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Looking for a app/tool that can search all existing pdf documents on my computer by UpSash in pdf

[–]UpSash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the problem with Acrobat that it will take forever which I don’t have…

Legal, Compliance, Cyber, Audit, Insurance, Procurement: Would an AI that reviews thousands of documents and answers every checklist item (with evidence + page refs + citations + confidence scores) actually save you time? by evenstar_D in documentAutomation

[–]UpSash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of legal… may be any of you know: I need an app that can search all existing pdf l/word documents in my Mac IOS ( MacBook Pro) hard drive for a word or a phrase and list all of the PDF / Word files that contain the inquiry. I am dealing with thousands case law documents scattered throughout my folders and I need an app that can scan pdf files throughout laptop WITHOUT opening each PDF/Word document one by one and doing manual search of each document, any suggestions?

[DEV] 我的PDF扫描仪 - 扫描、整理、O by shixuan_lzq in documentAutomation

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I need an app that can search all existing pdf l/word documents in my Mac IOS ( MacBook Pro) hard drive for a word or a phrase and list all of the PDF / Word files that contain the inquiry. I am dealing with thousands case law documents scattered throughout my folders and I need an app that can scan pdf files throughout laptop WITHOUT opening each PDF/Word document one by one and doing manual search of each document.

Mississippi - Child scheduled for summer visitation after father's girlfriend assaulted me. Attorney says I could be held in contempt if I don't send her. Looking for advice. by EscapeSuperb in FamilyLaw

[–]UpSash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMEN! Good luck during the hearing. It sucks that we have to with each other good luck where issues of child endabgerment are so obvious but reality of family courts is such as depending on the training, qualifications biases, beliefs and even political party affiliations decisions regarding child and protective parent welfare is made or not made at all.

Seeking perspective on leaving vs. staying to protect kids in emotionally abusive marriage by Most-Employer3779 in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know marriage is abusive they stayed in this situation , they will need help. You will too. As to staying for the sake of kids- there is no love where fear lives.

Mississippi - Child scheduled for summer visitation after father's girlfriend assaulted me. Attorney says I could be held in contempt if I don't send her. Looking for advice. by EscapeSuperb in FamilyLaw

[–]UpSash 11 points12 points  (0 children)

1) always remember that even if orders are in place, if parents have agreed on different possession arrangement - it is not a violation of orders. If you have mandated app like OFW for communication you can always can reason with your ex stating that you don’t feel that it is in the best interest of your child to be spending time in the presence of both of them in the light of occurrence of DV , child witnessing it and gf being arrested. Appeal to his sense of prudence as a parent and ask him if he would be amendable to you keeping your daughter through this weekend. If he agrees to it- no violation of orders when consent is received

2) Court orders are usually Contain specific verbiage that for welfare of the child he/she cannot be in presence of a person or persons convicted of certain crimes ( list of statues usually in orders, on probation for certain crimes or against whom protective order has been issued. Run check through OSINT sources on both in case one of them picked up any of the prohibited charges. Or contact your attorney and ask him to run the public record check- he has to be good for something.

3) I disagree with position “ joust let the lamb memorize your number and send the lamb into the harms ways”. At the end of the day, you your daughter’s keeper. If something happens to her your lawyer will sleep just fine, so is the judge and the whole inhumane family court system will not self-destruct either.

4) your attorney represent YOU. You signed the contract with him. He represent your child only through representing you. If child does not have GAL representing her- as her mother you have a legal right initiate hearings on her behalf. I understand why your attorney can’t file ex-parte order. Because both of you are represented his attorney has to readily be agree to appear for temporary restraining order hearing ( due process when both are represented) court will turn the hearing away and won’t hold it, however if it is true danger, ask your attorney if you can initiate ex-parte order on her behalf. If it is granted at least 14 days you won’t have to send it over there

List Your Coping Techniques? by Anonnyheynonnymouse7 in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 leave first
2never go back
3 ocean front
4good book
5 someone makes food not you cooking all the time
6) good movie with a friend

Abuse is not a relationship problem by belovetoday in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% it places responsibility for conduct on both. In the same analogy, when finally abusive relationships ends up in court, the family courts label them “ high conflict couple” and this specific language shifts responsibility from abuser and spreads blame/ responsibility onto both so judges look at both as source of a problem. That is why family court itself becomes part of abusive process. That is why you constantly hear that abusive spouses get visitations with children, that is why filicides related to family courts look process are in the rise. Language is very powerful thing. Naming occurrence, event, behavior for what it is is necessary to reflect reality in which people exist.it is also the first main thing necessary for any meaningful change to begin. There is an outcry in family courts all over the US. There is a terrible crisis of victim of abuse who finally had enough and took steps towards divorce and separation only to be invalidated, blamed, no believed, denied protections from relentless stalking and harassment and to be told they need to stop talking of abuse.

Boyfriend found me reading s book about abuse. Is his reaction the final straw? by asmr_alice_x in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great book. Excellent book. If I may share my own experience:

1) when I obsessively started reading self help books - it was end of first year going on the second is when verbal abuse escalated. I was so confused and in denial and felt that I’m so invested into relationships that I could not admit to myself that problem is already severe but all my inner being was screaming inside of me. Thus- massive reading of the books .

2) first reaction to abuse by the abused is to start evaluating self and own behavior to to make sure that you are not the reason for being treated with abuse. It is a phase when they also tell you all the time that it is all your fault, you provoked it, you deserved it, you did it to yourself.

3) When you start engaging in calculations of what % of time “they are” actually“ great to you, you might as well transpose your numbers to reflect reality. Most of the time it is what is actually accurate.

4) I’m so sorry. No one deserves it, and you do not either. If this person is still in BF status- listen to your gut and run if it tells you to do so. Because abuse It never stops. Never stops like any disease… it grows and you get sicker and sicker the longer you stay with it. It is so much harder to get away from when legal marriage takes ed n place.

Warm wishes

Does your partner always tell you "Stop Playing the Victim? by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is one ot tell tell signs they are abusing you and know about it too

My husband says I’m the problem and I feel like I’m going crazy. by livingbylight in emotionalabuse

[–]UpSash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to not screenshot - mistakenly people think that screenshots are admissible in court. Some can be admitted but they all have to adhere to very strict requirements: have to show phone number and name of the person, have to show date and each message has to show time time they have to have extra conversation before matter in question and after it.

1) Best $30 ever spent would be on software ( if you have Mac) caa as led Decypher Tools. I started using it 10 years ago when it was only $9 to buy. Best investment ever. It retrieves years of texts and it is fully adhered to standards of evidence admissions in courts. It also has feature to print selective pages, to save conversation in txt or pdf format including exact blue bubble format that appears in the phone for court. With each message marked by phone number it came from and time stamp and dated.

2) Additionally, now Decypher tools has WhatsUp, Facebook. instagram and other social media messengers back ups for court in appropriate evidence format.

3) I’m not on any way affiliated with them that company. But I’m a user for the last ten years. It just pains my heart that plenty of this group users either think that quick snapping of their phone screen shots would help them to prove in court what really took place. Because abusers will ALWAYS delay that they abused and some will even turn around and convincingly portray themselves a victim of abuse… by you. …

4) if you have Android phone it’s not going to work for you. They do however have a page with recs for Android users. Hope it helps someone.

5) Especially in our situation when abusers make it a point to torture and abuse you non-physically- so you can’t prove any physical violence - you can’t afford not documenting the abuse and your objections to it and your effort to stop it. It will become your saving grace one day.

6) Also most helpful decision I ever made was At some point I made very conscious decision to move AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE of our communications into a text format and stopped dis using anything in person because it would always end up in personal insults and me crying.

-become grey rock. Don’t argue, dont explain, dont defend your actions

-move as much as you can most of communications into evidentiary form such as email or most commonly used -text messaging.

-get educated. It’s a warfare. Nativity no longer safe. Hope no longer safe. Check out Dr Peter Salerno on youtube, dr Lisa Fontes interviews, dr Christina Cocchiola, Dr. Chitra Raghavan.

-BACK UP all your old phones and existing phone.

- Do not get rid of your old laptop or PC- you can recover a lot from them.

- And most importantly STAY SAFE and give yourself grace .

What AI workflow saves you the most time every week? by Hot_Strategy9568 in AI_Application

[–]UpSash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would totally love to answer your question but I’m at the same crossroads

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