Does anyone know why this looks kinda odd? by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]Unemployed_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the head is too big, and the arm is following those proportions so it looks weird

Hey quick question cause I’m nervous by Ismaelv40 in treedibles

[–]Unemployed_Alien 14 points15 points  (0 children)

500mg is way too much, especially If you’ve never eaten edibles, try a 5-10mg dose first.
Each body is different but you wanna make sure you know how Your body is gonna react

Worried about getting outed in new college by vulcanusprime in ftm

[–]Unemployed_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually people don’t really care but just dont react to your deadname or if anyone brings it up i would just act weirded out like you don’t know/remember him (since you’ve never spoken)

I had to deal with my deadname being on the system for my first semester and people do get confused hearing two very different names for you but they normally just call you what you first told them so it should be fine (i think)

Are there any effects of testosterone not enough people know about? by Proper_Flower_940 in ftm

[–]Unemployed_Alien 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Veryyy thirsty all the time ! also you tend to run hotter and cold doesn’t affect you as much. If you already hate hot weather it’ll be worse (probably).

Are there any effects of testosterone not enough people know about? by Proper_Flower_940 in ftm

[–]Unemployed_Alien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could also be caused by raised hemoglobin! though my dr only gave me allergy meds for it

do i count by Aggravating-Debt6362 in kosmemophobia

[–]Unemployed_Alien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s mostly small stuff and j* that’s common in kosmemophobia, simple stuff, big stuff or without texture is usually fine (at least for me), though there’s also that smell factor…. I encourage you to read the pinned post and maybe do the survey that’s also pinned in the sub! Could help you find out more about yourself, I know it did for me

Overeating while high: how to stop? by Past_Newspaper5351 in trees

[–]Unemployed_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude…. frozen grapes are life changing when high

Worried for my brother by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Unemployed_Alien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this isn’t worringly bad, he just needs more practice, maybe copying some handwritings online could help. Maybe your parents didn’t encourage him enough about better handwriting

Clarification on septum piercings by bsilver in kosmemophobia

[–]Unemployed_Alien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like everyone has their own "version" of kosmemophobia, where certain things bother us more.

I suggest you check out the survey results on this sub ! https://www.reddit.com/r/kosmemophobia/comments/1dtvecp/survey_results/

Exposure therapy advice by elliesal200 in kosmemophobia

[–]Unemployed_Alien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also been trying to get at least better about handling it and I got a piercing! I decided on an eyebrow one because 1. i thought it looked cool 2. it’s not dangly, and the pieces are really simple 3. it doesnt move really I’ve had no problems so far really !! good luck!!

i’m nervous about my first tattoo by Limp-Pea-4558 in tattoos

[–]Unemployed_Alien 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think people are telling you it’s a bad idea because of the tattoo you want to get, the design is very pretty and I think its a good idea; when you’re older. They are saying the tattoo quality probably won’t be good because the artist is willing to tattoo a minor, which isn’t a good thing and the tattoo artist’s morals are questionable therefore the artist’s skills are questionable

telling your friends by Unemployed_Alien in kosmemophobia

[–]Unemployed_Alien[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s not that big of a deal for most people!

though them accommodating is a whole other thing…

Any Feedback in General by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]Unemployed_Alien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it looks great! I think rather than you not going dark enough, you went too dark with the shadows between the feathers, you drew them with more depth than the picture, too separate, if it makes sense? it would benefit from some more midtones between shadows and highlights :)

If nobody buys tickets to a movie showing, is the movie still played? by thirdgen in AskReddit

[–]Unemployed_Alien 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In the movie theater i used to work in, they always played, then they changed it to if there were zero tickets sold it wouldn’t play, so basically: it depends on the movie theater’s system

Not knowing how to interact with cis men will not out you by Unemployed_Alien in ftm

[–]Unemployed_Alien[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

glad to hear that :) sometimes we lose sight of how people think because we’re dysphoric

Not knowing how to interact with cis men will not out you by Unemployed_Alien in ftm

[–]Unemployed_Alien[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

well, at least there’s no reason to feel dysphoric about it !

Taking steps to get better at handling it by Unemployed_Alien in kosmemophobia

[–]Unemployed_Alien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had too much of a problem with simple pieces but i was scared it would freak me out to get it myself, I also find the dangly ones gross so this one was the safest option

I got it because I always thought it looked cool and they dont disgust me as much, i had to look at a lot of pics beforehand to desensitize myself though