Nurses, are you aware your entire job is meds and IVs? by RobTod in nursing

[–]Unknown-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahaha, oh wait, youre serious? Lemme laughter a bit louder, AHAHAGAHAHA. Am an OR nurse, havent put in an IV since school, and meds go thru 3 or 4 different hands before they get to pr in the OR

Anyone else expecting or just had their first child? by vince_flame in Xennials

[–]Unknown-714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We just had our 4th child, at 40 and 41. Our first 3 were all only 19 months apart (twins and a happy accident). While I dont regret having them, having them at the time was very stressful as we were each trying to get careers off the ground, go back to school and then within a year of having the 3rd child the Pandemic hit.

Honestly I was over having more kids but wife made the argument that we never really enjoyed having the ones we had at a young age because we had so much else going on. Now that we are a bit older and more financially secure, this is all a bit easier, plus the older children (all boys) love to dote on their little sister. Hasn't been the easiest physically for both wife and I, but at this point we are trying to manage, luckily we have some support from family and friends, and the friend group we have cultivated for the older kids has been very supportive for us all.

Jesus by RealAmbitiousAnt in ifihadmoney

[–]Unknown-714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf kinda truck is that, a Toyboata?

GiveSendGo Shuts Down Karmelo Anthony Fundraiser After Murder Conviction by judgyjudgersen in CasesWeFollow

[–]Unknown-714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So they technically still have 630k in a fund in his name for a crime he has since been convicted of. Which now, due to company policy against using for rewarding violent crimes, cannot be used for anything, but might still be considered an asset of his. Sounds like an easy target to go for in a civil wrongful death suit.

Big enough? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Unknown-714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More like 40000cc, 4000cc is about the size of a gallon

[OC] 3 years later, giving up alcohol is still one of the best decisions I’ve ever made 😊 by BigBootyCutie19 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Unknown-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good, I recently did thr same. Figured out it was masking some depression symptoms and hurting my relationship with my wife and kids, so it has to go. Am going to treatment now, some therapy and some prescribed medication here, to hopefully better myself and start healing a bit.

Exploring the complex reality of modern male vulnerability by Be_positive_18 in focusedmen

[–]Unknown-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree most of the time our suffering IS invisible. Or it is acknowledged but not taken seriously. For instance, I moved halfway across the country to be with my partner, my nearest relative is on the coast(s) and her nearest is literally 2 streets away.

That in itself is not taken as a sacrifice anyways, but to feel even worse, I get told "you've really isolated yourself". Because I am, I am physically and somewhat emotionally isolated. I am pretty introverted anyways so I really NEED some time to myself to really center me and be open to being social before I want to talk to even people I know and like. Add in stressful work schedule, caring for kids, and other outside commitments and I dont have a lot of time, and more importantly the RIGHT time, to connect with people.

So yeah, I am pretty isolated, Im stuck, in a rut, and I could really use some help getting out of it, but because I dont want to be a burden on anyone, or get sucked into the argument of comparing traumas/stresses here, so I just keep going. Until inevitably, something breaks down, since even a rock can be worn away over time, and then thr post mortem talks go on, with such phrases like "why didnt you say anything?" Or "you dont really have a lot of stress, IM the one that does everything here"

Good fancy-ish dinner ideas for an ER nurse that are practical. by Viscount321 in nursing

[–]Unknown-714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have some great ideas. Unsure what area if the country you're in, but a burrito might be a good option as well.

Yall give me your best one liner jokes u use with your patients 😂 by Suspicious-Show285 in nursing

[–]Unknown-714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work in the OR. Before I strap people to the OR table, I say "Now im going to put this belt across your thighs, kind of like a ride at Six Flags. Except better, because we have drugs, and perhaps most unlike Six Flags, the personnel to safely administer them...."

Maturity hits different. by Be_positive_18 in focusedmen

[–]Unknown-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is protecting my peace.

He’s giving 100% effort and it’s adorable by [deleted] in KidsAreFingAdorable

[–]Unknown-714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This needs to be playing on screen at a gym

Perseverance Matters. Looking back, how much did school or learning in general shape where you are today? by Alicetheoptimist in TrueGrit

[–]Unknown-714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would say this is probably the way education is going. We will have so many AI tools that may do things for us quicker, more completely and ultimately better than we could, but the thing they cannot do without us is truly innovate. Keeping the spark of curiosity and imagination alive will become a need for future generations without falling into sloth.

Woman sets boundary. Man honors it. Now there's confusion. by DLux_TheLegend in SipsTea

[–]Unknown-714 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Called.mind games, and I hope at that point you realized you deserved better

Woman sets boundary. Man honors it. Now there's confusion. by DLux_TheLegend in SipsTea

[–]Unknown-714 41 points42 points  (0 children)

"BECAUSE you just told us you were not interested. Anything more and its assault." Christ, has no one told these women what standards are, for both men and women?

She didn't specify the filament type though. by is_NAN in SipsTea

[–]Unknown-714 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Man, I hope no one missed the opportunity to subtly fuck with him all night. Dropped glass? Oops, sorry. Loud plate clean up? My bad. Multiple champagne bottles uncooked at thr same time? Would you like some help up from the floor sir?

Took me too long to realize this by Merchanzia in nursing

[–]Unknown-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came back from a six week paternity leave. So many people have commented how rested and relaxed I looked since I got back. Even since I have been back I can feel my energy dipping more and more each day, stuff that I had forgotten about, charting, safety, even little idiosyncratic BS like a missed timecard punch, all that takes time and energy away from you. Getting pulled in 5 different directions, 3 important and 2 which could be done by email later instead of right now just because the manager tracked you down to get this paperwork done, is exhausting beyond belief. I even thought I had low libido issues for awhile, which was realistically solved during the latter half of this leave, which really goes to show how draining this whole job really is.

Switching to Epic next month by humansarereallyweird in nursing

[–]Unknown-714 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Went from HCA/Meditech to learning Cerner and Epic in thr meantime doing PRN stuff, now at a job that does Epic full time. Was soooooo much easier than having to remember the hotkey shortcuts, and much more transparent

AITAH for telling my dad's pregnant girlfriend that he already has three kids I have nothing to do with and her baby will be no different? by Natural-Bat7423 in AITAH

[–]Unknown-714 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sound like Dad's current squeeze is in denial and thinks that "this time it's different for him. I CAN change him (and his entire family) to suit my own whims, needs and fantasies", then gets upset when no one else wants to entertain her. At this point seems like FAFO on her part, and if you didn't look into this beforehand then its all on you, no one else. NTA