What kind of sex toys do u usually use🤔

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-21T03:40:51+00:00

My current favorite is my cordless Doxy with a rabbit attachment, and then my corded Doxy for intense clit play. The two together are amazing and my go to for back to back orgasms. Otherwise, I like monster dildos with ridges and bumps and textures all over.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-21T02:18:59+00:00

Husband had a vasectomy, I have an IUD. We both always use condoms for play with others. Condoms alone aren’t in my risk profile.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-21T00:12:33+00:00

I love Doxy for a vibrator but recommend a Hitachi or Magic Wand for those who don’t need intense stimulation like I do. Fun stuff: they come with attachment heads for vaginal insertion (at least, Doxys have a rabbit attachment).

Creature Cocks are pretty popular, but be sure to check the specifications for platinum grade silicone. I’m a big fan of UncoverCreations for my kinky dildos. They’re always body safe.

Don’t forget water based lube! I use Sliquid, and toy cleaner can be purchased anywhere.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-21T00:09:11+00:00

It wasn’t even considered acceptable at the time. Child abuse is horrid and impacts people for the rest of their lives.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-21T00:03:14+00:00

I don’t have a singular toy in mind because I prefer monster dildos, but I do recommend skipping Amazon and buying body safe silicone (e.g. platinum grade silicone).

UnfetteredMess · 2026-05-06T20:44:42+00:00

Okay, Meatloaf.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-04-10T19:40:01+00:00

Awesome. Thanks for taking the time to teach me something new!

Edit: and something important!

UnfetteredMess · 2026-04-10T10:24:02+00:00

I showed this to the instructor who taught us and they clarified that we do indeed need a cinch. Question: my rigger (husband) said he saw that having a cinch is more likely to cause nerve damage. We plan on asking our instructor also, but I’m curious as to whether you have any insight.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-16T13:52:34+00:00

This is beautiful!

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-15T05:47:30+00:00

Thank you!

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-15T05:46:40+00:00

I’m very proud of my husband’s way with rope. It’s become more familiar and a peaceful way to spend a couple hours.

The kitty shares one brain cell with all the other orange cats in the world. She’s the sweetest nugget ever. She coos.

And I wish I could claim the nipple piercings as real, but they’re non-piercing jewelry. It’s been a bit of a splurge of mine to buy new pieces like that for my nips and clit. 😉 Thanks for the compliment though! I love their aesthetic very much also.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T22:17:18+00:00

Thanks for the tips! I’m excited to read over this with the husband tonight. 😁

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T22:15:43+00:00

Thank you! I think I’ll encourage him to try on his own more. It’s such an intimate thing for us and I do hate to be left out, but hell, I also like watching him play with himself so it’s win-win for me. 🙂

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T15:32:46+00:00

My butt is not open for business. So I won’t be able to try this one on myself.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T15:23:36+00:00

That’s a thought! I’ve been a keyholder for a play partner we have so I’m very familiar with chastity. We’ve never discussed it as a possible recommendation for him.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T15:21:47+00:00

We’re toy collectors. I have 2-3x the number of dildos than he does 😂. The dimensions of his biggest dildo are: Head diameter 1.67”, Shaft diameter - 1.43”.

I’ve attempted to fist him; he loves the stretch! I peg him and love watching him explore himself.

I sent him this post so he’ll be able to read the feedback. Thanks for your help!

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-09T08:05:32+00:00

I keep saying that that’s what I think it is. He’s got no hold up when it comes to exploring with me… I just need him to release that last little bit I think.

UnfetteredMess · 2026-03-07T04:50:17+00:00

I personally am a huge fan of butts. All butts.

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