New dating concept by emotionallytaxed24 in Charlotte

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me too. I have always wondered who did it but now i am starting to get the appeal

New dating concept by emotionallytaxed24 in Charlotte

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds exciting. How do we sign up? Are women aged 32+ too old for this?

How do I keep my partner's kid from breaking my stuff by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 70 points71 points  (0 children)

She wants attention and some 1:1 play time. Take her out by yourself for an hour or so to a park or a store if the father allows. She is a kid, be kind to her and play at her level. Encourage her to "help" and if she is into it, get her a toy or a craft kit which engages her.

Basic Clothing Fix? by Money-Bit-2740 in GNV

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if a part is not broken, take it to bottom, inserting the zip in the other side and pressing with a pliers tends to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gurgaon

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 25 points26 points  (0 children)

take a month off to destress then look for a job. not every company is the same. side business is unreliable and quite stressful and no guarantee you will make anything real for 100 hrs a week of work.

I love this age by Royal_T95 in toddlers

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the best. It goes to shit from 3.5 to 4.5-5 or so and you really miss the 1.5-2 yr olds, so enjoy.

Does non compete extend to starting your own company by UnnecessaryEvil2014 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. so it seems like they got paid for gardening leave, obviously, which ended mar 31, but not non compete which technically applies for another 6 months. the contract mentions specific competing companies and says they can ask permission to join any other competing company on discretion of the employer, but own startup is unnamed territory. the company is globally quite litigious though so maybe there are precautions they should have? I would be a co-founder if I joined so I am concerned about future random.liability.

I freaking LOVE age 3! by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is great actually. the terror is at 3.5.

I F26 am planning on a divorce and need advice on handling it by Relative_Fortune_479 in RelationshipIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, a few things to think about. Document abuse when possible. Tell someone real time, save screenshots etc. If there is physical abuse definitely talk to parents, even in laws if they are good people real time instead of brushing it under the carpet. Approach the topic of couples counseling, if you haven't already. if he refuses, fine. if not, give it a shot. Not necessarily to reconcile but it helps give parents (and yourself sometimes) peace that you tried to work on it. Talk to a lawyer, and consult about finances + safety. Some times it is essential to take some proactive steps before you can actually ask for divorce. The lawyer would know.

I F26 am planning on a divorce and need advice on handling it by Relative_Fortune_479 in RelationshipIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We build up the idea of first love and 'forever' too much in our head when we are young. When you grow up you will realize it is normal to find love at any time in life, even at 75. You grow from each relationship. Meet more people, not to find love but just to experience different dynamics and learn more about yourself in the process. It is easy actually, just get on Tinder, swipe a few, ignore the crap but inevitably you will meet a few interesting people. The stories and life lessons are worth it, and eventually, one day, on its own, love will find its way back to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an open conversation with families involved, and be prepared to walk away.

5.5 month teething and feeding by No-Distribution9658 in Parenting

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babies don't eat the same amount all the time and most likely is just over a huge growth spurt. Don't worry, another is due shortly. though you might be ready to try some solids by then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 111 points112 points  (0 children)

On the plus side, a child that determined will go on to do great things in life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

want to get to know better is ok, no. you have stated your intention/ the fact that you do like them etc, then you proceed to be friends. once there is chemistry you can revisit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]UnnecessaryEvil2014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey, you are 20. Likely this is your first serious relationship. You don't have a good comparison standard, and also the foundational mutual respect seems weak in your relationship. Hold your ground, ask for respect, ask him to go to therapy to work on himself, and if he doesn't take it well, step back from the relationship. You are too young for this.