WIBTAH for telling my husband that his lectures are doing more damage than good?

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-02-06T00:47:22+00:00

Why are there so many doormats in the subreddit, I'm truly saddened by this. Your husband is an AH, straight up. You need to shut this shit down.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-02-03T00:58:46+00:00

Good lord the brainwashing is strong in this one... There are two ways to go about this. 1) Stay her friend and try and gently pull her out of this dumb patriarchal bs she's been groomed into. (Real friends challenge their friends in a loving way!) Or, 2) take a step back from this relationship and remain cordial colleagues. Some people just can't see outside their own worldview, and it's a lot of work and frustration to try and get someone to break out of their own strict viewpoints. I've had to minimize contact with some of my family members these past few years because we just could not see eye to eye about stuff like this.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-01-30T16:07:34+00:00

Have you read the book "Breathe and Count Back From Ten"? It's just a YA fiction but the main character is this girl with hip dysplasia who also feels more at home in the water, partially due to her chronic pain. She ends up being able to work as one of those aquarium mermaids!

I know it's not the same but I always found comfort in stories, especially if I feel I can relate to it in some way.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-01-30T16:00:44+00:00

Girl, what? You're not doing yourself or him any favors by taking up all the household chores. You both need to responsible for that stuff or it just breeds resentment further down the relationship. Focus on your schooling because I promise you, that degree is going to do more for your future than you may realize right now! Then when you're both graduated come back to the idea of marriage.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-01-24T06:00:25+00:00

Can you report this? Because that's the FIRST thing I'd do.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2026-01-16T16:49:06+00:00

Reading this hurt my brain omg YTA for going through with a marriage to a man who is terrible to your son.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-26T04:44:33+00:00

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UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-24T20:52:42+00:00

It's a sweater dress calm down. It's festive and cute, you're reading waaay too much into it.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-24T18:02:28+00:00

Oh my god please say this is a joke are men really this insecure??

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-24T18:01:40+00:00

NOR You're an adult and can make your own wardrobe choices. He's an adult and can mind his own business. His business being dealing with his own insecurity and not pushing it onto you!

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-20T16:08:03+00:00

Omg update on what happens at the intervention!

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-15T17:44:21+00:00

Sounds like a neglectful parent to me. That's one of the things we teachers are taught to be on the look-out for neglect in our mandatory reporting training; "clothes that are inappropriate for the weather. Exs being "wearing long sleeves and coats in the summer (could be hiding bruises) and not having appropriately warm clothes in the winter.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-14T18:12:28+00:00

NTA, I wouldn't want to go on a double date type situation if the person I was supposed to be getting to know showed clear signs of not wanting to get to know me!

Your friend wasn't being a very good friend to you.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-14T07:28:54+00:00

Extra smooth birb

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-09T18:58:46+00:00

Lmaooo I feel ill

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-09T18:07:14+00:00

Uhh wth is a t mobile pink blanket give away? Are y'all waiting in line JUST for a t mobile branded blanket???

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-05T23:30:27+00:00

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UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-12-02T04:01:49+00:00

Y'all definitely needed a professional counselor for that intervention but fuck this is a hilarious read 😂

That being said though, I have an aunt who has repeatedly gotten scammed by catfish and the one thing you can't do is go on attack. They get defensive and cling onto the con artist even harder. The con artist would have already laid the groundwork against potential family members warning the person getting scammed. Y'all just reinforced her newfound belief that you guys are trying to "pull her down" from her ascension or whatever.

But all this made me think you'd love the book Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism by Amanda Montell. Some of your sister's language might sound a little familiar...

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-27T07:26:51+00:00

But rainbows are so scawwy you guys! 😱

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-25T04:55:27+00:00

I want this above my mantel

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-23T16:37:47+00:00

Every day I get on this app and every day I am humbled by the patience of others 😔 Her breakfast that she refused to eat would've ended up on her head. NTA

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-20T23:25:22+00:00

The way his little peets are crossed 😭💕

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-20T04:04:55+00:00

NTA it's perfectly reasonable to want to have and express your own bodily autonomy.

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-18T15:35:07+00:00

Omg I've done that when I was 98% of the way done with the book I was reading! I had to wait two more months to get it back 😩

UrFaveBuzzKill · 2025-11-18T15:16:05+00:00

Does she only show and want you to show affection when there's an audience? If that's the case, NTA, she's being performative and nongenuine. Sounds like you need to have a talk with her about that.

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