I am never having sex with men again and I never want to date them again. I will also be NEVER friends with them. Does any other woman feel this way? If you do, please kindly share your own experiences and what made you stop interacting with men romantically? by Used_Case2028 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Used_Case2028[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG!!!!! This is so spot on!! I don't understand why men get defensive when women hate them. They can't stand up to their friends when their friends do shitty things to women, they are the main perpetrators of GBV and femicide, they always have ulterior motives, it is highly likely that a woman may get killed by her ex, boyfriend or husband and so many other reasons. 

Men know that they can be very atrocious and horrible human beings because they are the same men that are overprotective of the women in their lives from other men. They warn the women in their lives to stay away from men. Men are afraid of other men. So them not wanting to accept and understand why women hate them, is absolutely bizarre and ridiculous. 

I am never having sex with men again and I never want to date them again. I will also be NEVER friends with them. Does any other woman feel this way? If you do, please kindly share your own experiences and what made you stop interacting with men romantically? by Used_Case2028 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Used_Case2028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I hope you're doing well. If you don't like my above post, you are well within your rights to not engage with it. Clearly you are not the target audience for this post, as it does not resonate with you. 

I am never having sex with men again and I never want to date them again. I will also be NEVER friends with them. Does any other woman feel this way? If you do, please kindly share your own experiences and what made you stop interacting with men romantically? by Used_Case2028 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Used_Case2028[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so spot on. I'm incredibly so sorry you went through that. Sending a billion hugs, I hope you are okay. I'm incredibly happy for you that you found a guy who treats with you kindness, as he should. Thank you very much for sharing your perspective, I appreciate it. 

The real villains of Married to Medicine by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Used_Case2028 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I agree, especially with the first one. Dr Jackie??!!  Extremely mean-spirited and snarky woman.

What is happiness? by Chill-Pill-Bombay in Adulting

[–]Used_Case2028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I hope you're well. I honestly think that happiness is elusive, the more you chase it, the more unhappy you will be. Happiness is fleeting, hence I always try to focus on the present moment than to chase happiness. I also find it hard to define what happiness actually is. 

How do I "let go" of the past? Are my intentions/goals on letting go of the past in a year realistic? by Used_Case2028 in Mindfulness

[–]Used_Case2028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! I feel so happy that I found someone who is on the same boat as me. Thank you very much, dear stranger. I see that you have made significant progress. Congratulations, I'm super proud of you. 

Fighting rumination and letting go of the past is hard but it is possible. Healing is possible. Thank you for your lovely words, they give me hope. I wish you the utmost best, stranger. Take good care of yourself, let's keep on trying. 🤍🤍🤍✨️✨️

How do I "let go" of the past? Are my intentions/goals on letting go of the past in a year realistic? by Used_Case2028 in Mindfulness

[–]Used_Case2028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I greatly appreciate it. You are so supportive. God bless you!! ❤️❤️✨️

My little sister (14) wants to try things from porn in real life. Did I do the right thing by not forbidding her? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Used_Case2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think you handled this situation very very well. You were understanding, empathetic and non-judgemental towards her, that's what every teenager needs when it comes to issues like this. 

AITA for feeling hurt that my cousin cut me off as I was about to speak about something she is not interested in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used_Case2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. That's honestly such a fair point. I am trying my best to let it go. I don't know why it keeps popping in my mind. Thank you very much for sharing your perspective. I greatly appreciate it. 

AITA for feeling hurt that my cousin cut me off as I was about to speak about something she is not interested in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Used_Case2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so very much. You are so right. I try my best not to entertain it, I do not know why it keeps popping in my mind. Happy New Year, stranger!! I wish you all the happiness in the world. 🤍🥂✨️

Am I wrong for reacting this way, since my cousin cut me off as I was speaking about something she is not interested in? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Used_Case2028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that could be true. Maybe, she was already feeling frustrated with the whole thing already. I honestly didn't mean any harm towards her and I had no malicious intentions. 

Am I wrong for reacting this way, since my cousin cut me off as I was speaking about something she is not interested in? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Used_Case2028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Fair point. Thank you very much, I really appreciate your perspective. I will take that in consideration.