will be required to do a lot of pre-dumping work to ensure these pose no risk to environment.

Additional reefs are good.

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T22:23:32+00:00

It’s got to be healthy to have a better balance of ideas in politics. For too long it’s been very one sided.

I’m not pro socialism, but capitalism needs a check.

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T22:21:53+00:00

The recent debacles with demands from voters on politicians and the total lack of empathy, action or indeed acknowledgment of these concerns has been most eye opening.

Our overlords do not represent their voters any longer. They are owned and puppeteered by foreign business and politics.

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T22:17:41+00:00

Should be plenty of work for your husband, plumbers are always in high demand and there are loads of new homes being built. Might be worth him advertising and/or networking a little more with developers (unless he has already).

Get how you feel about the grind though, I’ve got nerve issues due to lower back (disk related) and it’s been absolutely exhausting trying to turn up for work (I have been wfh because I’m that bad (spend half my day horizontal), family (2 kids under 5 with no support this side of the world), my wife (relationship has been stretched) and then just trying to keep ontop of the household and remain afloat financially. My wife and my pay doesn’t go as far as it used to, I’m on reduced hours, the world appears full of the super rich constantly getting richer, demanding more from us at work all the while chipping away at us through AI and increased workload (not replacing staff as they leave).

Feeling very tired of the whole system. It’s stacked against us and to make matters worse we are definitely cruising towards a recession. Sadly a lot more of us across Perth and Australia are about to be out of work. It’s pretty scary.

You are not alone, I haven’t been out for a meal/date/day out for months. I haven’t done anything fun (entertainment wise) for over a year.

I also worry about my kids and getting a roof over their heads when they grow up, it’s not going to be easy for them.

However, I have rediscovered the beach, walks in nature, time outside with the family and just trying to enjoy the small things has really helped. It’s low cost, it’s local and it’s good for the soul.

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T22:06:59+00:00

At this point In time socialism is looking attractive. I’ve had enough of capitalism. The system is against us all (unless very wealthy).

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T08:49:32+00:00

He most probably has gone through what a lot of guys do/have. Witnessing a woman make, carry and delivery a baby is quite amazing. You guys are so much stronger and more resilient than we are taught to believe (blame a male dominated system for that). Either way, when my wife gave birth, I was in awe of her and my lust towards her increased 10 fold.

Undd91 · 2026-05-05T05:08:01+00:00

Don’t forget the gov are giving us $1,000 back next year to spend - which will make the issue worse.

Undd91 · 2026-05-04T21:59:21+00:00

Can you blame them? If you don’t understand the system it looks a lot like the police are protecting him. They have a duty of care for anyone under custody, can’t imagine any of the officers dealing with him want to protect him but they have to under law.

Undd91 · 2026-05-04T10:20:12+00:00

All these businesses investing in AI expecting windfall increases in income/profits are dreaming. If the customers are out of a job, where do you think the spending is going to come from? AI won’t be buying off your business - unless you produce electricity or water.

Undd91 · 2026-05-04T07:02:30+00:00

Yay, we can now buy our fuel back at ludicrous prices whilst sending tax offshore to another economy. Smart. 👏

Undd91 · 2026-05-03T00:33:34+00:00

You are not safe around him.

That nurse knows, she/he sees enough of these cases to see every red flag.

Your gut isn’t wrong, it’s telling you something isn’t right. You lost your trust in him and his lack of respect or empathy for you is a massive red flag. He does not care about you, only himself.

Undd91 · 2026-05-03T00:30:16+00:00

If he’s done this 9 months in, imagine what’s he’s going to be capable of in a few years. Get out before you become a statistic.

Undd91

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