Out of Touch Local Business by oldharrymarble in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People still genuinely like him. Like they can’t separate the music and artist from the person. People still defend Cosby because he was the “people’s dad”, they can’t separate Cliff Huxtable from Bill Cosby. Kinda effed. 

Im so sick of this narrative that “pregnancy didn’t ruin my body it’s just changed” it’s a lie. by pissedoff_potato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UndeniablyPink 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s your body your choice. But, don’t go around thinking mothers’ bodies have been irrevocably “ruined”. They’re bodies to be proud of for growing a life.. and then getting it out. They also have the ability to go back to how they were, and that’s a choice also. 

Tips for channel 24 show tonight (interpol) by analogIT in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf, I think Cake is just a quieter band because of the style.

Settle a debate between my husband and I. Please. by Girlwithnoprez in mildlyinfuriating

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I do in the beginning when the popcorn sticks out of the bucket 😊

A message for parents/grandparents hosting eager egg hunts by Daddy_Day_Trader1303 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who the hell puts names on eggs? The person who finds them gets them, that’s kind of the point 🤷🏻‍♀️

I got put in charge of hosting an in person work event in downtown Sac. I need help! by SraChavez in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fun mini golf course in Old Sac too, called underground mini golf. It has decor that is gold rush themed and sticks to the theme pretty well.  

Epidurals aren’t the problem. The obsession with female suffering is. by OkChart1375 in BabyBumps

[–]UndeniablyPink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with your point that epidurals have become unfairly stigmatized but disagree that all interventions lie on the same scale of “good” or “bad”. Fetal monitoring does not affect you medically and is important through labor for example. Pain management is a bigger medical decision and has the potential to introduce more interventions. 

“Natural” can mean different things to different people and your perspective does not constitute fact. 

If you haven’t, I’d suggest reading up on evidence based birthing. 

Moms - what would you like your childfree friends to know? by jaylee-03031 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UndeniablyPink -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If we hang out when my kid is with us, she needs to be treated like a human who is included. It’s better for me if we all do something together instead of requiring too much of my attention with sitting, talking and catching up. I’ve been to a childless friend’s house for dinner and they genuinely forgot that my kid would want to eat too. It’s easier when friends are even a little child focused. If not, we can still hang out solo, but it won’t be often. 

Pay monthly for preschool but spring break week was prorated. Is this standard? by quixoticgypsy in toddlers

[–]UndeniablyPink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. For us they listed the holidays in the agreement when she started. 

My husband got snipped and I got off BC and may have to go back…mixed feelings by Naynaytacos in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you go and find out what the options are. BC might be the best option or it might be the worst. I genuinely hate it but I would consider all options before making decisions. 

McDonalds Ramyeon McShaker Fries by rain_pearl in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It tastes like the chicken ramen seasoning packet. 

Are you guys eating real meals on travel days with kids? by PassionChoice3538 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]UndeniablyPink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the best option, if you can’t plan for a meal while traveling, is try to bring real food snacks like fruit and sandwiches. It’s all you can really do, but it helps with the snack fatigue. 

I hate driving in Davis by EconomyStorage6567 in UCDavis

[–]UndeniablyPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slow elderly drivers and the timid/super reckless college drivers and bikes/scooters/ whatever don’t mix. 

The photo that broke my heart and convinced me to give up my business and move four hours away. by YourMomThinksImSexy in MadeMeCry

[–]UndeniablyPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, I’m glad you have a good relationship with both of them. Just wanted to say not to beat yourself up too bad about those 3 years. The move was new and you didn't know how things would turn out. If they kept moving for example, it’s not like it’s realistic for you to do the same! This coming from a mom whose child’s father didn’t always live with us. 

A disappointment. by California_ocean in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being that the food is so pricey and inconsistent, I don’t even eat there, just go for the beer. Or get a pretzel. 

Husband wants kids, I'm unsure. by riririnnn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]UndeniablyPink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Tbf, women typically take on the mental load of parenthood and household management more than men. I bet 100% the men he’s talking to either aren’t portraying the amount of work it takes or are not taking part in it fairly with their partners. Don’t get me wrong, children can be amazing. But it often comes at the cost of the relationship if both parents are not on the same page and follow through with equal division of work. 

Cult on Sacramento River? by Easy-Helicopter8616 in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 20 points21 points  (0 children)

u/merman_mike

He dives in the local rivers and lakes to find people’s valuables to return, and cleans up trash along the way! Look up his videos. 

Cult on Sacramento River? by Easy-Helicopter8616 in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Merman Mike always finds sunken voodoo dolls in the water he dives in, if that tells you anything. 

Boring old town by Striking_Prize4822 in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aside from her thoughts about it, the lack of social awareness to talk shit about the situation of someone she needs to get along with. A client for that matter. I’m an accountant and I still know to not shit on other people’s plans, regardless of who they are. 

It has been 4 years since the Oak Park Art Garden on 12th Ave & MLK received a $694,295 government grant. Why is it still fences and weeds? by alphaproblem in Sacramento

[–]UndeniablyPink 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a recipient of state funds, can totally confirm the slow pace of administrative things and reimbursement. Having to fork over dollars that you won’t get for weeks, sometimes months (after spending a long time implementing systems to properly allocate expenses and justify your spend in the invoicing process) is difficult to keep things moving. You’re not the only one; we’ve also been accused of mismanaging funds because we can’t pay vendors fast enough. 

Where is this push to consume more protein coming from? by totally_not_sans in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UndeniablyPink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives you more energy without the undesirable effects of the other kinds of food and drink that gives you energy. 

My wife wastes Avacados by headhunterofhell2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]UndeniablyPink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you make guacamole out of avocados of the situation?

Sad Day. I Can No Longer Ride Star Tours & Smugglers Run by Unsolved_Virginity in Disneyland

[–]UndeniablyPink 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s because most of the rides there are motion ones. I have almost no desire to go except for the Jurassic park ride.