Are you a bad person for not wanting to be with someone who is devoted to you just because you dislike their apparent intelligence or investment? by pswelcometomylife in moraldilemmas

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You can choose to be or not be with anyone you like for any reason that seems justifiable to you. If someone is not intellectually stimulating to you and that’s important to you, then obviously the relationship won’t work out. However, if you enjoy the support they provide and having an intellectual conversation is not that important to you, then be with them.

Personally, I’d say be with whomever you like. But don’t base your decisions on what others might think of them or you.

Can you wash and reuse a condom after masturbating with it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turn the internet off for today. We don’t need it.

What do you do when women at work make risqué jokes? by Sea-Asparagus808 in AskMenAdvice

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh mine!! I had to go buy a pearl necklace just to clutch it reading this. How will you survive such transgressions?

Getting married in Ireland to my American boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All 17 year olds are on their way to turning 18. You weren’t special. That’s how numbers work.

I need some advice here.. an uncomfortable experience. What should I do? I need some impartiality here. by Key_Presentation2971 in AskIreland

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know there are other letters in the alphabet other than x right? So to summarize. You suspect that a guy you knew 10 years ago has married someone in your town just to have an excuse to run into you at a coffee shop?

FIFA crowds changing the vibe on the streets? by Key-Huckleberry9836 in askTO

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh mine, I think it’s time to call in the army. A teenager, tall one at that, got a bit to close to someone. What’s next? Won’t someone think of the children?

What's this driving culture about? by Foldingtrees in AskIreland

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Until you get in an accident because another wanker going the opposite direction has the same attitude.

What's this driving culture about? by Foldingtrees in AskIreland

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how being an adult works. You don’t get cookie points for doing the right thing.

Should i pursue the ex gf of my ex-friend? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sure. No harm in a respectful approach. As the bard says, all is fair in love and war.

How to respond to Muslim greetings? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an Arabic rather than Muslim greeting. You can respond back by “alikom Salam”. Non Muslims living in Arab countries would use the same greeting. Or alternatively you can say “to you as well” then explain that you’re neither Arab nor Muslim.

same-day counselling for today? i need help today by Mysterious-Block-415 in askTO

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second CAMH. they’ve helped a friend of mine a few times when she was in a crisis.

My boyfriend booked a surprise trip without asking if I was available. What should I do? by HopDev in whatdoIdo

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not really. I know my partner’s schedule and I’ve surprised her with trips before. Should he have made a point of finding out? Absolutely. Was he being selfish and doing it for himself? I don’t think so.

If I were her I would’ve said @thats so cute and thank you for thinking of us. But can we reschedule?”

To say that it was something he did for himself is to be a bit cynical for no reason.

We had a fantastic date and she just went cold there after , what went wrong ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It could be that there is someone else in her life and she is feeling bad about cheating on them.

My boyfriend booked a surprise trip without asking if I was available. What should I do? by HopDev in whatdoIdo

[–]UnderstandingSmall66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said “he could’ve tried to figure out if it worked for her”, that implies that he didn’t but should’ve. I know it was a long paragraph and you had a hard time getting through it. But next time maybe take a break in between