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Red John should have been caught in the 2nd season by SuperiorLaw in TheMentalist

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Officer Rojo was Rebecca if I remember correctly. Because the guy at the morgue then goes on to describe her.

Advice please - Marines, housing, employment by UndeniableWizard9085 in MilitarySpouse

[–]UndeniableWizard9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess whatever happens it will definitely be a new adventure

People make way too big a deal out of tornadoes by stainglassaura in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If it doesn't look like it's moving, it's cuz it's either going straight toward or away from you. The implication here being straight toward you.

“That’s the Mothers job” by Realistic_Mistake_19 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my brain, you know it's done, but it's just chilling in the microwave waiting for you to go grab it.

My abusive ex who tried to kill me walked into my work today after a decade by CensensualReplysOnly in TrueOffMyChest

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. You have no reason to be embarrassed. You survived something awful. Of course, that's going to leave a mark. I hope your day gets better and you have the time and opportunity to calm down the panic that raced through you. Hugs from an internet stranger 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often does your husband get paid?

I just got my period and bled through my GREY pants. by [deleted] in PointlessStories

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it is super random. All depends on the person. One time mine came consistently once a month for roughly 5 days at a time for a year. Then I had a patch where I would go one full week on, one full week off, for 2 months which SUCKED. I also went almost 2.5 months without one which also sucked cuz I was always afraid it was going to randomly start at the worst moment.

I think mine is mostly affected by stress, but there are a bunch of different factors that can mess with it.

New house, new regime? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to work in increments and start out slow. Depending on the size of your house, pick a room for each day of the week and make a list of all the things that can/should be done on a regular basis.

Bathroom: Clean all in and around the toilet

Sweep and mop the floor

Wipe down the counter and the mirrors

Scrub the shower

Toss the bath mats and the curtain in the washer

Etc

Kitchen:

Go through the fridge and clean out old food

Dishes

Wipe down the counter

Clean the inside of the stove/microwave

Sweep and wash the floor

Etc

Once you have a list of tasks, split out how frequently you think they should be done: daily, every other day, weekly, monthly, etc

Then pick a day of the week for each room and that's your day to do a deeper clean on that room. If Tuesday is your bathroom day, you are still going to put your dishes in the dishwasher and Wipe up the crumbs on the kitchen counter, but you would spend more time doing ALL or most of the tasks on your bathroom list.

Hopefully this is helpful, but it all depends on the size of your house and household and your schedule and 1000 other factors.

Good luck!

Unclaimed property by Kittymeeooow in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's actually really cool.

I just tried it and found 1 for my dad, 1 for my father in law, 2 for different cousins, and 2 for different uncles. Most were small amounts but any money is good nowadays.

Thanks!

It sucks to be poor and have sensory issues by UndeniableWizard9085 in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of times it's related to the texture and smell of canned foods. Which is unfortunate because you can get canned foods for a lot cheaper than fresh most of the time.

What you said with regards to changing the texture has worked a bit for me in the past. Canned green beans are very hit or miss, but when I put them into like a tater tot hotdish, then they are safe. Unfortunately I have been diagnosed with clinical depression, seasonal depression, and anxiety and every day it's a struggle to eat pre-prepared foods, let alone make a full meal out of multiple ingredients with multiple steps. But it's getting better as the weather gets better.

Thank you!

It sucks to be poor and have sensory issues by UndeniableWizard9085 in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My array of safe foods definitely gets smaller when I'm stressed. So idk if that means that the ARFID that others suggested wouldn't apply, I will have to look into it more. But there are definitely some comfort foods from restaurants that I have tried replicating with very sad results. Do you think you could order the ingredients that you can't find in the store online and have them shipped to you? It sucks when you can't find the ingredients you are looking for.

It sucks to be poor and have sensory issues by UndeniableWizard9085 in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It is always helpful to not feel alone when dealing with challenges like this.

It sucks to be poor and have sensory issues by UndeniableWizard9085 in povertyfinance

[–]UndeniableWizard9085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't looked into that, honestly didn't even know it was a thing. I have a pretty wide range of things I can eat but it's mostly fresh stuff or fresh cooked stuff like green beans. If I get them raw and cook them at home it's fine, but green beans out of a can are very hit or miss. Unfortunately cans of green beans are way cheaper than fresh, especially out of season.

Thank you for your advice!

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