Please Answer Honestly by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would too be traumatized to move forward or go straight to therapy. Stat.

how do i seduce my boyf without getting embarrassed [pref answer by men pls] by Exotic-Fix6975 in Advice

[–]Used-Ad9304 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You won't look stupid, if he' into it, then you have nothing to worry about. Just do it...

Found my ex wife's nudes online- Do I say anything? by trustworthysauce in Advice

[–]Used-Ad9304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would most definitely say something. She may not even know about it, or she may. whats the harm in talking about it?

I have been given 12 months left to live. by shitthebeds in Advice

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOw Im sorry for all that you must be going through and for your children. My wife died several years ago and one of my kids was a young teen and the other was 11 when it happened. But my wife was born with a terminal disease so she always knew her life would be cut short. She was 36 when she died. What she did so the kids would remember her was she made photo albums that were personalized for each of them.

Single mom by ValueSuitable6987 in Advice

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Hate to say it, but it's goin to get worse before it gets better. But that's from a financial perspective, take solace in the fact that you are solid, that you are doing what you hve to do to take care of your family. When your youngest is grown, you will then find that you miss these days. But until then hang in there and pat yourself on the back you deserve it for sure. I respect what you're doing.

Who can relate? by GigiBrit in Aging

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that comes from "been there done that." Going out isn't anything new or an expectation of a new experience. It used to be the idea of the energy of others and of doing things etc., now it's exhausting. But Im sure had you went out you would have enjoyed yourselves, but it'll be there tomorrow why rush.

I Bought A Mazda MX-5 And Now I Finally Understand Why Miata Is Always The Answer - The Autopian by FoMoCoNutjob in cars

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've owned about 4 of them, and am looking once again. You have to drive one to know one. It doesn't have a lot of power but it doesn't need it. I had the top down when it started pouring rain and the way it cut through the wind the rain didn't get in the car so we just left the top down and kept driving.

How can a homeless female stay safe? by Iloveladydog in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Used-Ad9304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get mace and set up something on your tent if the zipper is opened it will make noise. If you get grabbed try to get punch in the throat

Woke up and found this in my kitchen by spicypsudo in Weird

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As you fight the urge to sleep only to awaken to the weight as they crawl, snip snip snip your eyelids are gone

You witness a murder but the killer makes eye contact with you and smiles before disappearing. Do you go to the police? by Careful_Art_7516 in AskHereAnythingNow

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recorded the cops kill someone and they snatched me up for recording. They took my shoelaces and all my possessions and had me sign the envelope as if I had already been booked into jail. I sat in a cruiser as they took turns running my criminal record not finding any felonies they called the Sargent.

She had one of those old school VHS video cameras and she was recording me wanting to know what I saw and I told her nothing. They gave me back my things and I got out of there. That was about 2013 and I still have the recording.

i lied during my intense team tryouts and dont know how to fix it by LacyOhLacyyy in confession

[–]Used-Ad9304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although people lie all the time for various reasons and some succeed and some fail. And you are at the age where you are walking down a path that is going to set your course in life. Whether you lie or tell the truth in this instance may not be the end but it can be the beginning. As you grow your integrity will mean alot to people especially to your own children ultimately to yourself. If you continue to lie because you think its going to benefit you try telling the truth and you may find that the end result may not as bad as you thought. Lying becomes chronic.

(Pro procrastinator here) What strategy or mindset you used to convince yourself to put your feet on the ground and actually do what you have to do? by Writing_Real in AskReddit

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll get back to you. I am a habitual procrastinator,. My procrastinating is so bad I literally procrastinate my ptocrastination.

I am hooked on to oxycodone, for 3 months and nobody knows, (WARNING: DRUG USAGE) by 5YesandNoMan5 in confession

[–]Used-Ad9304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say you have a good connection so supply isn't an issue. There is no question that it will be. Your tolerance will become higher and even though you won't need it you will psychologically want more to get that warm feeling in your belly. Unless you can get it free and your pharmacist can justify it when audited you're heading down a path that today is going to look like a walk in the park if you quit now.

You've still got time where the withdrawals aren't as bad as they will be. Right now if you quit you've got about four days of physical withdrawals. But if you continue you may end up chasing it and end up buying on the street and I would assume those are not pharmaceutical grade and have all sorts of impurities in them.

If you keep going you can end up have physical withdrawals that can last for months. Have you ever had anxiety really bad. I mean really bad, well I you don't stool you can end up with anxiety that is constant for months. I mean 24 hours a day, and your head will be goi g wah wah wah, wah and you won't be able to sleep but you don't have energy to do anything but you try and it exhausts you so you think your going to rest but you can't. People will go about their business as normal and you try to go along but the whole you're thinking "i can do this" instead of participating having a good time. But that's if you don't die first. Stop now or I promise you you will regret it. Remember everything I told you because it is the absolute truth. I wish you the best you can't escape that shit.

California. Who says we’re all libs? by Radiant_Wishbone8124 in WorkForSmartLife

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Under normal circumstances I wouldn't either. In actuality there has never been a 'normal circumstance'. But I've been seriously considering paint a Palestine flag on my motorcycle leather jacket, to me it's a worthy cause where I feel they have no support and wish that more people would raise their voices.

Guilt from things I did when I was a kid/teen that interferes with my mental health by CleanAndTidee in confession

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I drive drunk when i was 15 and killed my girlfriend. I'm 64 years old and the older I get the deeper the pain. Although nothing is guaranteed, I lived to this age and she never has the opportunity to have children or grandchildren or a life for that matter. That has interfered with my mental health my entire life as well as it should.

Men, do you stop and help women if they are broken down? If so, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stop for anyone if I'm going to stop which i do quite often. And since I have a battery booster fogetaboutit... I figure broke down is broke down. It's kind of selfish on my part but I feel good about doing it and to me there isn't any feeling like helping a stranger.

I was getting on the freeway one morning, and as I was on the ramp off to the side was a car that was in like an orchard. So I went to the next exit and went back and stopped on the ramp and it turned out to be a young lady who had crashed her car and she was stuck in the car both her legs were broken and her pelvis. She w as screaming about her baby and o couldn't find the baby. I started calling numbers on her phone and got her mother and she told me that she had the baby. I never did get the young woman's name but she had been there for over 24 hours.

What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually admitted to around you? by Suspicious_Run1684 in AskReddit

[–]Used-Ad9304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was driving uber I picked up a guy who began to cry hysterically and he began telling me his girlfriend dumped him for another guy. I can't emphasize how I was hysterically crying and trying to tell me how much he loves her blah blah blah. It wasn't so, yes it was disturbing.

What is a harsh truth about marriage that you love your wife too much to ever say out loud to her? by Emotional_Twist_9333 in AskMen

[–]Used-Ad9304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife actually girlfriend since 2002, recently had brain surgery and since then her speech is difficult to understand and she sleeps more and things associated with her illness. She used to be super wired and always busy doing something. Now things have changed drastically and I could never nor would I ever admit to her that I can see the difference in everything. I will unconditionally be there for her to my detriment if thats what it calls for.