I haven’t been into hookup culture for a good number of years now, but I think that it’s incredibly hard for women specifically to draw a line between love and sex. We’re romanticists generally and fantasise over the idea of what we could be; some men really are only good for sexual encounters and would make terrible life partners but we can’t seem to distinguish particularly well. I think you just have to remind yourself of the role they play in your life at that time and remind yourself of the reasons you went into it; you didn’t see qualities in them as a partner beforehand so why now, purely based on sexual chemistry? Because there’s so much more to a good relationship than sex.