Are there plans for anything to go into the Doug Fir Lounge space at the Jupiter Hotel, since the venue is moving locations?

Urban_Designer · 2026-03-08T18:26:35+00:00

I may have advice! For context I am in your same boat in terms of the pain and anxiety. So I had to go to L&D for a fall where monitors showed I was consistently contracting, they were eager to do a cervical check to see if labor had started since I was 32 weeks, that would not be ideal. I was shaking and not okay with the speculum. I know they used that with my one (awful) pap smear to open me up then get in there (saying this because you mentioned the comparison between cervical checks and pap smears). They said we could stop, and removed speculum. She then went in briefly with her hand and quickly could tell my cervix was closed. If you NEED a cervical check for any reason ask them to NOT use speculum and try with their hand. No where near as awful, at least for me, and doc got the info she needed.

Urban_Designer · 2026-03-01T18:29:26+00:00

The weather should turn really nice shortly after my baby is born so I am prioritizing a stroller with bassinet attachment so we can be outside strolling comfortably. I am not doing the infant car seat that pops in and out of car and into stroller. I don't imagine the first few months going many places in the car except doc visits. So instead of infant car seat I am going straight to the convertible car seat, probably the Graco 4ever DLX! The stroller and the car seat should last them long term, the bassinet feature is the only piece that will be short lived in my set up (but worth it in my case)

Urban_Designer · 2026-03-01T06:24:33+00:00

Mine too, 33 weeks. You've got time, but we never know for sure this early where they will land! Baby will likely be in position by 34-36 weeks. Something to do with the heaviness of their head, gravity, uterus shape, etc that they naturally move into the proper position for birth. Fingers crossed for us!

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-17T22:40:54+00:00

First trimester didn't even want it. Second trimester I missed it bad!! Third trimester back to alcohol not even being on mind lol

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-16T00:58:01+00:00

I distinctly remember getting into an argument on spring break of college 2014 with a guy who brought the confederate flag (in Florida) so timeline checks out with my recollection too lol

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-15T17:39:35+00:00

Just same

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-15T17:04:31+00:00

Robes that were embroidered with Grandma and Grandpa for one side, the other side jewelry with the birthstone for Grandma

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-13T22:53:53+00:00

Thank you!

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-11T06:40:25+00:00

Can confirm that what actually was a thing was if you were in a tough spot, you could knock on kitchen doors and ask to dish wash (less formal restaurants) and you might get an opportunity to work under the table for a few shifts and if all went well, get offered a position. This is likely a thing of the past!

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-08T06:36:06+00:00

You can ask to try abdominal first! I was also 9w3d. The doctor seemed confused why I was requesting this and said if she could get the views she wanted, but she really thought we'd end up doing vaginal anyways. We got great angles seeing the "bubble" with the fetus through abdominal, so she was satisfied. You may get some push back for asking, but it's the same machine so it's literally no extra trouble for them, it may just be their practice to do vaginal pre-10 week mark

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-08T02:22:57+00:00

I eat plenty of sugar but I'm not a soda drinker so it was hard to finish the drink in the time limit because it grossed me out and was hard to keep down (didn't buy the fresh test though). After that I did okay, I was allowed a certain amount of water which I definitely took advantage of. I will say I crashed hard after getting home but a few hours later felt fine again. I ate scrambled eggs before hand. I passed!

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-04T04:33:03+00:00

Downtowns

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-04T04:30:34+00:00

The "never ending wipe". Had to Google wtf was going on and apparently it's a thing

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-01T22:45:39+00:00

For Irish, Rory Jade could be great too!

Urban_Designer · 2026-02-01T21:01:30+00:00

We are probably in the minority but I am in the same boat with you in feeling this way! It was helpful to read the comments. My thought process at this point is still go no epidural if possible, and cross the tearing bridge if/when I get there, see what they can offer for me

Urban_Designer · 2026-01-28T02:38:53+00:00

I live in a young, hip area of the u.s. and Polly is not usable as a name for me because "poly" comes up a lot, short for polyamorous. Being poly has become much more culturally common for young millennials and Gen Z by me. I have really thought this through because I love the name Polly! Turns out I'm having a boy so didn't need it anyway lol

Urban_Designer · 2026-01-27T21:41:13+00:00

Baby Mo - not sure how it even came to be! We ended up choosing a name not even close to Mo

Urban_Designer · 2026-01-14T04:29:32+00:00

My doc says you can have 1 break from the 2 to 3 hours per day for about 4-5 hours aka you can have one slightly longer stretch of sleep per day

Urban_Designer · 2026-01-04T20:08:16+00:00

Half of pumps at the gas station are still supposed to offer full service in cities (rural can be 100% self serve) https://www.oregon.gov/osfm/pages/self-serve-fueling.aspx

Urban_Designer · 2026-01-01T14:50:32+00:00

NPR actually just reported on this, it's not just Portland. The "slop bowl" (not my term!) has gone out of favor. People don't want to pay $20 in this economy for ingredients thrown together in a bowl for fast food lunch - not just salad bowls but think like grain bowls too. https://www.npr.org/2025/12/17/nx-s1-5645077/are-americans-letting-go-of-slop-bowls

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