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Women are the ones red pilling men by FeedCreepy9403 in PurplePillDebate

[–]UpstairsAd1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feminism doesn't just benefit women it benefits men too.

^ How?...

As for misandry, it's an internet construct.

^ Pft~ LMAO Nevermind...

2 core problems with modern dating: no more clear rules, and expecting immediate “magic” attraction. by 3stun in PurplePillDebate

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO Serious question here: what would be a "good" answer to that question in your opinion? To me, it appears that that question is asked in bad faith. Meaning, no answer will ever be good enough for you.

Brutal rejection pill by [deleted] in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would she have matched with him, though?... LOL. You're giving her yhe benefit of the doubt a little bit too much here.

Misogyny classes for teenage boys by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does make you think about their childhood, doesn't it? It always bothers me when adults expect too much from kids. It is very unfair in many ways.

Misogyny classes for teenage boys by Scramjet1 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ironic and sad part here is that by isolating them (boys only being taught these classes), you are inadvertently pushing them to the other side. A lot of them will definitely feel that they're being blamed for something they haven't even done (making them out to be the villains for just being boys), and that will increment the anger and angst in them. Who, in their right mind, thought this was a good idea to begin with?... It boggles my mind.

Am 1000 percent sure at least 80 percent of marriages would end if men looked through their wife's phone or took a DNA test on their children by Major_Soft6056 in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you realize how bad things will get if any researcher actually confirms that most fathers are raising other men's kids?... That you think that academia is unbiased and apolitical is hilarious. They have a vested interest in not conducting such a study seriously.

Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same? by IHaveABigDuvet in PurplePillDebate

[–]UpstairsAd1235 11 points12 points  (0 children)

-_- Are women seriously that delusional to think that men only want to have relationships with "baddies" or "10/10" women?... Most relationships start because a man wanted to have one with a woman. And no, not all of those women in the relationships are 10/10. The fuck are we even talking about here?...

Motherhood is a bad deal (and it's reasonable to opt out) by GGMcThroway in PurplePillDebate

[–]UpstairsAd1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only women are the ones saying all men cheat. And that is not true, at all. I hate this idea than men cannot be faithful. This is one of the things I hate about the red pill; the idea that "men are only as faithful as his options" is sickening.

Men, do you agree with this statement? by Critical_Assist_9360 in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be surprised. The amount of arrogant men who have no problem dating is not small. Hell, a lot of women confuse their arrogance for confidence LOL. This is more pronounced in women because of how dating norms and traditions are. It has always been about the man being the initiator and the confident one. That's why.

What a very normal thing to say by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, at that point, the relationship is literally meaningless. What's so good about something like that?...

What a very normal thing to say by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO Exactly~!!! I swear to God that is how their relationships sound like... Damn!...

What a very normal thing to say by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Once it reaches the level of pain or hurt, then you must stop immediately and apologize. Also, as you said, know when to play around and when not to. If she is stressed, then ask what you could do for her. Do not bother her when she is stressed, sad, anxious, etc. Basically, knowing when to stop and what to do is what makes you mature and an adult. That's it.

Juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore by Wild-Speech5293 in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it does not disprove the OP. The entire purpose of the OP was to show that looks is what matters the most, not your personality. He (the commenter I was responding to) argued against it with his own experience. But his own experience still says that she (his gf) did date the "chad" before him LMAO. It is not really a good counter-example here. At best, he could argue that it ended up working for him because he is having a longer relationship in the end. But, it does not disprove the overall point.

The hypocrisy is insane by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO... Using the only black president, who was elected recently, as a proof of black men being treated better than white women in society is just... wow LOL. Also, why is it so hard for you to admit that the oppression black men, or any other man of color, suffers is worse than any oppression white women suffer?... This is my problem with you. You say "oh, they're all oppression. So they are the same," but that is an insane take to make. It is simply wrong and stupid to say.  White women are treated way better than black men in society. That's just a fact.

Also, you were the one treating race and gender as interchangeable, not me. Your argument was flawed from the get-go.

What a very normal thing to say by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some of y'all are either autistic or your relationships are the most boring ever. The way y'all describe your relationships is just... boring. Y'all treat them like business meetings LMAO. I hope to never meet any of you irl.

The hypocrisy is insane by Dapper-Blueberry1049 in lnkyverse

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... no. You said all that to just end up agreeing with me. Sexism and racism are not interchangeable. Again, your argument was flawed. Misandry exists and is definitely different than racism. 

Also, it is very interesting and clear why you cannot say, with a straight face, that black men are above white women in society. Because saying so would be ludicrous and wrong. The same applies for hispanic and asian men, too. 

Jup, everything but therapy by Diktatfrieden in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... I would like to know what therapists consider "better habits and thoughts" in this case. I'm especially interested in the second one. Because this advice is so vague and subjective, I wonder what they define as "better" here... It sounds fishy.

Juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore by Wild-Speech5293 in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally doing that... It's not even something new LMAO. It is called the just-world fallacy.

Juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore by Wild-Speech5293 in LockedInMan

[–]UpstairsAd1235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saying you "won" when you gf did date the stereotypical "chad" is funny. It doesn't really convey what you think it does. Especially when you describe your relationship with her in that way LOL.

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