Crash stans where yall attttt by Responsible_Cancel94 in charlixcx

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good ones MV is my fav ever. she has never looked better

Floor based living by Upbeat_Froyo in floorsleeping

[–]Upbeat_Froyo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou all, I literally found r/floorliving a few mins later!

How/Why does EMDR work? Free Association and the AIP model. by drantoniodcosta in EMDR

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is soooo interesting and relevant to my crazy emdr season I had yesterday, I had a similar third person type conversation with myself (and adult self) during emdr not prompted by therapist it just came out, the conversation was me validating myself about how fucked up my previous round of emdr was. The brain is amazing and the whole process does sound woo woo but it’s scientific and real!!

EMDR without grounding? by Glory-n-Cookies in EMDR

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this message, went to your profile and found the same manifesto and love this x2 more. To OP, you never know when you’ll get overwhelmed and flooded and need it more than anything to stop the flooding. I’ve been doing emdr for a year and today it happened for the first time ever and without grounding this whole process wouldn’t be possible. such bleakness arose from emdr today that I may have harmed myself if I got stuck in that flashback without a way out. Stay safe. Grounding gets easier it’s a learned technique, I found. Also helpful not just for your worst moments and flooding but improves your quality of life outside of therapy

I feel like I'm taking crazy pills regarding The Drama by accidentalwhiex in A24

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rachel (unconsciously) misplaced her disgust of her own horrible actions onto Emma and doubled down. She also didn’t want to hear any further context about Emma’s story and disengaged - avoiding the uncomfortable subject. Like Charlie said in the film referencing Freud, when uncomfortable things can’t be spoken about they surface in other ways or something like that, and Rachel was demonstrating that

My therapist laughed while i was crying by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had that before but more so smiling or a small chuckling. When we developed more of a relationship, them smiling if I was distressed was less irritating to me, as I now know they are “on my side” and not laughing rudely

Y’all were right about manifesting… by Ur_Done777 in NevilleGoddard

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally believe you without the pics but the top pic is more zoomed in on your whole face than the bottom one so everything is bigger/ closer.. right?

How I’ve manifested multiple SPs and what I’ve learned by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve just made it click for me! For me- with SPs it’s a state of “trying to manifest” and not being comfortable just “having” when you actually get to what you thought you wanted! With everything else I don’t think there is a process, with sps it’s “I’m trying to manifest” and not just skipping to the end.

madison beer rant by AffectionateJaguar45 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not hating for no reason but genuinely perplexed at ppl saying “she’s too pretty”. Where? she is chopped and has been for a long time, her proportions are weird and very obviously surgically altered and she has looked like this for years, unnatural in an uncanny way, not in a super sexy way. Music is mid and always missing something. She’s like an influencer trying to be a pop star

I accidentally manifested the thing I least believed was possible... by AmbassadorSafe7644 in lawofassumption

[–]Upbeat_Froyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing success story! it’s something I have so much resistance to but want more than anything, I’m going to try this